How Was Your Day VI

[di marco]

im really worried about my grandad. he came out of hospital last wednesday even though his leg was still really swollen and purple and hes in so much pain but they told him to go home even though they hadnt got the results back from the scan and still didnt know what was wrong with him. yesterday my gran called my mum to get her to take them up casualty cos his leg was bleeding and wouldnt stop! they were up there about 5hrs and all they did was tell him he needed to see some sort of surgeon but that would take at least 4weeks! my grans really really worried cos all she can think about is that hes gonna lose his leg (cos a few people helpfully in the hospital told her thats what their leg looked like before they lost it! ) and that he will be really miserable cos he likes going out places and walking around and stuff and would hate sitting at home all day but the hospital seem to be really really useless and they have a habit of leaving things til its too late even though they would have been easily treatable! my dad said that if he has to wait too long to see the surgeon then he will pay for him to go private cos with his work he gets free health insurance for us 4 and you can get it cheaper through his work if you go private but my grandad doesnt like making a fuss

[di marco]

Kim you're right, after an accident you can claim as long as it's within 3 years.

yeh it is 3yrs cos when this cyclist rode into my mum really fast straight off the path while she was waiting at a juntion she was told he could make a claim against her for up to 3yrs if he wanted even though it wasnt her fault as it was her car he hit into! it sounds though like they are just trying to get money out of it anyway they can! surely if they were injured they would claim asap, why should you be able to decide 3yrs later that you were injured enough?!

I've got an interview for College tomorrow, well.... in about 9 hours, I am briking it... I don't even know what to wear! I suck at interviews

hope the interview went well

[di marco]

I don't even know if its any of my business or what I should say. Basically Sam has a new girlfriend (according to facebook) and I don't know if it's a good idea. His ex cheated on him a couple of months ago and left him heartbroken. I last talked to him a few weeks ago and he said he couldn't be with anyone for a long time because he's still in love with her

I am worried that he's going to fall back into what he had with his ex and it will all go belly up again. I don't know this lass and he hasn't told me himself yet. Do I say I'm pleased for him that he's moving on or that it's too soon or it's not a good idea? I don't know what I think to it to be honest. On the one hand I'm very happy that he's moving on and forgetting about Becki but I also know that he's not forgotten what she did to him and I'm worried it could be a bit of fun that is going to hurt him more.

I'm not in the habit of telling people what to do but I am concerned given what happened in his last two relationships and what it did to him. I know he's not over Becki and that he can't have a no strings relationship. It's either all or nothing.

Maybe he hasn't told me because he's scared of my reaction. Usually when he's had a girl or gone on a date he'll tell me the next day (whether I want to know or not).

All that said, I miss him immensely Maybe I'm slightly jealous because I've been thinking of everything that happened between us. But I don't want him and I never did. So jealousy doesn't even come into it.

Maybe I'll just wait for him to tell me then base my reaction on what he says


Edit: Sorry for the long ramble. It's been whizzing round my head since I saw it and I just don't know what to think of it.

youve probably worked this out now already, but id leave it til he says anything to you. although you have the best intentions as youre worried about him getting hurt again, lots of the time people dont see that and its not worth getting into an argument over it

[Perdita]

im really worried about my grandad. he came out of hospital last wednesday even though his leg was still really swollen and purple and hes in so much pain but they told him to go home even though they hadnt got the results back from the scan and still didnt know what was wrong with him. yesterday my gran called my mum to get her to take them up casualty cos his leg was bleeding and wouldnt stop! they were up there about 5hrs and all they did was tell him he needed to see some sort of surgeon but that would take at least 4weeks! my grans really really worried cos all she can think about is that hes gonna lose his leg (cos a few people helpfully in the hospital told her thats what their leg looked like before they lost it! ) and that he will be really miserable cos he likes going out places and walking around and stuff and would hate sitting at home all day but the hospital seem to be really really useless and they have a habit of leaving things til its too late even though they would have been easily treatable! my dad said that if he has to wait too long to see the surgeon then he will pay for him to go private cos with his work he gets free health insurance for us 4 and you can get it cheaper through his work if you go private but my grandad doesnt like making a fuss

That is awful, dm Get your grandad to go private if you can, I would not wait around knowing the hospital is as useless as you state, especially if a delay in treatment could cost him life quality. Unfortunately too many people, especially the elderly, do not want to make a fuss when they really need to. Hope that your grandad gets sorted out quickly.

[di marco]

im really worried about my grandad. he came out of hospital last wednesday even though his leg was still really swollen and purple and hes in so much pain but they told him to go home even though they hadnt got the results back from the scan and still didnt know what was wrong with him. yesterday my gran called my mum to get her to take them up casualty cos his leg was bleeding and wouldnt stop! they were up there about 5hrs and all they did was tell him he needed to see some sort of surgeon but that would take at least 4weeks! my grans really really worried cos all she can think about is that hes gonna lose his leg (cos a few people helpfully in the hospital told her thats what their leg looked like before they lost it! ) and that he will be really miserable cos he likes going out places and walking around and stuff and would hate sitting at home all day but the hospital seem to be really really useless and they have a habit of leaving things til its too late even though they would have been easily treatable! my dad said that if he has to wait too long to see the surgeon then he will pay for him to go private cos with his work he gets free health insurance for us 4 and you can get it cheaper through his work if you go private but my grandad doesnt like making a fuss

That is awful, dm Get your grandad to go private if you can, I would not wait around knowing the hospital is as useless as you state, especially if a delay in treatment could cost him life quality. Unfortunately too many people, especially the elderly, do not want to make a fuss when they really need to. Hope that your grandad gets sorted out quickly.

thanks i think the reason my grandad doesnt wanna make a fuss is cos he thinks my gran is already making too much of a fuss. my mum said she will go with them everytime now so that she can make sure something is getting done. the state of the hospital is shocking, but whats more shocking is the fact its apparently in the top 40 in the country!

[Katy]

I hope your grandad is ok Di m.

I really want a job now, i am so bored with nothing to do and having no money sucks.

[Abigail]

I'm listing things on ebay. I haven't bought or sold for over a year and now my feedback percentage has gone down to 0% It was 100% before. I don't understand that. Maybe it will go back to 100% when I put the items on.

[Kirsty :]]

Di M thats awful! I hope your Grandad is better soon and that the hospital buck up their ideas!

Haha interview didn't turn out to be an interview... the lady told me that theres basically no point in me re-doing my A Levels because my grades are respectable anyways, so she referred me to the careers advisor who was lovely and I explained about management but I didn't know how to get into it. So we looked throught he prospectus and found Hospitality and Hotel management... which is perfect for me! So we went to that department and the lady I needed to speak to wasn;t in so I spoke to someone else and she said my grades sound fine, so I filled out another application form for that course, so now I just have to wait for another interview haha

I'm hitting the gym tonight, I've decided I have a week and a half to do as much as I can so that when Adam comes back to work (he's got a week and a half off) I'll make him see what he's missing! It's the only way I can think of getting myself back on track.

[Perdita]

Great news about you getting into hospitality and hotel management, good luck with the interview but it sounds promising.
You go for it girl and show this Adam what he is missing, best way to get them fellas noticing you

[Tannie]

Hope your Grandad gets better Dm

I have no motivation what so ever today. Still got to tidy my room. But even if it's up to my standards my mum still goes "you've still to finish it off" just cause it ain't up to her standards. She hardley ever comes in my room to be honest so why does it have to be up to her standards?

Waiting for Amy to come round i want to do something but don't know what cause it look's like the weather can't make up it's mind i don't want to sit in and sit on my laptop all afternoon cause i always seem to be doing that. plus i can't seem to get John out my mind for some reason urgh! Going to have to have such a good time that i'll forget him