I totally agree but could you imagine being in those shoes - going from one big happy family (or so you thoght) a loving husband 2 daughters and a newborn baby only for it to change in a heartbeat by finding out he was apparently still in llove with his daughter in law only 2 months previously and had a 9 month (i think) affair with her. I think she sees it as a way to try to forget, shes totally lost at the minute and doesnt have a clue how to cope with life in general