Confused

[CrazyLea]

Hello, well I am very confused. Didn't really want to post this on here, as I feel slightly embarrased, but can't talk to any of my mates either, so didn't know who to talk to.. don't judge me..

Well there's this girl on my course who I think I fancy.. a lot.
- I think about her all the time.
- We text all the time, like every day, so that doesn't help.
-Everyone jokingly flirts in our class, so that doesn't help either (it's all girls lmfao).
- In Disney there was three of us lying on the bed, and she was was lying on me and stroking my hand, so that didn't help either.
- Then on the bus I was lying on her and this other girl, and she was stroking my hand again.. so yes that didn't help either lol .
- She phoned me last night when she was drunk saying she loved me and all.. so that really didn't help either.


But seriously I think of her all the time. She's just so amazing.

But at the same time, I think I don't fancy her because I can't imagine doing anything with a girl other than kiss them.

Also, I fancy this guy as well... so I dunno whether I'm looking towards this girl because I just want someone?? But I don't know what to do, cause I just want her so much at the moment, yet I know I can NEVER have her!!!

HELP . Like I said.. don't judge me or anything lol..

I'm just SO confused!!!!

[Abi]

There is no reason why you have to do anything. If you are confused about your feelings, then just see what happens. If something did develop between the two of you, and you liked it, then just embrace it. I wouldn't advice instigating anything while you are confused about your feelings though. If something were to happen between the two of you, then let her be the one to start it properly, as you are confused. You don't want to start something, and then realise that you were wrong about your feelings.

[Perdita]

It is very normal to feel confused about relationships at some stage as a teenager, but as Abi has said, don't make any decisions while you feel this way.