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25-03-2008, 17:42
Might be a bit long so sorry in advance. This is sort of behalf on mum but I taken upon the situation as I think it may affect him later in life.
2 problems..
Problem 1)
Basically to sum it up.. my bro is 5.. and he has this mate called *Tom*. They are quite close and are like the quiet ones in the class not the naughty rebels haha :p and my mum would like to sort of get him to mix with other people, not the naughty ones but the ones inbetween naughty and quiet sort of thing. There is also this other Boy *Dom* and it's like this trio of quietness basically. Any suggestions?
Problem 2)
Tom's family is sort of having a hard time.. they live in a small flat (nothing wrong with that but..) mum says it's really untidy and dirty and therefore she dosen't like our bro going there that much. Lately Tom and bro have been going to eachothers houses alot.. if he comes here bro goes there after and vise versa about 5 times now. The thing with my brother (same goes for sister actually is..) they are so upfront they go straight to the parents after school in front of my mum.. 'can we go to so and so's after school, today or this week' .. (sis gets told time after time but she's a rebel and dosent listen).. bro gets told but the message does not get into his head.. and Tom's mum is sort of okay with it and goes yeah sure. and like today he's around their house because he did this again and mum was like 'no thats not nice' and she was like 'no it's fine we can do this on a regular basis as it's nice for the kids to socialise..' but mum as i said is uncomfortable with the idea and also she has 2 other kids to take care off (like me have my mates around and my sis have hers every now and then) but Tom's mum wants to make it into a regular thing and sort of 'invited' herself around?!
I know this is really long but to be honest I shortened this up so yeah lol..
Please and many thank-you's to any replies x It will be much appreciated from me and my mum x
2 problems..
Problem 1)
Basically to sum it up.. my bro is 5.. and he has this mate called *Tom*. They are quite close and are like the quiet ones in the class not the naughty rebels haha :p and my mum would like to sort of get him to mix with other people, not the naughty ones but the ones inbetween naughty and quiet sort of thing. There is also this other Boy *Dom* and it's like this trio of quietness basically. Any suggestions?
Problem 2)
Tom's family is sort of having a hard time.. they live in a small flat (nothing wrong with that but..) mum says it's really untidy and dirty and therefore she dosen't like our bro going there that much. Lately Tom and bro have been going to eachothers houses alot.. if he comes here bro goes there after and vise versa about 5 times now. The thing with my brother (same goes for sister actually is..) they are so upfront they go straight to the parents after school in front of my mum.. 'can we go to so and so's after school, today or this week' .. (sis gets told time after time but she's a rebel and dosent listen).. bro gets told but the message does not get into his head.. and Tom's mum is sort of okay with it and goes yeah sure. and like today he's around their house because he did this again and mum was like 'no thats not nice' and she was like 'no it's fine we can do this on a regular basis as it's nice for the kids to socialise..' but mum as i said is uncomfortable with the idea and also she has 2 other kids to take care off (like me have my mates around and my sis have hers every now and then) but Tom's mum wants to make it into a regular thing and sort of 'invited' herself around?!
I know this is really long but to be honest I shortened this up so yeah lol..
Please and many thank-you's to any replies x It will be much appreciated from me and my mum x