No need to apologise!
I must admit I'm not sure what all that stuff about Phil knowing Ben was gay was all about. It feels like a bit of a retcon. Are supposed to think Phil knew Ben was gay but was in denial about it as Ben grew up because he wanted him to follow in his footsteps as a tough guy and bully?(Phil obviously doesn't understand that gay men can be tough and bullies too...)
At least Ben was angry with Kathy for several days before they reconciled. Ian just accepted it all straight away! I really can't understand his attitude at all and hope there's more strife to come between them.
I think Kathy's explanation of Gavin's abuse has played a large part in why both of her sons reconciled with her more quickly than would otherwise be expected. The trouble is I don't feel we viewers have heard enough of the details to yet be convinced.






(Phil obviously doesn't understand that gay men can be tough and bullies too...)
