its awful cause you relayy dont want to make the atmosphere uncomfortable when the girlfriends not there. So i understand how hard it is to try and breach the subject
Im out visiting my cousin later this afternoon which im looking forward to.
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its awful cause you relayy dont want to make the atmosphere uncomfortable when the girlfriends not there. So i understand how hard it is to try and breach the subject
Im out visiting my cousin later this afternoon which im looking forward to.
Ok, I brought it up with Gary about ten minutes ago. I said Caroline can't be at our house all the time, them canoodling on the sofa make me and Dan feel uncomfortable and she's inconsiderate towards certain things. He got defensive, said he doesn't see why his girlfriend can't come over and that she's not over as much as I'm making out. I said they could go over to her place. No, she doesn't like the people she lives with. Not my problem, she could put in for a transfer to other halls. No, that's too much work and she shouldn't have to. But we shouldn't have to put up with them all over each other. Well we'll tone it down and I'll try to get her to wash up more. The he said if we're going to have this conversation we should do it with Dan here. Agreed. To be continued...
Good luck x
Just keep calm at all times Abs, that way you will remember what you want to say.
Abigail have you spoke to Dan about this on your own? Does he feel the same as you, because the last thing you want is for Dan to turn round and say he's not bothered if Caroline is around or not. you need to make sure Dan is in agreement with you otherwise your going to be made out as some sh1t stirrer. As Moonie says keep calm, say your peace don't get uptight your in the right.
I spoke to Dan on Thursday night and he feels the same but he's not the sort of person who would say anything. I wish I hadn't brought it up now.
I really fancy this guy. I met him about November time and didn't see or speak to him again until a few weeks ago. Well now I can't stop thinking about him or wanting to see him :lol: I feel like a teenager again! We're going out for dinner tonight with a group of mutual friends. The first time we met I thought he was a bit strange as he kept staring at me. He put a kiss on the end of his last text, which he hadn't done before. I'm sitting here laughing at myself for getting excited over a kiss on a text.
Apart from that, everything is good :D Finished my project work so I've just got to analyse results and type my dissertation up.
What do you mean 'apart from that, every thing is good'!
That sounds pretty good too! Have a good time tonight :)
I meant aside from my sudden infatuation life is going pretty good I think. I don't think I said, I spoke to one of my lecturers the other day and he said if I carry on getting good grades this semester I will most likely come out with a first in my degree. That kinda blew me away on Friday, I wasn't expecting such good news at 8.30am!Quote:
Originally Posted by Trinity
That is wonderful, and what an incentive to keep doing well!
I started a part-time degree with the OU in October, and so far I have been getting grades that are at distinction level for this module - it really makes you work harder so as not to lower your average.
I am totally loving my course, which is weird because it is so different to everything I have ever done before. My first degree was a B.Sc in biochemistry, and then I studied accounting for a while and worked in audit. Not although I am working full-time in research administration I am studying literature, history, art and philosophy. Love it!