How Was Your Day? Numero Four-o

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Originally Posted by Abigail

Twenty minutes talking to a friend isn't unreasonable. You were at a party, the general idea is to socialise and talk to people. He does seem very possesive of her

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This guy does sound very possessive, not healthy at all. Don't want to put the frighteners on, but those kind of people turn into stalkers should their relationship ever finish and it probably will. I once had a boyfriend who would never leave my side, I could not even do a bit of shopping by myself. :rolleyes: I finished it because I felt I could not breathe and he took it badly but accepted it eventually. Is there a reason for this guy to be so insecure which often is the reason behind excessive jealousy?

What Perdita just said reminded me of New Year's Eve last year. I'm sure I told you about this but there was a lad who was with us and he was buying me drinks. Didn't catch on to what he was up to for a couple of hours (I was very drunk). To cut a long story short, we ended up going to somebody's house and he got very jealous when I was talking to the other lads. There was only me and another girl there with nine lads. He wouldn't leave me alone or let me talk to one person without butting in or giving him evils. He even wanted to come in the car with me at 3am when a friend took me home. He was very persistant, one of his mates had to tell him to back off.

He found out that I was having a friends with benefits relationship with somebody else and he got very possessive. He text me several times a day, rang me during the night to ask if he could take me out and wouldn't leave me alone for three months. He even text my friend every day for gossip on me. When she turned her phone off he text her boyfriend :rolleyes: There was absolutely no way I was going to go anywhere with him after the way he acted.

Maybe you should have a word with your male friend and tell him that he should give his girlfriend some space to breathe.

What does Nat think about it all?

Sorry to waffle.

I could have a word with him, but I just have a horrible feeling he'd have a go at me and turn on me.

I have spoke to Nat in confidence about it and I have told her I feel like I am losing her slowly as a friend and I want us to be close friends again like we were before. She told me that she thinks he is getting very possessive of her, but she hopes that he will stop. I've told her to give him a warning about it, because what he's doing is really possessive and I feel like I'm losing out on a valued friend. She said she spoke to him about it and he apologised, and now she just hopes he will stop.

I'm glad other people think the same as me. Thanks for the responses :)

Today wasn't to bad. School still majorly sucks and i am seriously missing kirstin whom decided to go to college this year instead of coming back for a 5th year.

My life doesn't feel as bad as it did the last time i came on here. Made up with erin which is rather good part from the fact she thinks she can tickle me when she know's i'm tickly. But she ends up stabbing me in the ribs with her hand but i know she doesn't mean it. I hate being skinny at times.

My love life may get back on track waiting for Wayne to phone me back if he ever does. Hoping he does through.

Have no english teacher so if feels weird getting one of the other teachers as they don't talk as much as Mr Mcdermot does:P

not been up to much. saturday went out for a meal at this pub with my family. the food was really nice, although i dont think ive ever eaten so much in my life i felt like i was going to burst, i could barely stand up lol!

came back to uni yesterday. need to go to the library and start on my essay, should have done some today but i just dossed around instead! and yesterday evening me and my housemate got excited cos we watched the video from the cheerleading competition we did!

Had progression day today...universities visit the college. Our college sends the most people in England to uni so the hall was packed out with uni stalls. I ended up with about 15 or more prospectas' :lol:I regretted that alll the way home with my two bags full :lol:

Tommorow I have a history mock. She only decided to tell us about it yesterday. Helpful...

This weeks dragging on...can't wait until the bank holiday weekend.

My bank holiday weekend will be spent revising :rolleyes: I can't wait until exams are over and I can spend the day in bed watching House or going shopping or just being lazy for three months.

Today was spent revising. Well, for a couple of hours. Didn't get up til 11am then I faffed around for an hour getting dressed and having breakfast. Then I spent another half hour rearranging my room because it didn't work the way I did it yesterday. Can't believe how much space I have now that I've gotten rid of a stool and a box of stuff for ebay. Guess it just means I'll have to find more rubbish and clean washing to throw on the floor instead of putting away :lol:

Today was great intill i found out Wayne is dating Jodie.

I now know why he dumped me and it more or likley wasn't because he was putting pressure on me it was cause of Jodie. Tried to phone him twice and he hung up on me.:crying:

Sorry to hear about that Tannie.

History mock - ok. Managed to go on and on writing about nothing in particular.

On the way home the police were doing there random drug searches again. Can't help but feel slightly intimidated by 30 odd policemen just staring at you as you walk past...

Decided to get a Mac as my replacement. Probably the same laptop as my sister. I'm so annoyed with PC's and their breaking down and viruses! Going on Saturday as my sister is back from uni and we can get 30-40% discount because she's at uni.

Some family's coming round on Sunday which is nice. Don't get to see them very often.

Had the day off today because I feel awful. I've almost lost my voice, my chest hurts and my joints hurt too. I also can't hear very well.

Just had a shower so I'm going back to bed.