Quote Originally Posted by Trinity View Post
Abigail, no. Just no.

I was prepared to give the guy the benefit of the doubt until I read this.

If you are content to be someone he sleeps with while he waits for someone else then you are seriously undervaluing yourself. I know that the term for this is **** buddies - and if you are both happy with that then I suppose that it would be okay. But you are not happy with that, you know that you are never going to be happy with that so I have to echo the comments above.

Get out of there before you get seriously hurt.

I too have T shirts from way back when before I met my husband, and I have to say this. The difference when you meet the right person is huge. You can be yourself, you feel happy without worrying about it, you can trust your partner totally, you know that they would never hurt you deliberately - there is a peace there as well as a passion.
Quote Originally Posted by Kirsty :] View Post
O hate to be the devil on the shoulder, actually... I won't be, I will tell you to please not make the mistake that I'm making now, because I feel nothing but hurt everytime I hear Phil talk about other girls he "would ride"... yes... that's right, purely because even though we agreed that what we're doing is fine for the both of us, deep down he knows how I feel... and I bet Rob knows deep down how you feel too, do you think he could be doing it to make you jealous??
Quote Originally Posted by Chloe O'brien View Post
Abigail from one mug who's been there, wrote the book, wears the t-shirt ect. Give this guy a wide-bearth. If he's texting or phoning another girl and thinking about having sex with her casual or not he's a sh1t cut your losses and blame sleeping with him on the beer goggles but don't fall for his charms again. If he tries it on with you tell him you're not going to be anyones bit on the side. Your worth more than that.
Thank you all for your replies. Since this happened I've been thinking a lot and I've come to the same conclusions. I'm sure we'll still remain friends but anything beyond that is not possible. I do still like him but I know I would be a fool to let anything happen. He's a guy, and like he said, "guys are there to screw women over."

I have my job interview tomorrow. I'm getting a bit nervous, I'm not sure I can impress them enough but we'll see. My first ever interview.