Debs is not happy!

ive let stupid comments go over my head, louises alter ego has completely taken a battering, why she is bothering i really dont know! why any of the people left are boithering is a mystery,

its a game , some of you seem to have forgotten that

and feeling yellow, this bit has severly pissed me off tonight

00:52] Abi: right, i am going now Night all x

[00:52] feelingyellow: ems and debs going to die

[00:52] Abi: I got way too into sbbb..... note to self: get a grip...


that is not a very nice comment at all to make, and its is comments like that that really show the young/ old divide on soapboards!

I would like to take this post to apologise to both ems and debs. I was on shoutbox when this convo was taking place but was unaware of the personal problems that debs and ems were both suffering. It all began as a joke and I will personally hold my hands up to instigating the latest drama between louise and kyle in the sbbb house. I am writing this post to anyone who may be offended by any comments made whether they be in the shoutbox or in threads, that they give me grief and not any of the younger members of SB. I am the adult and I accept any resposibility of what happened in the shoutbox on Friday night. Once again I would really like to offer my apologies to both Ems and Debs and anyone else who may have been upset due to any comments made on Friday night

People need to start remembering that sbbb is a game...

But they also need to remember that people are playing these parts, trying to make things interesting for everyone and need to consider these peoples feelings prior to making remarks and comments.

Things that were said on shoutbox last night seemed personally aimed at Debs and myself, and although the parties involved have apologised, I feel this is exactly the way in which these boards have been heading, which is why I created the "Whats Happened" thread in the first instance...

what happened? Have i missed something? so kyle and louise are debs and em's then is that what your all saying?
In my opinion i think everyone is taking it a bit too seriously,the people who arent in it and the people who are,it is just a little game on a soapboards,its not real life so why is everyone getting so hyped..please explain?

I took it personally when it was remarked that: ems and debs are going to die - nothing to do with sbbb or anything else. - but that remark I took personally. Apologies have been made and accepted, so it should be left at that..

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Originally Posted by chance

what happened? Have i missed something? so kyle and louise are debs and em's then is that what your all saying?
In my opinion i think everyone is taking it a bit too seriously,the people who arent in it and the people who are,it is just a little game on a soapboards,its not real life so why is everyone getting so hyped..please explain?

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ive benn playing a game for 8 weeks, then last night someone said that i need to die!!!

i dont see this as taking it to seriously espically with the way i am feeling right now about death. Emmie didint know this but still not a nice thing to say to anyone.

hyped, because we been posting for this long, and now just getting ****e from others becuase they know who we are, or maybe its becuase we lasted this long and others havent. it does seem to be the other sbbb contestants who are doing all the comments

i dont know what happened here. i just want to say that i hope emz and debs are okay

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Originally Posted by debs

ive benn playing a game for 8 weeks, then last night someone said that i need to die!!!

i dont see this as taking it to seriously espically with the way i am feeling right now about death. Emmie didint know this but still not a nice thing to say to anyone.

hyped, because we been posting for this long, and now just getting ****e from others becuase they know who we are, or maybe its becuase we lasted this long and others havent. it does seem to be the other sbbb contestants who are doing all the comments

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Yes it was out of order for someone to say you both need to die.I dont understand what it was that caused them to say that,but it was totally out of order for them to say those things.especially at a time when you are both going through 'situations'

Why on earth would people be bothered if they didnt last too long thats what i dont get..its a game thats being taken to seriously,it's a shame people have to fall out over it.

when i first read this thread i didnt know what had happened so i read back through the shouts from last night. i think it was out of order what was said about debs and ems dying as i dont think jokes like that are ever funny. although, i read what yellow had to say explaining about it and i do think that it wasnt meant to be hurtful and i can see where her reasing is coming. however, im not sticking up for them as it wasnt a nice thing to say, but i think it was more of a stupid comment which was said without thinking rather than something which was meant to be hurtful and meant what was said. i think everyone who has been on sbbb has done a great job, but i dont think people should take it too seriously and they need to remember that the people in the sbbb house arent real, they are just characters being played by members on here. hopefully this will get sorted out and i hope debs and ems are ok now :)

yeah, i dont think emmie meant to hurt anyone. we joke about death a lot at school too, i guess teenagers my age don't really know how serious it is. again, i hope emz and debs are okay.

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yeah, i dont think emmie meant to hurt anyone. we joke about death a lot at school too, i guess teenagers my age don't really know how serious it is. again, i hope emz and debs are okay.

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not meaning to have a go but im a teenager and having recently lost a friend and an auntie i dont take the subject of death very lightly.

OK, can i just classify what i meant, when i said that second part in the bit Debs copied into her first post.

I had been talking about sbbb with Kath mainly, and i ended by saying i got way too much into sbbb, and because it wasn't even real, i should have really got a grip on myself!!

End of clarrification!!

Erm, well the other thing that was said- i wasn't even very aware of it being said at the time, but looking back, it was a wel out of order thing for her to have said, but i dont think it was exactly meant, like it sounded. If anyone thinks i sounded out of order in any part of that conversation, then sorry, but its being taken out of context. But still, i'll admit if i'm wrong :)

dont have a clue what this is about really but im sure the people didnt mean it in that way i have lost one of my grandads but if someone made a joke about death id only take it offensively if it was aimed on purpose at me, and im sure what emmie and any others said didnt mean to hurt anyone offensivly and whats the age thing about why has that come into it?

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Originally Posted by debs

ive let stupid comments go over my head, louises alter ego has completely taken a battering, why she is bothering i really dont know! why any of the people left are boithering is a mystery,

its a game , some of you seem to have forgotten that

and feeling yellow, this bit has severly pissed me off tonight

00:52] Abi: right, i am going now Night all x

[00:52] feelingyellow: ems and debs going to die

[00:52] Abi: I got way too into sbbb..... note to self: get a grip...


that is not a very nice comment at all to make, and its is comments like that that really show the young/ old divide on soapboards!

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I just re-read your post, and i completly understand why this upset you- i dont think i made this clear in my first post. I mean, i few years back my Dad died, so since then whenever people take the piss about death, it seriously annoys me. I think it was just said in haast though...

How come everyone's getting so stressed? SBBB is just a game, not real life.