Originally Posted by jojomum28
Unfortunately, I was one of those disgusting people that smoked during my first 2 pregnancies **boo hiss**. With Stephen I didn't know I was pregnant till I was 3 1/2 months gone and the midwives told me that it would put me under too much pressure to give up, therefore harming the unborn in that way, although I only smoked 5-10 a day at worst. I also smoked at weekends only when expecting Ciaran and again the midwives told me not to put myself under too much pressure to give up (even though the benefits speak for themselves) as that would cause my blood pressure to rise and would cause even more problems. Luckily, both of them were fine and healthy chaps. This time though, I gave up September in preparation for trying for this one, and haven't touched one since. I would never smoke around my boys though, and always go into my back garden, especially as I used to be the only smoker in the house. So I understand both sides of it and am certainly not proud of smoking during pregnancy - I was one of the lucky ones, others aren't so fortunate.
Just keep it up Willow, positive thinking. The main thing to realise is that you will feel like ******* for the first couple of months (or at least I know I did) but you know that your system is clearing all of the gunk through this and that you will feel 100 times better once you have got through it. My best bit of advice would be to throw everything away - ashtrays, lighters, fags etc and as much as you can change your routine (which is hard for us working gals) do so. But let us know how you do and we will support you all of the way!! :D