Your sexuality?

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Originally Posted by feelingyellow

I was curious...

I'm 14... I know one bi person at my school, she's quite cool and she does actually seem bi. I know some emos... who like aren't bi but say they are cos well they're attention seekers :rolleyes:

Ooo and another emo girl at my school is apparently a lesbian though she's not like saying she is... people think she's in love with her best mate, bless lol.

I'm not bi, even if I jokingly say I am :p

I know one girl, who has kissed two girls - she was drunk apparently... :rolleyes:

And another who had a girl come on to, but she apparently 'isn't' :hmm:

And also another one who apparently kisses both girls and boys when they're drunk cos they come on to her... but she's not drunk herself... :rolleyes:

So what sexuality are you? :D

Ooo btw this is my first poll! :eek: :D

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Wheni was at school i didnt know many bi/gay people, but now i'm at college i would say half my friends are bi/gay/lesbian. I don't thik you can tell if people 'seem' bi or gay. There just the same people really.

I don't think you can really tell if people are just saying it or not either. Sure some people might be, but someactually might, and just dont have a boyfriend/girlfriend, and because of this are judged to be just saying it because there not with anyone.

I dont really see anything wrone with kissing girls (or boys) when drunk, its just the same as kissing boys (or girls) really. I'm straight, but never say never really. I don't think anyone should rigidly state their sexuality, because you can never tell who you will fall for. I mean, i'm sure we've all fallen for people who we wouldnt normally.

i am straight, i have done the kissing my mates when drunk though quite a few times!!!! its just a bit of fun

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Originally Posted by feelingyellow

OK your mum is a bit weird... and grr that's so racist of your gran! It's not about what colour the person is or what sexuality they are - it's actually the person themselves!

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I know its weired, not only them but other older members of the family would be disgusted by it as their totally a different generation and view things so unfairly no sex before marriage that sort of thing

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Originally Posted by Jessie Wallace

Wow, someone who didn't know! Now Emmie i thought you knew everything!

I don't have a boyfriend or girl friend now, haven't for a long time, but my last was a boy.

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I thought I knew everything too... it turns out I was wrong *feels ashamed*
Oh right, just out of curiosity what do you prefer to have in a relationship - boyfriend or girlfriend?

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Originally Posted by emma_strange

Wheni was at school i didnt know many bi/gay people, but now i'm at college i would say half my friends are bi/gay/lesbian. I don't thik you can tell if people 'seem' bi or gay. There just the same people really.

I don't think you can really tell if people are just saying it or not either. Sure some people might be, but someactually might, and just dont have a boyfriend/girlfriend, and because of this are judged to be just saying it because there not with anyone.

I dont really see anything wrone with kissing girls (or boys) when drunk, its just the same as kissing boys (or girls) really. I'm straight, but never say never really. I don't think anyone should rigidly state their sexuality, because you can never tell who you will fall for. I mean, i'm sure we've all fallen for people who we wouldnt normally.

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Hmm I like to think I can tell if people seem stuff or not, cos it makes me sound smarter :lol:

Yeah my mate thought I was a lesbian just because I've never had a boyfriend (I lied there... I have but they were years ago with some guys I still go to school with - rather embarassing) which really made me mad, cos I don't want a boyfriend - if I like someone I'll ask them out or wait til someone askes me out.

Yeah I suppose, but sometimes when someone is drunk they reveal the real side of them as they have no idea what they're doing, whereas when they're sober they do and they stop themselves...

Yeah although I'm sure I'm straight at the moment, I think that could change in years to come as I'm still quite young and one guy/girl could change your sexuality...

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Originally Posted by leanne27

I know its weired, not only them but other older members of the family would be disgusted by it as their totally a different generation and view things so unfairly no sex before marriage that sort of thing

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Ah right, so stupid - the world has changed a lot since their day.

Will you just keep your secret forever?

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Originally Posted by Jessie Wallace

Not much point in me typing this as i think most of you know that i'm Bi-sexual anyway :-)

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I never knew either :p you've never mentioned it lol :p but cool!! hehe!

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Originally Posted by feelingyellow

Ah right, so stupid - the world has changed a lot since their day.

Will you just keep your secret forever?

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my best friend has knows, but no one else i dont know i dont find it that much of an issue as yet seen as ive never had a proper relasonship with a girl and am contented enough dating men, its more fantasies of women than wanting to be in relasonships with them if you get what i mean

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Originally Posted by feelingyellow

I thought I knew everything too... it turns out I was wrong *feels ashamed*
Oh right, just out of curiosity what do you prefer to have in a relationship - boyfriend or girlfriend?

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It depends on who the person is. I can think of a few men and woman i'd like to go out with!

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Originally Posted by crazylea

I never knew either :p you've never mentioned it lol :p but cool!! hehe!

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Deary me, have you been asleep too! I talk to you about things all the time, i can't believe you never knew.

Dont knock bisexuality



It doubles your chances of a date:D

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Originally Posted by alan45

Dont knock bisexuality



It doubles your chances of a date:D

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oh my gosh that was funny :lol: :rotfl: :lol:

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Originally Posted by alan45

Dont knock bisexuality



It doubles your chances of a date:D

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Shame it never seems to help for me, man i must be really ugly! lol

if it helps dear diedre has a dating page up and running but theres some ight weirdo's on there screw sexualty changes I think after a visit on there people will change to beastilalty :thumbsdow

also theres faceparty and stuff im sure you know all this but you know I thought id come up with a few suggestions:)

Dawn you're pretty enough, you don't need to use no dating website :nono:

I won't be using a website hun, don't worry, if i'm meant to be with someone, they will turn up, there's no hurry.

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Originally Posted by Jessie Wallace

I won't be using a website hun, don't worry, if i'm meant to be with someone, they will turn up, there's no hurry.

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good woman yourself.. when you are good and ready the right person will turn up.. it always happens when you are not looking and least expect it for some reason :searchme: but at least you double your chances

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Originally Posted by Jessie Wallace

I won't be using a website hun, don't worry, if i'm meant to be with someone, they will turn up, there's no hurry.

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I'm a firm believer in that there is someone special out there for everyone hun - that special someone will come along when you least expect it :D

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Originally Posted by jojomum

I'm a firm believer in that there is someone special out there for everyone hun - that special someone will come along when you least expect it :D

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Here hoping huni, but there is only so much hope one person can have! lol

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Originally Posted by Jessie Wallace

Here hoping huni, but there is only so much hope one person can have! lol

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You're still young yet !! Plenty of time for them to find you :D

We'll see huni, we'll see, but i doubt it.

as the discussion is started...how did everyone who this applies to realize they where bi or gay I mean did it just happen or over time?

like you saw your best friend walking towards you and your heart started racing and felt butterflys lol

I really find it intresting because it must be really weird at first to adjust for anyone whos experienced it.

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Originally Posted by diamond1

as the discussion is started...how did everyone who this applies to realize they where bi or gay I mean did it just happen or over time?

like you saw your best friend walking towards you and your heart started racing and felt butterflys lol

I really find it intresting because it must be really weird at first to adjust for anyone whos experienced it.

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yeah i'd like to know too. i know lots of gay men and they seem to have always been gay but i know a couple of lesbians and they only found out when they were in their early twenties.
i'm straight. i voted in the poll earlier but forgot to post.

Good question diamond1, it's hard enough knowing whether you like someone of the opposite sex let alone the same!

I don't know when i first realised I was first Bi it just sort of crept up on me that I was attracted to both men and women, the relationships I have with them are very different

aww wow (sorry that must sound odd)

so im assuming you've gone all the way with both genders this is really personal so please feel free to give me an online slap but honestly men or women whos the better lover? its a question a lot of us will never know :lol:

I think if i was a lesbian I would be terrified to say anything anyway to those who matter to me

In my opinion women are the better lovers. You know more about what makes each other happy and that. well tahts just my experience

I agree I would rather make love to a woman than a man. (not that I have tried any men:sick: )

i kind of always knew i was bisexual - i always felt slightly different to other people and kind of realised why when i was about 13, i remember watching a programme and one character was a lesbian in it and had a girlfriend and i remember thinking how i would maybe like to have been that character - silly things like that made me realise.

im straight but i dont have a problem with people who have flings with the same sex well my best mate he is male and gay

yeah i have no problem with anyone whos gay or whatever. Ive spoke to quite a few gays and things i really dont have a problem with anyone and just treat them how I would like to be treated
if I was in their position...besides anyone who mocks might not realize that those gay people are most likely happeir than most people because it takes years for people to truly understand themselfs even then its not 100% and people who have come out must have some guts and they must have found alot more of themselfs to actually go through with it and bi sexuals must be the happiest best of both worlds (I actually remember sbbb kyle saying that:rotfl: )


.....and I watch sugar rush as well :lol:

Right, Ive just read this whole thread, Just for emmie!

And right, Dawn I didnt know you were bi!! For starters lol.

Right, I have no problem ATALL with bi or gay people, I have 4 bi girl mates, 2 bi boy mates, who i suspect are just gay... [so camp] and i love them all to peices.

Im not bi..whatever emmie thinks! Lols.
Some people think i am bi, because when im with lads [yes even my boyfriend] and bi girls, i dont mind saying if a girl is nice looking or whatever, so some people think that weird, but im just comfortable with my sexuality. =]]

Emmie says i have whats called 'girl crushes'. I dont think i do...can someone explain what this is lol?


I dont know, one day i may be bi.. i doubt it.. Highly, but if i was, i wouldnt mind =]] T'is cool x

Ok, your not the only one that didn't know, it would appear!

im straight i think i have got off with most of girl mates when we have been drunk its just a laugh really i dont think its the same as getting with a guy either! one of really good friends is bi though and i think my best friend might be a lesbian lol all to their own i say!!

I'm bi and proud of it. I've been with my girlfriend nearly 7 months and i'm really happy.

Ok, I am sorry for starting a new thread !!

Well its official then I just voted and I am the only Gay on the board !!

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please take no notice of Mr H he is a very confussed man he dosnt know wht he wants.....personally i think he might be bi has he seems to have a thing about mrs Slocombe's pussy!!

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Originally Posted by crazygirl

please take no notice of Mr H he is a very confussed man he dosnt know wht he wants.....personally i think he might be bi has he seems to have a thing about mrs Slocombe's pussy!!

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I have to admit, I am a complete fan of Mrs Slocombe's Pussy, and I can safely say that is has tickled the fancy of half of England over the years, Are You Being Served's play on words is simple great. The changing of words is completely weird.

For example in the 50's and 60's Queer meant to feel ill and now it means homosexual.

Gay meant, happy then meant a homosexual and now if you say don't be gay it means to be weird or stupid !!

Mrs Slocombe's Pussy is her lovely Pussycat ! If anyone finds it offensive, then you should not, because it is not meant in that way.

And how very dare you Crazygirl imply I am Bi-Sexual ! Is a vicous lie

i cant answer back because im laughing too much :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl: :rotfl:
i will answer when i have calmed down

What a curious thread. And what a coincidence, I was at the city centre today and in the toilets there were these two young teenagers practically snogging the face off eachother. Oh did i mention they were girls?

I was in shock, they were just so young.. eh, what do i know.