Quote Originally Posted by hannah-mj View Post
Right, Ive just read this whole thread, Just for emmie!

And right, Dawn I didnt know you were bi!! For starters lol.

Right, I have no problem ATALL with bi or gay people, I have 4 bi girl mates, 2 bi boy mates, who i suspect are just gay... [so camp] and i love them all to peices.

Im not bi..whatever emmie thinks! Lols.
Some people think i am bi, because when im with lads [yes even my boyfriend] and bi girls, i dont mind saying if a girl is nice looking or whatever, so some people think that weird, but im just comfortable with my sexuality. =]]

Emmie says i have whats called 'girl crushes'. I dont think i do...can someone explain what this is lol?


I dont know, one day i may be bi.. i doubt it.. Highly, but if i was, i wouldnt mind =]] T'is cool x
Well, how things change
I must've wrote this message over a year ago i assume, from the way i typed lol.

"I doubt it highly" I now far from doubt it highly.
It just goes to show that one person can really change your view on things, whereas some people are born bi/gay/lesbian, some peoples sexuality can be altered from what happens during there life.

Last year when i wrote that, i think it may have been even longer ago, but yeah, i had never even kissed a girl, and didnt think i would. I didnt see anything wrong with it, and was willing to try it, but just didnt think id ever 'get round to it'. But now some time on, i have definately kissed a girl, lot of girls infact, and so on..

But I still would not define myself as Bi, but as during the course of the last 1 or so years, i fell in love with a girl, totally out of my control. My experience truly does define the quote ''its not the gender you fall in love with, its the person'' and ''you cant help who you fall in love with''. I became very close to a friend, we fell in love, well i fell in love with her, not because she was a girl, but because i loved everything about her personality and who she was, i still do, but we are now no longer friends, i am not entirely sure why, heartbreaking it was/is, though. But i know that without meeting her i wouldnt have questioned my sexuality as much as i have done. Now i think is it just her? Or is it girls that i like? I know that i like boys, well i think i do. But i do question whether i like girls also.

The reason i would not class myself as bi though is because, I see being bi as more of a ''i like boys and girls'', whereas i would put myself in the open-minded category as i am more ''if it happens, it happens''.