If the powers at be want Ross and Debbie to be together then they are going to have to stop her being so uptight and boring. Obviously they had to write her that way as she was leaving for a bit. But they wont work if she is still the same as before. Ross will never change. But he still has done a pretty good job with Moses even though he is still doing dodgy stuff. He could keep the family life that Debbie wants separate.