Hiya
Siobhan is listed clearly as a mod on both the rules of the site and under each forum that she mods (if you scroll to the bottom of the page within each, the mods are listed) She works full time, as well as moderate here, so she will be back to reply to you tomorrow morning no doubt.
But this forum is one of the only ones i belong to because everyone is so nice on here, and Siobhan is too - I think you may have taken her reply to you out of context slightly as we are all really nice
I wouldn't stick around long if we werent.