How Was Your Day? VII

Is there anyone I can PM about friend problems? Just it's got other stuff in it and I don't really want to post on the main forum... :)

You know I am here for you whenever Tannie. Well I hope you do. You can PM me :) xxx

I am here for you too :)

I am not a very happy bunny! To make this story shorter one of my mates is taking one of my mates and her ex mate to court and i've just recieved a text from the mate being taken to court and she know's that i won't allow her bad mouthing my mate in front of me. It is a stupid reason but Aimee's my best mate and i don't want to get involved. Let's just say the text message had a lot of ******* in it. I am ready to explode I just want to curl up and cry. It's like I'm not allowed to have a life nowadays or my own problems. I need to be there to fix Amy's, don't think so somehow! Arghhhhh.

Rant over. That may confuse you and there is two Amy/Aimee :P but yeah sick and tired of it.:crying:

I hope the rant helped, Tannie. Sorry to hear that you're having such a hard time of it at the moment. Can you be upfront with your friends and tell them you've got problems too?

Just read some bad news about one of my friend's, I really wish i could get in contact with her now. Heading to my gran's in a bit and her Neice's daughter is currently on a ventilator and we don't know how long she has to live. I hope if she has passed away that she's pased away peacefully in her sleep. I all of a sudden feel like I've just found out Steph's gone and I don't want to feel like this I need to be strong, but I have no will power to be strong :crying:

I am so sorry about the sad news, Tannie, here for you if you want to discuss anything. BIG HUG xxx

Why do you feel like you need to be strong, Tannie? It's ok to be griefstricken - it's normal. You don't need to feel bad about it.

Tannie I'm sorry to hear your having such a sh1t time of it lately. You have had so much to deal with over the last few months no wonder your in bits. I know it's an old cliche but you need to give yourself time to grieve for Steff and Alison. There is no manual or rule written that it should only take x amount of time to grieve for someone. As for your firends who have the court issues. If you weren't a witness to the problem don't get involved. If either parties want to rant to you. Take it with a pinch of salt don't repeat what they have said. Let them argue amongst themselves because if you get tangled up with the he-said-she-said fiasco you will be made out as the bad one. Let them get on with it. Think of yourself for once and remember you have hundred's of friends on here who will lend an ear to listen and a shoulder to cry on. whenever you want it. Don't ever forget that.

I was right Joanne passed away on Tuesday, Least she's no longer in any pain. I know I need time to grieve but I just feel like I can't for some reason :crying:. Yeah I know Kath I've told them both that and Amy's finally decided she doesn't want to know me and to be honest I don't care cause I've got other thing's to worry about. I feel like all I do when I come on here is complain :( I'm sorry (and I know I'm going to be told there's no need to be sorry) But for some reason I can't rememeber a time when i posted something happy in here. I think I just need the world to stop and let me grieve and for me not to be questioned about it, or anything. That'll never happen either. Thanks for the advice guys :D Much appreciated.