i know this was posted a while ago and you might have got it sorted now, but in my experience dont get involved with guys who have girlfriends. im not going to go into great detail about why its not a good idea cos obviously its mostly just my opinion and you can do what you want, but does your friends girlfriend know about what he does with you? cos ive been in that situation and my friends girlfriend (and in all honestly i didnt actually know he had a girlfriend to start with) found out and went pyscho and wanted to beat me up (i doubt she would have succeeded lol but thats not the point). basically what im trying to say is from experience ive learnt that messing around with someone who has a girlfriend makes things way too complicated and so its better off if you stay well clear. anyway you dont have to listen to me and as i said you might have already sorted it out anywayOriginally Posted by Abigail
We sat on a bench a talked for a bit then I got a message from another mate (we're friends with "benefits") saying he'd finished work and where was we meeting (prearranged). I wasn't in any fit state to go anywhere on my own so I ended up telling this lad about my arrangement with the "benefits" guy, including the fact that he has a girlfriend and I don't fancy him.
I'm so confused now. I have a friends with benefits guy who I don't fancy, a guy cracking on to me who I don't like and one of the lads that we went out with who I do fancy. Unfortunately he's at uni. I only realised last night when we were sat really close and talking. I really do like him, we get on really well and we were talking all night. I don't remember what I was saying though
