Well where do i start....just really looking for peoples opinion on this one - need someone from the outside of the sutiation.
When i was 11 my dad died two days after i was told that he wasnt my real father and my real dad had heard what had happened and wanted to meet up. I went along met him a few times but i found it hard and decided not to see him anymore because it was too soon after the death of the man i thought was my dad.
Recently as ive been getting older i started to get curious about him. me and friend decided to go and see if he lived at the same house and he did (saw him coming out).
Anyway last night i decided i was going to do it drove over and sat outside for a while could see there where vistors so didnt want to go in then. Just as i was driving out a girl came out of the house and called him dad.
This girl is my trainer in work i have no idea if she already know who i am or not.
but what i want to ask is - is she my way in? should i tell her who i am? or would it be better just to leave it until i get the courage up again to just go to his door? Or should i just wright a letter or something?
Your opinions would be a lot of help