How Was Your Day VI

[Perdita]

Your mum will also feel uneasy about you leaving home, so her nagging is just a symptom. It is quite hard to let go when the brood is grown up and leaving the nest

[DaVeyWaVey]

Your mum will also feel uneasy about you leaving home, so her nagging is just a symptom. It is quite hard to let go when the brood is grown up and leaving the nest

Yeah we just had a chat now and it's made us both feel better.

[Tannie]

I managed to miss my doctors appointment yesterday so may have to make another one to see if it's possible for me to see a councellor.

I'm sitting here nearly in tears the only reason i'm not crying is cause i'm sat in the living room. My mum asked me if i wanted her to complete a form for debenhams over the net and i said yeah and she asked me questions which were on the application and i didn't know and my dad started having a go at me.

Now i feel really useless

[Perdita]

The fact you are posting on here and sharing your experience with us proves that you are not useless. You should make another appointment with the doctor to get to see a counsellor. You might like to try the herbal remedy St Johns Wort, which you can get in health food shops. A doctor recommended them to me before when I was depressed and they really helped me cope with what life was throwing at me at the time. It takes a couple of weeks taking them before you feel the effect but they might help you until you see a counsellor. Your dad probably does not know how to help you and is covering by having a go at you, I am sure he does not really mean it and loves you. Good luck with the application form and remember, we are all here for you xxx

[Kirsty :]]

My posts are so depressing lately, sorry in advance. cue rant.

I finally got paid, cash in hand.. but I got my pay this evening, even though I was supposed to be paid yesterday. I then also got told that tonight they were closing the restaurant doors for good, I have no job.

I wish I had more notice to say goodbye to everyone I worked with. I loved them all to bits and I just hope we stay friends, though I don't know if I'm more annoyed about actually losing my job, or the fact that Adam didn't say goodbye. Everything is going down the pan and I'm lost.

I also cried today because I had really horrible customers, what a good last day eh?

[Abbie]

Is that what he couldnt tell you? That they were closing, I really had no idea they were closing. Im really sorry to hear that

[Kirsty :]]

Yeah that was the big secret he was keeping. I had no idea myself. I'm going to miss the people more than anything. That's whats upsetting me lol

[Abbie]

I cant believe they didnt give you more notice!

[Kirsty :]]

We were lucky, though some of the staff still don't even know as they haven't even had a phonecall yet! But the Bridgend store they closed had 1 hours notice.. they could still re-open they say, but tbh.. I don't think any of us would ever go and work for them again. So unreliable.

[Abbie]

Thats sounds quite bad!

I picked up my wages today, my mum will have to pick them up next week which will be a nice big wage packet, at least If I feel crap at uni I have that to look forward to