Your mum will also feel uneasy about you leaving home, so her nagging is just a symptom. It is quite hard to let go when the brood is grown up and leaving the nest :)
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Your mum will also feel uneasy about you leaving home, so her nagging is just a symptom. It is quite hard to let go when the brood is grown up and leaving the nest :)
Yeah :) we just had a chat now and it's made us both feel better. :thumbsup:Quote:
Originally Posted by Perdita
I managed to miss my doctors appointment yesterday so may have to make another one to see if it's possible for me to see a councellor.
I'm sitting here nearly in tears the only reason i'm not crying is cause i'm sat in the living room. My mum asked me if i wanted her to complete a form for debenhams over the net and i said yeah and she asked me questions which were on the application and i didn't know and my dad started having a go at me.
Now i feel really useless :crying:
The fact you are posting on here and sharing your experience with us proves that you are not useless. You should make another appointment with the doctor to get to see a counsellor. You might like to try the herbal remedy St Johns Wort, which you can get in health food shops. A doctor recommended them to me before when I was depressed and they really helped me cope with what life was throwing at me at the time. It takes a couple of weeks taking them before you feel the effect but they might help you until you see a counsellor. Your dad probably does not know how to help you and is covering by having a go at you, I am sure he does not really mean it and loves you. Good luck with the application form and remember, we are all here for you :) xxx
My posts are so depressing lately, sorry in advance. cue rant.
I finally got paid, cash in hand.. but I got my pay this evening, even though I was supposed to be paid yesterday. I then also got told that tonight they were closing the restaurant doors for good, I have no job.
I wish I had more notice to say goodbye to everyone I worked with. I loved them all to bits and I just hope we stay friends, though I don't know if I'm more annoyed about actually losing my job, or the fact that Adam didn't say goodbye. Everything is going down the pan and I'm lost.
I also cried today because I had really horrible customers, what a good last day eh?
Is that what he couldnt tell you? That they were closing, I really had no idea they were closing. Im really sorry to hear that
Yeah that was the big secret he was keeping. I had no idea myself. I'm going to miss the people more than anything. That's whats upsetting me lol
I cant believe they didnt give you more notice!
We were lucky, though some of the staff still don't even know as they haven't even had a phonecall yet! But the Bridgend store they closed had 1 hours notice.. they could still re-open they say, but tbh.. I don't think any of us would ever go and work for them again. So unreliable.
Thats sounds quite bad!
I picked up my wages today, my mum will have to pick them up next week which will be a nice big wage packet, at least If I feel crap at uni I have that to look forward to :p
Im off to uni soon! :p
I'm still alive, just had a manic freshers week, so tired now and think i may get the dreaded freshers flu., It has been a great week though, even if i am so tired, going to be a hock going to lectures tomorrow!
Meant to be going orienteering later but i can hardly move! Dreading my phone bill, its going to be a fortune.
A couple of my flatmates have freshers flu!
I hate booking trains! My uni added an extra day to my timetable in the time since I booked my tickets so now I have to go in Friday which means I can't leave on Thursday which means...I have to change/cancel the ticket....apparently this incurs a £10 charge! Its cheaper for me to book another ticket and forget about the first one..Grr!! £9.55 down the pan. :thumbsdow So I have only one whole day at home instead of two..:( Sucks!
At least the bbciplayer is working at last I can watch Casualty. :)
I went to the evening church service to clear my head tonight and ran into the one person I've been avoiding all weekend. I had that blood running cold feeling when I saw him, which was kinda awkward. We went for something to eat afterwards but it was strange. He said he never goes to the evening service but something told him to tonight, which is sweet and also slightly worrying at the same time. At least he didn't go all out and say God told him to go.
Seeing him in church was like seeing an ex. You really want to see them but on the other hand you don't want to see the look on their face when they see you. He sat at the back of the church for the whole service and never said anything, although I did wonder if he was there.
I don't know where our relationship is going. All I know is that I'm driving us apart with a lack of communication on my part.
Had an ok day today. Spent the morning crying in my room but then I pushed myself and got out and spoke to people and made two friends, Jade and Louise. I spent most of the day with them and hopefully I will be seeing them tomorrow.
I also met this other guy who's on the same course as me. He offered me umm sex.. but I declined. He's gorgeous though but I'm not in the right state of mind at the moment and not interested in one offs!
Well that was a strange proposition to say you've just met him. Did he just come out with "shall we have sex?"
I'm pleased you're making friends. Uni is a huge life change for anyone, it's natural to feel a bit homesick and disoriented.
We met at the Arts lecture. We got talking and he said he was trying to pull people and that we should go and pull some girls, but I said I wasn't too interested in pulling women, then he just said we could always hook up and have sex if he had no luck with the women.Quote:
Originally Posted by Abigail
Todays been ok, College is picking up sloooooowly.
I got my car back tonight too :D I shall be cleaning it when I get home from College tomorrow :D
Went out for a bit earlier for a bit of a drive with some company.
But I ahve yet again been so so stupid. I'll never learn
I am exhausted... started dance aerobics last night.. it was very full on.. have some exec at work today and I am like the walking wounded
Try the pineapple cure, hope it helps with your aches and pains :)
I forgot to get pineapple :rotfl::rotfl: I am not achey, just stiff.. no pain as yetQuote:
Originally Posted by Perdita
I had a rubbish night out, won't be going out with them again.
First lecture at 2pm and I feel awful. Didn't sleep much and now I've got to spend two hours listening to a talk on body fluids. Mine feel like they're going to be yakked up.
I went to the bar tonight with a group of people. I left early because I've got a busy day tomorrow and my friend just text to say that one of the guys who was with us likes me. He's called Rick and he's not bad looking.
So now I'm waiting for him to text. He's thinking of something according to my friend.
My two hour lecture lasted half an hour today :( Next week's is cancelled and the week after is another short one. I seriously wonder why I'm paying so much.
Aww bless thats sweet of him "thinking of something" aw gooozie :)
...i'm becoming a nun.. it's soooo much easier, plus it's not nice to be told that you were actually only there for one thing through the past 4 months or so. lovely stuff!...
College was actually really good today I enjoyed it :) we had a fire alark so we all had to go outside, and I kind of have a stalker, he's not a stalker lol.. his heart is in the right place bless him but I'm really not interested in him like that, plus on Facebook he can be quite forward which is a complete offput, but anyways... he saw me as I was walking back to class after the alarm and he literally jumped and threw his arms around me lol, the girls in my class had to make an excuse to get me away because he kept talking to me haha :)
Went to dancing... so wasn't feeling it, but I don't want to leave now I don't have a job... because then I wouldn't have anythign to do in the evenings. I don't know :/
My first two lectures went good, I think. Stuff I'm interested in so far. Got plenty of notes and typed them up this afternoon. I need to buy a couple of memory sticks so I have backups though.
I have lectures at 8.30 to 10.30 tomorrow! So early! :eek: And also same time on Thursday. Going to Oceana Fresher's ball tomorrow night. I think once a week is the most I'm going to be able to go out (to town at least), aside from money, I'm not going to have any time soon, I will have so much work to do! I have to cover 2 chapters a week from that maths book for the analytical skills classes. I just hope I manage to keep on top of everything! :p
I know how you feel Kasple. I'm determined to do two hours of study a week per module, which comes to 20 hours in total. That's more than a part time job (which I'm pleased I don't have).
I have a date with Rick on Friday :p I'm nervous but excited. I've never been on a "grown up" date before.
Good luck with the date on Friday. Abigail, I hope you have fun :)
good luck with the date. Im watching neighbours on catch up as its the first time i have had internet in my house.
My lectures dont start till 2 today and i have non stop till 6! not impressed! im sure itll be fine, there my first ones so hpopefully wont be too bad. THen this evening i am off to the fnn centre with the freshers.
I have a very sore face from gaelic football last night as i fell over and my chin and cheek broke my fall, they hurt today.
Ouch, sounds painful, Katy. Hope it heals quickly :)
not the best of days for me, split up my boyfriend, but on a positive note - me and my friends are out tonight to celebrate me being single again. much drinking and dancing to be had! :D :cheer:
I am sorry to hear you broke up with him.. are you ok? (well reading this you seem fine about it)Quote:
Originally Posted by Bryan
Sorry to hear this, Bryan. You know where we are if you need to mull things over :)
thanks both, im fine, it was just one of those things where it was just wasnt working out right and it was best to call it a day. I made the decision and im happy with it, it's for the best. i will never fully be able to trust anyone ever again but i can live with that.
Yoy did the right thing, if it did not feel right and was not working out the way you need it to, best get out of it. I am sure that in time you will be able to trust somebody again. xx :)
I second that... if it was not right then it best you leave now than leave later...Quote:
Originally Posted by Perdita
I'm sorry to hear things didn't work out with your boyfriend Bryan. There's no point continuing a relationship if its not going anywhere though.
I have had one hell of a day. If the chair of union council says one more time "that's not what it says in the constitution" I'll wrap the bloody constitution around her neck. Yes, we all know that the damn thing doesn't make sense, is out dated and incomplete but you don't need to point it out at every given opportunity. It's being rewritten in due course.
Bry, you will trust again, it just takes time.
Take care
x
is it wrong to have second thoughts when you make this kind of decisions? would it be insensative of me to take back what i said to him? :searchme: :(
It is quite normal to have second thoughts and doubts in this situation but do you think that the things that made you come to your decision to end the relationship will change for better or will you be back at the same point in 6 months time? If you said things to him that were hurtful you might want to apologise but make it clear that you don't want to re-start the relationship unless you are sure you want to. Perhaps you might think about sleeping on it for a night.
I honestly don't know where the mountain of work has come from :confused: I got the paperwork for council on Monday and I'm looking at some of the motions and wondering why they are even motions. So I need to research it before I go on Monday.
Assignments are piling up already and I'm getting stressed. Doesn't bode well for the rest of semester if I'm feeling like this three days in :lol: