I don't see how used to be a boy is offensive. She did used to be a boy and still is if she has not fully transitioned. I get that gender is on a spectrum but sex is not, you are either male (have a penis) or female (have a vagina) so yes if she had a penis and no longer does she used to be a boy in terms of sex. I wish soaps wouldn't get involved in this **** because sometimes they preach false truths. Gender/sex are not the same thing. Yashvi is right she did "used to be a boy". My ex girlfriend (still a close friend of mine) identifies as a man now but that doesn't mean he was ever my ex boyfriend.
Also as stated early Transgenderism is not a mental illness, however to transition to being transgender you have to have gender disphoria which is a mental illness.
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