It wouldn't annoy me so much if I knew that my friend didn't have a lot of money, but I know she has loads. I'd have much preferred a framed collage like one of my friends got from her friend who left the school; it seemed like a lot of time, effort and thought had gone into that, and only the frame would have actually cost money.

We don't agree budgets, but this is the first time that the money spent has not been about the same in terms of what we've given out and what we've got from that person.