i feel a bit sorry for him, but i also think that Justin and Becca make a way better couple than Jake and Becca, they don't have the chemistry Justin and Becca have. :wub:Quote:
Originally Posted by em9283
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i feel a bit sorry for him, but i also think that Justin and Becca make a way better couple than Jake and Becca, they don't have the chemistry Justin and Becca have. :wub:Quote:
Originally Posted by em9283
I have to admit, i dont feel sorry for him at all for some reason, i think its the fact that he is the one who destroyed their relationship with his cheating first.
I dont really think Becca is cheating on Jake at all - she wants to be with J.
Its like saying that Becca feels like she is cheating on J with Jake as she has a real relationship with him (Justin) - do you get what i am trying to say???
Oh i get it yeah you are right she not cheating on Justin when she is with Jake as she married Jake! she cheating on jake with justin!
He destroy the relationship- i think jake and becca married when they were young! and she only getting her own back and justin only 2 years younger than lisa so they are kind of even now
I see what your saying, but i dont really agree with that - their relationship wasnt destroyed by his cheating - and if it was she should never have married him. It was plain stupid. She'll be the one citied as the adulterer in the divorce proceedings.Quote:
Originally Posted by Lennie
and given that she is married to Jake she is cheating on him with Justin, not the other way around. Just because she loves J doesnt mean shes doing the right thing. to me, there is no excuse for cheating on a partner whatever the excuse - if your not happy leave before it gets to the stage of cheating, or as soon as it happens.
If she cares about J so much she wouldnt think twice about givin up her marriage and job for him.
Maybe Becca did love Jake! but than Justin keep pushing and pushing (as he good like that) and she was unhappy with jake- his family is so different from hers... i think she kind of got pushed into it!
But she should have never married Jake?
Jake did destroy their relationship as he had an affair.
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Originally Posted by Angeltigger
No, what i meant was - that Becca feels like she is cheating on Justin with her husband as the only real relationship is her and Justin
Justin is the real relationship and she's cheating on him with Jake
A quote from the series called Blackpool -
The cheating wife says to the lover about the husband "It feels like you are the real relationship and I'm cheating on you with Ripley (the husband)"
Do you get what i mean now? :)
But becca decided to forgive him though - she had the choice of saying no, i dont want to be with you and didnt. She could also have said she didnt want to marry him and didnt. sheshad plenty of chances to walk away and chose not to. So i dont see him as to blame more her.Quote:
Originally Posted by Angeltigger
Becca and Jake's relationship after they got back together has never been the same as it was before and they got married to quickly, never really had the chance to talk about themselves as a couple - just been talking about the wedding instead of how things are between themQuote:
Originally Posted by Angeltigger
but she might have change her mind at the last secord... jake would have keep pushing for her to marry him..you can stay you forgive someone-but you never actually do it
I think Becca felt that she still loved Jake but wasnt quite in love with him.
Like Becca said, everything after Lisa changed with Jake as now she knows it as she told Justin this