Sorry to hear about your grandma, Spicy. Words seem sooo inadequate, but I'd say just be there for you mum, but you have also lost someone too, so its okay for you to grieve as well.
I lost my mother when I was young, and I found for the couple of months or so after she died, it hadn't hit me....it was actually later on that I started to feel my loss and started to grieve...it's then that you need people more than ever, I would say from my own experience.
Take care, and all that good stuff. We are here if you ever need to talk.
Thanking the fabulous TAbbie, for the banner! 
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