good episode tonight especially the bits with rosie and dot!
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good episode tonight especially the bits with rosie and dot!
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Originally Posted by baileya
Yea that was good, the part with Rosie and Dot,, Demi will come around, she is a bit "shell shocked".. She didn't want much to do with the baby did she:searchme:
I really think that Chrissie is going to be sorry she said "thats our little secret" ...Sam has had enough of Chrissie manipulating her,, its only a matter of time..and boy is Sharon going to be sorry that she thought Chrissie was HER BEST MATE !!!!!!!!:thumbsdow
yeah, god what will sharon say when she finds out. lol not onnly is her dad dead but her 'new best friend' murdered him, then burried him under their home and kept quiet about it all lying to her face. lol she's not gonna be happy.
it was great scenes between Rosie and Dot tonight. i felt so sorry for her. she obviously understands what Demi's going though like she told keith Demi was bottling it up but thats exactly what she'd been doing.
I felt sorry for Demi as well, she must be devestated, i dont think she'll be ok for a while, a long time infact, the way she pulled away from rosie was sad after the conversation she'd had wiht dot baout it and how Demi was always the well behaved of rosie's four children and how she was her 'little angel' now she doesnt even want to know.
Demi is going thru the stages of grief.. right now she is in deep denial.. she has to come to acceptance before she can recover from all of this,, or she will go MENTAL.. if any one is to be pitied it is Aleesha,, Demi is going to distance herself from the baby.. thats how i see it .. people deal with grief differently here is a good description of how some people handle grief (sorry if it is long but it is interesting)
http://pagead2.googlesyndication.com...=1&u_java=trueThe five stages of grief are:
1-Denial-"this can't be happening to me", looking for the former spouse in familia places, or if it is death, setting the table for the person or acting as if they are still in living there. No crying. Not accepting or even acknowledging the loss.
2-Anger-"why me?", feelings of wanting to fight back or get even with spouse of divorce, for death, anger at the deceased, blaming them for leaving.
3-Bargaining-bargaining often takes place before the loss. Attempting to make deals with the spouse who is leaving, or attempting to make deals with God to stop or change the loss. Begging, wishing, praying for them to come back.
4-Depression-overwhelming feelings of hopelessness, frustration, bitterness, self pity, mourning loss of person as well as the hopes, dreams and plans for the future. Feeling lack of control, feeling numb. Perhaps feeling suicidal.
5-Acceptance-there is a difference between resignation and acceptance. You have to accept the loss, not just try to bear it quietly. Realization that it takes two to make or break a marriage. Realization that the person is gone (in death) that it is not their fault, they didn't leave you on purpose. (even in cases of suicide, often the deceased person, was not in their right frame of mind) Finding the good that can come out of the pain of loss, finding comfort and healing. Our goals turn toward personal growth. Stay with fond memories of person.
Out of those i think she'll be feeling depression and Denial. although i dont think her denial will be that strong as i think she knows he's dead and she wont continue as though nothing has happend, i dont think she'll continue to think he is stilla live. she will just bottle it up and not shar her emotions, just sit in silence and day dream, she'll just be in deep shock and she will blame her self and others around her.
it was a great episode last night, loved the rosie and dot scenes, now we know a bit about rosie's past and a bit about keith's. i liked how demi was silent, even with her own daughter. i think she will probably go through the five stages of greif, i hope it's done over at least 6 months instead of just a couple of weeks or something because then it wouldn't be realistic.
I think the past episodes concerning the Millers where really bringing tears to my eyes. Even the reaction of Leo's mum where really giving me goosbumps. It is time time for some serious drama instead of Chrissie shouting at Sharon shouting at Sam and so on. And please get on with this Alfie and Little Mo and Kat triangel it is getting boring.
I know alot of us did not care much for the Millers when they first hit Walford, but one thing is for sure they are a strong family unit..Quote:
Originally Posted by Dutchgirl
I think most of us have HAD IT with the whole childish triangle ...Mo Kat and Alfie ( who thinks he is still 18 not 40) He has got to choose one or NONE..
I am looking forward seeing the look on Sharons face when she finds out what a " great mate" Chrissie has been.....:thumbsdow
I think that the storylines with the Millers are good because the way that they react seems to be how you might react if it happened in real life. Somehow, it is easy to relate to their characters.Quote:
Originally Posted by justjodi
And did I hear mention of some sort of triangle?...I think I must have blocked it out of my mind because I'm so tired of hearing about it! :p
But the new character Naomi must be a fun girl, she looks very bubbly, but why at the Brannings?