How Was Your Day VI

Jeez what an evening. We called an ambulance about half hour ago for our lodger because the back pain she's been having got too bad, the pills she'd been given weren't doing anything and she was getting panic attacks from the pain. The GP should've listened to her when she first went to him, she had to pay privately for all the treatment she's had so far that she knew she needed. (she's a nurse). Oh well...least she'll get some pain relief at the hospital.

Off to bed now, last day of getting up at 6am yay. :)

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I am going to Gay Pride in Cardiff tomorrow. Should be good! :) And Ruth Lorenzo is performing there! :D I can't wait for that! I am going to try and get an autograph!

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:eek: :eek: I was going to go to that!!!!!.... BUt I'm working :( so I can;t! How mad would that have been! Haha


I've had such a pants night, I don't know why, I got left on my own to cope with rush hour in work tonight, which didn't help.. bu I guess there's jsut other stuff bugging me too.

It#s weird because I was fine today, spent most of it with my Mum and her side of the family at the pub as it was a great aunts funeral :/ but it was nice to spend time with them, and then I did some retail therapy.

Then I got to work and it all went downhill... I got in the car and just cried, I hate feeling like this. I wish it would stop.

hope you feel better soon.

We have been dealing with the dog who keeps trying to eat his bandage.

I fancy watching some football so may go to Stockport County, pretty cheap for a student and there playing SOuthampton so should be good.Sometimes Football league is better than the rubbish they offer at premier league level. I went to the WOlves game last week and it was awful!

Been shopping in Newcastle today :) Got a few things for myself. Absolutely whacked now so going for a shower.

I'm so angry with my parents. What makes it ok for them to drink and drive? I would never drink and drive, I have never touched a drop when I know I will be driving yet it is apparently ok for my Dad to drive on 3 plus glasses of wine. He was blatantly over the limit. I suggested a solution to the problem - I will drive two of the group and my sister back, while mum and dad wait in the restaurant. While my sister and I went to my car, they drove off with the two people. They are so irresponsible.

Crappy day all round really.

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I'm so angry with my parents. What makes it ok for them to drink and drive? I would never drink and drive, I have never touched a drop when I know I will be driving yet it is apparently ok for my Dad to drive on 3 plus glasses of wine. He was blatantly over the limit. I suggested a solution to the problem - I will drive two of the group and my sister back, while mum and dad wait in the restaurant. While my sister and I went to my car, they drove off with the two people. They are so irresponsible.

Crappy day all round really.

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:eek: and they say that young drivers are the irresponsible ones. It was bad enough that he drove while over the limit in the first place, never mind with passengers in the car as well. I thought my dad was bad enough earlier; using the wrong lane on the roundabout and tailgating people but at least he wasn't over the limit.

Back to school on like Wednesday :eek: This holiday has gone so fast; I really should get some work done.

I went shopping today for presents for Marley's birthday, which is in two weeks. I bought her a wii fit and some Hannah montana stuff. Still to get her a digital camera.

I know what you mean the holiday seems to have flown by. I counted i got three weeks before i am back in uni, which is scary as i got loads of things i got planned before them, another trip to Ireland, Sailing Race, got to sort all my books out, paint the rest of my bedroom!

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:eek: :eek: I was going to go to that!!!!!.... BUt I'm working :( so I can;t! How mad would that have been! Haha


I've had such a pants night, I don't know why, I got left on my own to cope with rush hour in work tonight, which didn't help.. bu I guess there's jsut other stuff bugging me too.

It#s weird because I was fine today, spent most of it with my Mum and her side of the family at the pub as it was a great aunts funeral :/ but it was nice to spend time with them, and then I did some retail therapy.

Then I got to work and it all went downhill... I got in the car and just cried, I hate feeling like this. I wish it would stop.

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Haha we could have met each other there! I hope your feeling better soon.

I didn't stop out all night in the end so I missed Ruth :( but I stayed for the Mardi Gras event in the day, which was really good! Got a load of photos taken, freebies, there were some bands playing, singers, fairground rides, different stalls and a load of drag queens everywhere :D it was such a wonderful atmosphere, lots of people with banners saying "Love is a human right" "Pride not prejudice" etc etc.

I got talking to this guy and got his MSN, but didn't get his number.. ahh well. I got this necklace freebie... instead of GI Joe it was "GI Jonny - To inform and protect" :D

I had a mouse run up my pyjama leg in an attempt to escape the cat last night. :lol:

Its a day of Amazoning and Ebaying today. Books go to Amazon, clothes/random crap go to Ebay. :p

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Lmao that cracked me up :lol:

And omg Kasple did a mouse really run up your leg hahaha?

Yeah, I was on the floor kneeling trying to catch the mouse with a cup. It was using me as a shield against the cat. :lol: Then I couldn't see it anymore, stood up and could feel it clinging on for dear life. So I shook my trousers and it fell out. :rotfl:

OMFG were you not scared?

I've dealt with so many mice they don't really scare me anymore. :p Its just a pain she always brings them just as I'm going to bed. :lol:

I have 2 days off work :D woohoo... it was packed yesterday, non-stop and I worked 2-close with half an hour break.

So the plan for today is to sort out the house because I haven't had chance to tidy up because of work, and then my brothers going to stay with me tonight and we're goign to watch films and eat Dominos..... OMFG! I just heard thunder :| I am now not impressed at all :(

Have had 6 days of pure stress, my husband and I nearly split up when my best friend got it into his head to tell my husband how he really felt about me, and announced he had been in love with me for 5 years. He then threatened my husband so I kicked my friend (now ex-best friend) out of the house. I had no idea he felt that way about me. I had only been doing what friends do and supported him through tough times ie work issues and death of his lovely mum.

My poor husband was crushed emotionally and said I could go be with my ex friend if I wanted to - I asked him why I should go and he said my friend has more money than him. Money has never driven me, as long as we can pay the bills and keep nasty people away from our front door thats all that bothers me. We have one big issue that Im struggling to find a resolution for and thats my friend and I are in business together so how do I deal with seeing him when I cant bare to be near him?

Havent slept properly since and have had such a dreadful headache its driving me nuts. My husband is being so sweet and keeps thanking me for standing by him. I love him, been together 10 yrs, and I have learnt a very valuable lesson you never really know what friends motives are for their friendship with you, and i hate thinking that way.

Now I just want to put the barriers up around myself emotionally and thats so not me, Im always happy go lucky, with a smile and laugh for everyone... any advice on how to deal with this situaltion would be gratefully recieved.

Sorry for the long post.

The mouse up the leg sounds halarious, unless of course you are scared of them....if it had been a spider up the leg I would have been flat on the floor as I would have fainted lol as I really cant deal with them no matter how small they are lol.

Hugs
Senorita xxx

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Have had 6 days of pure stress, my husband and I nearly split up when my best friend got it into his head to tell my husband how he really felt about me, and announced he had been in love with me for 5 years. He then threatened my husband so I kicked my friend (now ex-best friend) out of the house. I had no idea he felt that way about me. I had only been doing what friends do and supported him through tough times ie work issues and death of his lovely mum.

My poor husband was crushed emotionally and said I could go be with my ex friend if I wanted to - I asked him why I should go and he said my friend has more money than him. Money has never driven me, as long as we can pay the bills and keep nasty people away from our front door thats all that bothers me. We have one big issue that Im struggling to find a resolution for and thats my friend and I are in business together so how do I deal with seeing him when I cant bare to be near him?

Havent slept properly since and have had such a dreadful headache its driving me nuts. My husband is being so sweet and keeps thanking me for standing by him. I love him, been together 10 yrs, and I have learnt a very valuable lesson you never really know what friends motives are for their friendship with you, and i hate thinking that way.

Now I just want to put the barriers up around myself emotionally and thats so not me, Im always happy go lucky, with a smile and laugh for everyone... any advice on how to deal with this situaltion would be gratefully recieved.

Sorry for the long post.

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Gosh, you sound like you've had a rough time of it ((Senorita))

Is there a reason why your friend has come out with this now and not five years ago?


The bit I have bolded is very true. On several occasions I have questioned a friendship with someone I am very close to. We supported each other through hard times and then came the "how do you feel about me" talk. It was very awkward, he thought I intentionally tried to split him and his girlfriend up so I could be with him (untrue). He admitted that he felt something at some point for me. We talk about our feelings for each other a lot but he knows that I can never be in a relationship with him and trying to seduce me won't change that.


As long as your husband knows that you love him and not your friend and that you want to stay with him, you should be fine.

You need to talk to your friend and tell him where you stand and your intentions i.e. to stay with your husband. Whether you stay friends with him can only be your decision but you do have to talk to him as you're in business together. Also let him know that threatening your husband is unacceptable. If you don't want to speak to him, write a letter. Explain what he did wrong and why you are upset with him but don't get angry or start throwing verbal punches.

At the end of the day, we can't help who we fall in love with. I don't know what he intended to achieve by telling you but he maybe went the wrong way about it.

I went down London the other day, and on the trip down sat next to this really great bloke... and we totally clicked :D We've been in touch today and hopefully will be meeting up next weekend... the crap part is, he's off to work in Australia in a few wks time... :crying: You have to laugh at the timing of it really...:lol:

First day at college today. well sorta, was just an introduction type thing. Didn't really speak to anyone new but will hopefully find some new friendlings in the coming weeks! :D I hate this big change now; it's different changing from primary to high school, i dunno if it's cos we're younger or whatever. but it's strange being the youngest group again.

I enrolled at College today lol

My temporary bus pass is a complete mugshot! Haha.. they want £150 for a bus pass! They can stuff that.. I'll just drive and then pay the bus far on the odd occasion I don't drive due to bad weather and that.

I start next Tuesday :) I'm soo excited, I noticed on the register list that there was a guy called Ben Jones in my class, a few years ago I used to speak to a ugy of that name, and last year he left College but said he may go back the next year (being this year) so I'm interested to find out whether or not it's the same guy... how weird would that be though?! Haha

I so wanted to go out tonight... but the weather is absolutely pants, so I think I'm going to have a night in :)

GLad you both enjoyed College.

I been helping my mam at her school putting her classroom together, but she dropped a cupbard on my leg and now its all cut and is really quite sore.

Tomorrow im going shopping for a party dress when im in #Ireland and i need a bag thats small enough to go as hand luggage only for the flight. I cant afford to put it in the hold!

Im having a night in too as the weathers miserable.

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I enrolled at College today lol

My temporary bus pass is a complete mugshot! Haha.. they want £150 for a bus pass! They can stuff that.. I'll just drive and then pay the bus far on the odd occasion I don't drive due to bad weather and that.

I start next Tuesday :) I'm soo excited, I noticed on the register list that there was a guy called Ben Jones in my class, a few years ago I used to speak to a ugy of that name, and last year he left College but said he may go back the next year (being this year) so I'm interested to find out whether or not it's the same guy... how weird would that be though?! Haha

I so wanted to go out tonight... but the weather is absolutely pants, so I think I'm going to have a night in :)

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That bus pass sounds similar to mine. I would do that if I could too. We have a new bus company which leaves later in the morning. The route goes all around the houses so to speak though, it takes 10/15 mins to drive there and the bus takes about 35!

I start tomorrow. Had to enrol today, get timetables etc. Mine is an absolute joke! My school have excelled at making me feel like the spare part again. Me and two friends have General Studies at the same time. I'm in a group by myself with a teacher that can't teach and they're in one together with a better teacher. I already have the teacher for some lessons and with the extras I'm going to have to teach myself a quarter of my lessons :( My frees are in ridiculous places too, so many lessons will be a total waste this year.

End of rant lol.

Im 18 in 32 minuets:D hahaa it has taken its time coming and im looking forward to it.

College is hilarious seriously my friends are nutters and all we do is laugh in history, i'm gutted that we're not studying appeasement but i'm happy with what we are doing. I have loads to tell so i'll come back tomorrow if its possible for me to spell :rotfl:

Omg Tannie no way that came well quick!!!!!!!!!!!! Happy Birthdayyyy! :)

So much for a quiet night in... went to Spoooons :)
Invited Adam for a drink and I planned to ask where I stood, buit I didn't have the courage. So I text him and asked instead, and he replied with "well as you're giving me a lift home tomorrow night (I didn't even knwo that hha) is it ok if we chat about it then?

So I'll finally have closure tomorrow not, good or bad.. at least I'll b out of the dark, and I told him that even if it is bad.. to jsut let me know because I won't let it get in the ay of work, that's not what i'm about. Grr anyways.. had a good night in alllll :)

Happy Birthday Tannie :D I don't expect you'll be able to type by the end of the day. ;)

Good night last night, into Central London to a cocktail bar then Wetherspoon's because the bar was so overpriced. Although we did take advantage of the 2 for 1 but it ended at 8pm.

Bank stuff to deal with today - so boring. Just transferring money really. Typical I forget my money I got from last week though. :lol: Have to go to the post office anyway so there's a bank in the same bit which is handy. This Amazon thing is keeping me busy going to the post office. Although it is annoying I've only got 2 feedback ratings so far, and I've sold 15 things, and I'm sure most of the items have got there by now.

Happy Birthday Tannie

I m going shopping, i need a new outfit for a family do and a dress for a mates 21st in Dublin. Im excited for them now, slightly concerned about my funds but ah well never mind.

so yeah Manchester calls.

happy bday Tannie.. enjoy your day

Thank you to everyone who said Happy Birthday to me:D I had a great day and didn't get drunk cause i have college tomorrow so heading off to bed soon. I'm absolutely knackered althrough i will admit i'm slightly tipsy so any spelling mistakes that is the reason why :rotfl:

Happy Birthday Tannie :) Glad you had a nice day!

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My temporary bus pass is a complete mugshot! Haha.. they want £150 for a bus pass! They can stuff that.. I'll just drive and then pay the bus far on the odd occasion I don't drive due to bad weather and that.

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That's atrocious!!! Is it a college service ? Or a service bus?
We had to pay for ours if we were over 18 when we started, but only 20 pound for the whole year!!!!

It's a service bus, but I had to apply to the LEA first of all to see fi I qualify, and if I did they would pay half.. if I didn't I could still get a bus pass... but it would cost me £300... absolute joke

...Everything is just an absolute joke! I'm sick of it now, sick of being messed around, sick of work, sick of home, the only thing I'm not sick of and can't wait for is College.. roll on Tuesday

totally stressed today... Was late for work cause my son, who only started School on Monday (his 1st day) has been in trouble already for hitting his teacher... 4 days he lasted without getting into trouble

Im still busy wth dancing, one week till the show and I cant find bra in my size that I need for the show :angry: its driving me mad!

College for me is complete chaos nothing wrong with the subjects just we don't have designated rooms. Like today what happend was i only had IT and we went into the new IT room down in the beauty therapy corridor, and half of the computers wouldnt work so the tutor said we could go to the cafe for 15 minutes and she came in and said it was cancelled cause the IT man went mental at her cause we apparently weren't ment to be in it cause the network wasn't set up so it got cancelled for today. So got home earlier:D and heading out for a drink tonight with a few mates:D

First week at college and i have to say so far i'm loving it! Luckily there is someone I know in every one of my classes apart from Sociology but got talking to two girls today so that's all good! It's so strange calling teachers by their first names though! And i'm actually quite happy with my student ID card picture. Already been told about exam dates! First ones are in January so have been told about which books to buy for revision so shall be scouring ebay at some point!

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First week at college and i have to say so far i'm loving it! Luckily there is someone I know in every one of my classes apart from Sociology but got talking to two girls today so that's all good! It's so strange calling teachers by their first names though! And i'm actually quite happy with my student ID card picture. Already been told about exam dates! First ones are in January so have been told about which books to buy for revision so shall be scouring ebay at some point!

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Thats what i found the weirdest at colllege, i am in contact with the majority of myu teachers and i left two years agio!

I have had a great night, some friends of the family came over and we had a catch up, not seen them in a long time so theres been a lot of talking, had a few cans and a curry., Was really great. Very tired now though as i was up quite early.

THink it will be a shock when i go back to Uni though, 9 AM lectures

I've got a few 9am lectures :( Although I am looking at changing course as it would help me get onto a masters easier. Need to talk to my tutor about it when I get back.

Sorry I'm late with the birthday greeting Tannie, hope you had a brilliant day despite the weather. Did you get a canoe by any chance :rotfl:

Kirsty that is a lot for a bus pass up here I pay £45 a month for a bus pass but a student one is £38. In the new year students can apply for travel expenses so they get extra funding to pay for the bus pass.

I'm feeling like Dr Doolittle only the animals hate me. The old couple up the stairs are away in Berlin until next week and I'm looking after their cat. (The mad one who hides under the sofa and has to be brushed every day) and my sister is away to Santa Ponsa today for a week and I have to look after the foul mouth asbo Parrot.

Hmm, better day today.
Still ahven't really been told where I stand, but we're gettign there.. basically he doesn't want to even think about getting married, moving in and kids (I hope he knows I'm only 18 lmao) but on the other hand.. he doesn't wnat to just.. chuck me, like he has done with most girls, he says it's different this time. So we're waiting for the rota to go up tomorrow, and when we're both off we're going out for the day so we can sort it out and finally decide on what we both want out of this... whatever it is.

Well thats good as least you know your gonna talk about it :D