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stacyefc
20-05-2005, 11:22
do you agree with the saying "once a cheat always a cheat".

i do, my dad had an affair on my mum and when she found out she went battered him and kicked him out. My mums mate also got cheated on but forgave him and then he went and done it again and again until she eventually kicked him out. I also know a few other people who have forgave there partner for cheating and they done it again.

If my fella ever cheated on me i couldn't forgive him.

Rory18
24-05-2005, 15:46
i think a cheat always has the tendancy to do it again but will never do it if they find the right woman like me ill be honesdt i cheat quite frequently but when im with someone who means alot to me i wont but they have to be really special and someone worth being with but yes once a cheat always a cheat in a certain way just depends who ya with

phils little sister
24-05-2005, 16:18
i think a cheat always has the tendancy to do it again but will never do it if they find the right woman like me ill be honesdt i cheat quite frequently but when im with someone who means alot to me i wont but they have to be really special and someone worth being with but yes once a cheat always a cheat in a certain way just depends who ya with

May i ask you! why would you be with someone if you are going to cheat on them? why not stay single until you find someone (as you say) " special and worth being with" ??

Rory18
24-05-2005, 16:20
because i enjoy things the way they are and like having someone there when i want certain things lol

phils little sister
24-05-2005, 16:22
i hope your girlfriend finds that out

Rory18
24-05-2005, 16:26
dont be silly she will never find out she dotes on my every word thats the whole point of being a playa enjoy life while your young

phils little sister
24-05-2005, 16:27
maybe she does the same thing how would you feel about that

Rory18
24-05-2005, 16:31
LOL she would never dare risk losing me shed follow me around like a lap dog if i never told her to back off now and again

phils little sister
24-05-2005, 16:33
LOL she would never dare risk losing me shed follow me around like a lap dog if i never told her to back off now and again

You think alot of yourself

Rory18
24-05-2005, 16:36
and iv got gud reason to aswell hey at least im honest

phils little sister
24-05-2005, 16:40
and iv got gud reason to aswell hey at least im honest

pitty your not as honest to your girlfriend

brenda1971
24-05-2005, 16:53
Rory thats awful I hope that your girlfriend is cheating on you

Debs
24-05-2005, 18:01
oh my god rory!! you are awful!! hope your girlfirend finds out and dumps your sorry ****!!

.:Kitz:.
24-05-2005, 19:00
tut tut, rory thats cruel. Saying that she dotes on your every word, now i don't want to sound mean but you have no respect for her do you? I mean acting like a playa behind her back and treating her like this. How do you sleep at night?! (and don't say "quite nicely thanks" coz i know what boys are like.....)

hazey
24-05-2005, 19:22
thank goodness not all men? are like you rory, otherwise all us girls would turn lesbian. :rotfl:

hazey
24-05-2005, 19:29
My first husband was a cheater, he was 13 years old than me and after 4 years of what seemed to be a loving relationship, he cheated on me, said he wanted a younger model...I was only 22 and he was 35. I soon divorved him, I still get word about him and over 25 years he has had 5 more wives and I bet lots of girlfriends. So I dont think they change. 2nd husband a real diamond only wants me and been happily married 23 years now.

Ella.
24-05-2005, 20:03
dont be silly she will never find out she dotes on my every word thats the whole point of being a playa enjoy life while your young

As the saying goes, what goes around comes around.Maybe you will be a bit more respectful when it happens to you.

chance
24-05-2005, 20:35
what a truly horrible person you are! you deserve everything you get! you just sound very immature to me.i hope your g/f is playing the same game and is just acting all sweet and nice and really laughing behind your back.she could do 100 times better!

Debs
24-05-2005, 20:47
Im Just A Playa And You No It Babe Alls You Wana Do Is Touch Me Up And I Cant Blame You Coz I Would To If I Were You


rory that is your signature!!!! :sick: :sick: :sick: no i wouldnt touch you with bargepole!!

di marco
24-05-2005, 20:48
rory you have to admit, you are a bit up yourself

Behemoth
24-05-2005, 23:21
Climb out of your ass Rory.

hazey
25-05-2005, 01:14
Climb out of your ass Rory. Well said osiris what a idiot

Sherbs
25-05-2005, 09:50
Once a cheat always a cheat!
Thats a hard one really, depends on the person i guess.
I used to cheat on previous gf's but since i found, fell in love and married my wife i haven't even thought of it, and never would. Once you find that ultimate person, your true soul mate, anything like that goes straight out of your head.
Bet there are plenty here slagging that guy off who have cheated!

stacyefc
25-05-2005, 10:02
i feel sorry for your girlfriend, but then again she must get an idea cos i think if my fella ever cheated on me i'd be able to tell. Imean you must act guilty at times

Rory18
25-05-2005, 10:35
if she ever asks me i tell her the truth she just thinks im jokin or trying to wind her up so cant say im not being honest to her

Rory18
25-05-2005, 10:36
Once a cheat always a cheat!
Thats a hard one really, depends on the person i guess.
I used to cheat on previous gf's but since i found, fell in love and married my wife i haven't even thought of it, and never would. Once you find that ultimate person, your true soul mate, anything like that goes straight out of your head.
Bet there are plenty here slagging that guy off who have cheated!

cheers mate at least someone sees my point of view sort of lol

Rory18
25-05-2005, 10:49
if women are willing to be played then thats their fault they know what im like befor we get together

phils little sister
25-05-2005, 10:50
if women are willing to be played then thats their fault they know what im like befor we get together

Grow up Rory

Rory18
25-05-2005, 10:54
im all grown up thanks i cant believe so many off you are having ago especially seen as im being honest at least instaed of pretending to be a saint someone asked a question and i gave my honest answer and opinion

Debs
25-05-2005, 10:59
yeah but it the way you gave your answer!! it good to be honest but you made yourself sound horrible and up your own bum!! i wouldnt find that attractive!!

Rory18
25-05-2005, 11:04
just because iv got alot of confidence in myself and am sure about myself doesnt make me horrible

chance
25-05-2005, 11:05
bet your a right minger!

Behemoth
25-05-2005, 11:09
It's that fact that you think a lot of yourself that annoys me. Rambling on about being a player like your something special.

Debs
25-05-2005, 11:17
just because iv got alot of confidence in myself and am sure about myself doesnt make me horrible

where do you meet these girls that you cheat with??

Rory18
25-05-2005, 11:23
lol im far from being a minger but hey your entitled to your opinion and the only reason certain people are getting on their high horse is coz they dont have the confidence and charm to get whatever they want and as for where i meet them just at nightclubs when im out n about or when i go to college on thursdays or at work all the normal places

Debs
25-05-2005, 11:25
lol im far from being a minger but hey your entitled to your opinion and the only reason certain people are getting on their high horse is coz they dont have the confidence and charm to get whatever they want and as for where i meet them just at nightclubs when im out n about or when i go to college on thursdays or at work all the normal places


hmm nightclubs hey!! when woman are very very drunk!! explains a lot!!

stacyefc
25-05-2005, 11:26
doesn't your girlfriend say things when you go to nightclubs without her?

Rory18
25-05-2005, 11:32
lol not really coz the majority are from college but i see your point there very drunk at nightclubs yes but their not drunk the next day or week when their still phoning and wanting more

di marco
25-05-2005, 11:39
lol not really coz the majority are from college but i see your point there very drunk at nightclubs yes but their not drunk the next day or week when their still phoning and wanting more

you really are full of yourself. theyre prob either really desperate or using you to get back at someone else, cant see why else loads of people would be dying to go out with you

Debs
25-05-2005, 11:41
lol not really coz the majority are from college but i see your point there very drunk at nightclubs yes but their not drunk the next day or week when their still phoning and wanting more

maybe you should tell yur girlfriend andlet her decide wether or not your worth staying with!! then she could find herself a decent man!!

di marco
25-05-2005, 11:42
and the only reason certain people are getting on their high horse is coz they dont have the confidence and charm to get whatever they want

i actually think players have a low self esteem and arent that confident with themselves thats why they have to sleep around and cheat on their partners as theyre trying to prove something to themselves.
just cos we dont cheat dont mean that we dont have the confidnece to get what we want, just means that when we get what we want, we respect the other persons feelings so we dont cheat on them

stacyefc
25-05-2005, 11:42
how long have you been with your girlfriend?

Rory18
25-05-2005, 11:43
believe me none of them are desperate otherwise they wouldnt plague me when weve been together and as for my girlfriend the physical side of our relationship is way to good to give up on

di marco
25-05-2005, 11:43
if women are willing to be played then thats their fault they know what im like befor we get together

so you tell every single woman as soon as you meet her that you will cheat on her constantly? i dont find this true as most women wouldnt put up being treated like that

di marco
25-05-2005, 11:45
believe me none of them are desperate otherwise they wouldnt plague me when weve been together and as for my girlfriend the physical side of our relationship is way to good to give up on

you really are shallow arent you? is that the only reason why youre with your girlfriend? she doesnt deserve to be treated like that and the sooner she realises this the better

stacyefc
25-05-2005, 11:46
if thats true then your girlfriend is a dxxxhead. but your just as bad cos whats the point being with someone if your gonna cheat you will be better staying single.

chance
25-05-2005, 11:47
agree with di marco,the only reason people cheat is low self esteem,feeling they have something to prove by doing it,you doing it over and over again just means you have a rock bottom self esteem.

Rory18
25-05-2005, 11:48
so you tell every single woman as soon as you meet her that you will cheat on her constantly? i dont find this true as most women wouldnt put up being treated like that

no but me and a few of my mates are well known for messing lasses around where we live but it doesnt put them off alls i gota do is say the right things and i get what i want i just see it as fun or a game between me and friends gives us something to laugh about hey were only young might aswell enjoy life and play about for a few years

Debs
25-05-2005, 11:48
i used to see a man a bit like you!! i was single at the time and didnt want to be with anyone!! he acted like he didnt care and would just come round when he wanted something!! in the end i ignored HIM!! he bugged and bugged me!!

at the end of the day rory you can act how yu want!! but your girlfrined will soon find out what you are like she will leave you and all the other girls will get bored!! where will that leave you?? ALL ALONE MATE!!

Debs
25-05-2005, 11:49
no but me and a few of my mates are well known for messing lasses around where we live but it doesnt put them off alls i gota do is say the right things and i get what i want i just see it as fun or a game between me and friends gives us something to laugh about hey were only young might aswell enjoy life and play about for a few years

what a charmer!!

Meh
25-05-2005, 11:50
if thats true then your girlfriend is a dxxxhead. but your just as bad cos whats the point being with someone if your gonna cheat you will be better staying single.

Can everyone chill in this thread and watch their language

Rory18
25-05-2005, 11:50
theres plenty of girls out there to keep me occupied i wont be alone for along time and ill be gettin bored of my lass before she gets bored of me iv been close to ending it a few times but she gets all upset and then one thing leads to another and it dont happen but it will soon

di marco
25-05-2005, 11:51
at the end of the day rory you can act how yu want!! but your girlfrined will soon find out what you are like she will leave you and all the other girls will get bored!! where will that leave you?? ALL ALONE MATE!!

i agree. when you actually want to have a proper relationship no one will want to go out with you as they will know what youre like and men like you arent worth the bother

Rory18
25-05-2005, 11:51
Can everyone chill in this thread and watch their language

lol thanks mordor thing im going to get lynched soon

Rory18
25-05-2005, 11:52
i agree. when you actually want to have a proper relationship no one will want to go out with you as they will know what youre like and men like you arent worth the bother

one day i will settle down but like i said they have to be someone really special

di marco
25-05-2005, 11:52
theres plenty of girls out there to keep me occupied i wont be alone for along time and ill be gettin bored of my lass before she gets bored of me iv been close to ending it a few times but she gets all upset and then one thing leads to another and it dont happen but it will soon

just end it then, it will be better for her in the long run

di marco
25-05-2005, 11:54
one day i will settle down but like i said they have to be someone really special

but how will they know that you are actually serious about them? if, like you say, everyone knows what youre like, then most people wont want to go out with someone with that sort of reputation if theyre looking for something serious

Rory18
25-05-2005, 11:54
surely this has to go in the golden threads its been fantastic

Meh
25-05-2005, 11:54
lol thanks mordor thing im going to get lynched soon

I'm just watching the bad language. I think there's a massive lynching queue already formed ....

Debs
25-05-2005, 11:54
i agree. when you actually want to have a proper relationship no one will want to go out with you as they will know what youre like and men like you arent worth the bother

it true though isnt it di marco!!

when i was out and about there was always the men that you just kept away from coz of their bad reputation with girls!! us girls talk!! you will never be the man that girls will really want to settle down with!!

Meh
25-05-2005, 11:55
surely this has to go in the golden threads its been fantastic

I very much doubt it.

Rory18
25-05-2005, 11:55
but how will they know that you are actually serious about them? if, like you say, everyone knows what youre like, then most people wont want to go out with someone with that sort of reputation if theyre looking for something serious

because like i said i can talk my way into most things and if im being genuine then ive got nothing to worry about

di marco
25-05-2005, 11:57
it true though isnt it di marco!!

when i was out and about there was always the men that you just kept away from coz of their bad reputation with girls!! us girls talk!! you will never be the man that girls will really want to settle down with!!

precisely. girls have a talent for talking! we know who are the type to have a serious relationship with and who you should go to if you only want some fun. even when you want to settle down, people will still view you as someone to have a bit for fun with for the night and then youll see what its like

Rory18
25-05-2005, 11:57
it true though isnt it di marco!!

when i was out and about there was always the men that you just kept away from coz of their bad reputation with girls!! us girls talk!! you will never be the man that girls will really want to settle down with!!

see thats where your completely wrong im exactly the person they want to settle down with thats why they keep plaguing me theres only been one girl in the last 2 years who i would of settled down with but that ended a year ago so i know the sort of person it takes for me to settle down

di marco
25-05-2005, 11:58
because like i said i can talk my way into most things and if im being genuine then ive got nothing to worry about

but i just dont see how people will know that youre being genuine if you have such a reputation as a player

Rory18
25-05-2005, 11:58
precisely. girls have a talent for talking! we know who are the type to have a serious relationship with and who you should go to if you only want some fun. even when you want to settle down, people will still view you as someone to have a bit for fun with for the night and then youll see what its like

like i said i can make girls believe whatever i want

Rory18
25-05-2005, 11:59
I very much doubt it.

aww come on mordor this has been the best laugh ive had in a long time

di marco
25-05-2005, 12:00
believe me none of them are desperate otherwise they wouldnt plague me when weve been together

isnt that what desperate people do, go on and on and on?

di marco
25-05-2005, 12:00
aww come on mordor this has been the best laugh ive had in a long time

then you really need to get a life!

Behemoth
25-05-2005, 12:19
then you really need to get a life! I think you've pretty much summed it up there, di marco!

Rory18
25-05-2005, 12:21
ive got one thanks but im just living it unlike some people

di marco
25-05-2005, 12:41
ive got one thanks but im just living it unlike some people

dont seem like it to me............

di marco
25-05-2005, 12:42
I think you've pretty much summed it up there, di marco!

thanks osiris, glad you agree!

Rory18
25-05-2005, 12:50
how can you say im not living my life when im out nearly every other night having fun and enjoying myself unlike some

Sherbs
25-05-2005, 12:54
Rory18

My biggest concern is your girlfriend, and the other girls you are sleeping with.
You are risking their health each time you sleep with them.

You might think its clever, and you might think your charming, but i tell you one thing, for say the 20 girls that fancy you, there is probably 100 that think your an arrogant, egotistickle fool (for want of a better word!).

The funny thing i see here, is everyone saying how he has no life, well i kind of disagree with that, he is enjoying his life, maybe the wrong way granted, but he does have a life, unlike most here, me included, who sit posting on a message board to people we can't see!!!!!

On the other hand, although he thinks he is playing all the women, i wonder if its ever occured to him, that in fact it might be him who is being played!
Women are as bad as men for getting what they want, and yes although he is cheating on his gf, all those girls who he 'apparently' sleeps with are no better than him!

But Rory in no way am i condoning or sticking up for you, because what you are doing is wrong, and you say you don't think your current gf is 'the one'.......well there is an old saying......"You don't know what you have got......till its gone"

:cool:

di marco
25-05-2005, 12:59
The funny thing i see here, is everyone saying how he has no life, well i kind of disagree with that, he is enjoying his life, maybe the wrong way granted, but he does have a life, unlike most here, me included, who sit posting on a message board to people we can't see!!!!!

i have a life thank you very much! and if youre saying that we are sad for posting on here then he is too as hes doing exactly the same thing!

Rory18
25-05-2005, 13:01
true in some respects sherbs but i know shes not the one but i really would know if i was being played and yes i agree therel be more girls that think im arrogant but obviously im not this arrogant in front of them otherwise that would just be stupid and i dont think what im doing is wrong as im only young and having fun

Rory18
25-05-2005, 13:02
i have a life thank you very much! and if youre saying that we are sad for posting on here then he is too as hes doing exactly the same thing!#

yes i do the sdame thing whilst at work coz theres not much better to do when im not busy but im vbery rarely on after 5oclock and never on on the weekends

di marco
25-05-2005, 13:11
#

yes i do the sdame thing whilst at work coz theres not much better to do when im not busy but im vbery rarely on after 5oclock and never on on the weekends

well i only go on here in school time, at the mo instead of revising and when my mum wont let me go out for whatever reason. i wouldnt actually chose to sit on here if i could go out instead

Sherbs
25-05-2005, 13:12
Di marco
"i have a life thank you very much! and if youre saying that we are sad for posting on here then he is too as hes doing exactly the same thing!"

I didnt say you were sad, but many were saying he didnt have a life, and i just disagreed.

Lets not make it personal huh, because that wasn't what was intended.
It was simply a comparison.

Sherbs
25-05-2005, 13:15
How old are you Di Marco if you don't me asking?

Rory18
25-05-2005, 13:18
A positive attitude may not solve all your problems, but it will annoy enough people to make it worth the effort


like your saying sherbs

Sherbs
25-05-2005, 13:19
Thanks

Sherbs
25-05-2005, 13:31
Rory can i suggest you change yours, not being funny, well.......i guess i am, but it makes you sound like a p***k!

Trinity
25-05-2005, 13:31
Rory, your signature stinks. And it sounds like you hang around with girls almost as shallow as you!

Rory18
25-05-2005, 13:33
im not shallow i just like having fun ill have my ideal job next year when im doing club reppin i cant wait and as for my signature its all abit of fun lol

Sherbs
25-05-2005, 13:35
Rory i am all for fun, but your signature isn't fun, and in all honesty, it makes you sound like your about 12 yrs old!

Rory18
25-05-2005, 13:37
well thats your opinion but i dont think it does

Rory18
25-05-2005, 13:38
its just the truth really and sounds good

Trinity
25-05-2005, 13:38
Would you really want to be with someone who wants to be a "playa". Sounds like a oneway ticket to the STD clinic to me!

Trinity
25-05-2005, 13:39
And would you want to be with a girl who wants to be with a playa? Shallow, shallow shallow.....

Rory18
25-05-2005, 13:40
the trick to being a good playa is by knowing what women want and being able to give them what they want if you catch my drift and once youve done that they cant complain

Behemoth
25-05-2005, 13:41
Would you really want to be with someone who wants to be a "playa". Sounds like a oneway ticket to the STD clinic to me! lol, sounds about right

Rory18
25-05-2005, 13:41
Would you really want to be with someone who wants to be a "playa". Sounds like a oneway ticket to the STD clinic to me!

im totally clean thank you but thanks for the concern

( i think anyway lol)

Behemoth
25-05-2005, 13:42
the trick to being a good playa is by knowing what women want and being able to give them what they want if you catch my drift and once youve done that they cant complain You remind me of Victor from BB5.

chance
25-05-2005, 13:42
Would you really want to be with someone who wants to be a "playa". Sounds like a oneway ticket to the STD clinic to me!
good one! i was dying to say that but was having trouble of thinking of a way to phrase it.

chance
25-05-2005, 13:44
im totally clean thank you but thanks for the concern

( i think anyway lol)
well i for one wouldnt risk it just by taking your word for it.

Trinity
25-05-2005, 13:44
Well, speaking as a woman I find it offensive a man thinks that 1) we are all the same, and 2) they know what we want.

Treat women as individuals with a brain and not walking hormones and you will have much more rewarding relationsips!

Jade
25-05-2005, 13:46
Remember this is the internet and I bet Rory wishes he could go out and meet lots of girls, I reckon he maybe inventing this "playa" person.

If he's not he's going to end up one sad lonly old man!! he's going to be one of the 50 year old blokes in nightclubs on their own trying to pull 20 year old girls .

If he's waiting to meet someone special to settle down with then he's going to have a very long wait.

I say fair play go out and enjoy yourself when your young, go out to nightclubs etc, I did (still do) but there is no need to mess with people feeling and emotions, by seeping with all lots of people at once you are putting your girlfriends (and your) sexual health at risk, which could lead to infertility. How would you be able to live with yourself if you caused your girlfriend to be infertile? What would you do if you got one of these other girls pregnant?

You can still have a good time without messing up other peoples lives.

Jade
25-05-2005, 13:47
the trick to being a good playa is by knowing what women want and being able to give them what they want if you catch my drift and once youve done that they cant complain

You sound like a complete donkey!!

Behemoth
25-05-2005, 13:49
I agree, Jude. That's why he reminds me of Victor with the whole wannabe thing.

Rory18
25-05-2005, 13:49
nah seriously i know iv got know std i make sure i get checked out if iv any reason to and all the women im with want the same thing someone to treat them right and who knows how to give them a good time and i treat them right as far as they know and as for giving them a good time that just comes natural and well quite abit of practice and its not just is men ive had a fling with a woman 10years my senior who was married with kids so were not the only ones who play about

chance
25-05-2005, 13:50
the trick to being a good playa is by knowing what women want and being able to give them what they want if you catch my drift and once youve done that they cant complain
where do you get all this rubbish? out of a book?

Trinity
25-05-2005, 13:50
And you are proud of that are you??!

Trinity
25-05-2005, 13:52
I am glad that I couldn't read the minds of 18 year old boys when I was a teenager!

Rory18
25-05-2005, 13:52
Remember this is the internet and I bet Rory wishes he could go out and meet lots of girls, I reckon he maybe inventing this "playa" person.

If he's not he's going to end up one sad lonly old man!! he's going to be one of the 50 year old blokes in nightclubs on their own trying to pull 20 year old girls .

If he's waiting to meet someone special to settle down with then he's going to have a very long wait.

I say fair play go out and enjoy yourself when your young, go out to nightclubs etc, I did (still do) but there is no need to mess with people feeling and emotions, by seeping with all lots of people at once you are putting your girlfriends (and your) sexual health at risk, which could lead to infertility. How would you be able to live with yourself if you caused your girlfriend to be infertile? What would you do if you got one of these other girls pregnant?

You can still have a good time without messing up other peoples lives.

i find your commentys rather sad as ive no need to invent anyone and no need to lie why would i its obviously noit to impress you lot im just being honest and for your information iv already had an ex pregnant and i was with her for a year and didnt cheat once but she lost it so i know all about stuff like that

chance
25-05-2005, 13:52
he thinks he's impressing us now by saying he's slept with older women with kids and is married..... ooo its working...NOT!

Trinity
25-05-2005, 13:54
I have just read your profile Rory. If I was (stupid enough to be) your girlfriend I don't think that I would be very happy....

Rory18
25-05-2005, 13:54
he thinks he's impressing us now by saying he's slept with older women with kids and is married..... ooo its working...NOT!

not trying to impress but just proving to you that its not always young lads who make the play

chance
25-05-2005, 13:56
make the play? cant u speak proper english?!

Rory18
25-05-2005, 13:57
make the play? cant u speak proper english?!

yes i can but thanks for asking

Behemoth
25-05-2005, 13:58
10 years older with kids? Are you talking about *********?

Rory18
25-05-2005, 14:00
no im not talking about realitygap this is a woman me and a friend used to work with

chance
25-05-2005, 14:01
what about realitygap?

Behemoth
25-05-2005, 14:02
She and Rory used to flirt in the shoutbox. Thats how he became leader a while back

Rory18
25-05-2005, 14:04
wehat can i say i love the attention i get from women fair enough it wont be there oneday thats while im enjoying it while i can

Meh
25-05-2005, 14:12
Can we take realitygaps name out of this discussion. This thread has absolutely nothing to do with her.

Jade
25-05-2005, 14:12
i find your commentys rather sad as ive no need to invent anyone and no need to lie why would i its obviously noit to impress you lot im just being honest and for your information iv already had an ex pregnant and i was with her for a year and didnt cheat once but she lost it so i know all about stuff like that

If your in a relationship and get someonw pregnant is alot different to getting a one night sand pregnant.

Lots of blokes do not know if they have an STD or not as with men their are often no symptons.

I find your comments rather offensive too

Behemoth
25-05-2005, 14:16
Can we take realitygaps name out of this discussion. This thread has absolutely nothing to do with her. Done! On my post's anyway.

Rory18
25-05-2005, 14:24
If your in a relationship and get someonw pregnant is alot different to getting a one night sand pregnant.

Lots of blokes do not know if they have an STD or not as with men their are often no symptons.

I find your comments rather offensive too

i know iv not got an std though for definete so theres no problem there and as for finding my comments offensive i dont see how you can as there not in anyway aimed at you

Jade
25-05-2005, 14:25
as a women, amied a women in general.

I know it seams like i'm take the moral high ground but with some things its necessary

hazey
25-05-2005, 14:34
I am a middleaged women and I wouldnt be flattered or wont to be with a young boy,older women perfer a man with charm and experieance,and the money to wine and dine them, not a college student!!!!!

My crystal ball tells me that you,will end up a very lonely person,sitting alone looking at the notch's on the bed post, and probably developed HIV or Aids. Wondering how many people You have infected.(safe sex is not 100% garaunteed). May be you will grow up before this happens,but going by your comments I doubt that very much. :wall:

Sherbs
25-05-2005, 14:38
You ever had an Aids test Rory????????
If so when?

Rory18
25-05-2005, 14:39
I am a middleaged women and I wouldnt be flattered or wont to be with a young boy,older women perfer a man with charm and experieance,and the money to wine and dine them, not a college student!!!!!

My crystal ball tells me that you,will end up a very lonely person,sitting alone looking at the notch's on the bed post, and probably developed HIV or Aids. Wondering how many people You have infected.(safe sex is not 100% garaunteed). May be you will grow up before this happens,but going by your comments I doubt that very much. :wall:

who said i have safe sex but i do get checked out so i know ive got nothing and as for older women alot of them like younger men in a=our sexual prime if you didnt know and ive got plenty of experience thanks

Rory18
25-05-2005, 14:40
You ever had an Aids test Rory????????
If so when?

not only do i have check ups now n again i also give blood regualry so if i were to have aids id find out one way or the other

Jade
25-05-2005, 14:41
who said i have safe sex but i do get checked out so i know ive got nothing and as for older women alot of them like younger men in a=our sexual prime if you didnt know and ive got plenty of experience thanks

Oh dear, accident waiting to happen.

men are not in their sexual prime at 18 (if they are we've all got problems)

Sherbs
25-05-2005, 14:41
Numba 1 Playa For life............lmao.
My nephew had that as his sign in name for msn a while back............he is 12!!!!!!

Sherbs
25-05-2005, 14:43
It takes upto 3 months for HIV to show Rory.
Some STD's take years, and don't even show up on tests.
You have a lot to learn!

Sherbs
25-05-2005, 14:45
"A male's sexual prime is 18-21 and a female's sexual prime is about 35-40 years of age"

Not sticking up for him, but that is true.

Debs
25-05-2005, 14:45
who said i have safe sex but i do get checked out so i know ive got nothing and as for older women alot of them like younger men in a=our sexual prime if you didnt know and ive got plenty of experience thanks

oh my god it just gets worse!!:thumbsdow

Rory18
25-05-2005, 14:46
Oh dear, accident waiting to happen.

men are not in their sexual prime at 18 (if they are we've all got problems)

actually the average age for men in their sexual prime/peak is 17-24 and if you ask over half the people ive slept with theyd certainly agree with yoiu

Debs
25-05-2005, 14:47
oh my god it just gets worse!!:thumbsdow

please rory if you want to be a playa, please please make a visit to sex sense!!

if not for you then for the sake of all the woman who fall for your supposed charm!

Jade
25-05-2005, 14:48
please rory if you want to be a playa, please please make a visit to sex sense!!

if not for you then for the sake of all the woman who fall for your supposed charm!

And please pratice safe sex

Rory18
25-05-2005, 14:49
oh my god it just gets worse!!:thumbsdow

please rory if you want to be a playa, please please make a visit to sex sense!!

if not for you then for the sake of all the woman who fall for your supposed charm!

i do

Debs
25-05-2005, 14:49
they will give you free condoms and test you if needed. do it now!!

Rory18
25-05-2005, 14:51
And please pratice safe sex

cant do this 1 thought eugh its awful its not worth bothering having sex if you wear protection

i mean fair enough i will if i dont know the lass (usually) but not if iv known them for abit i wont

Rory18
25-05-2005, 14:53
you know i answer 1 question honestly and the whole board nearly turn against me and form a hate campaign

im not a nasty person i was just being honest fair enough certain things i do people might not agree with but im still a nice person

Debs
25-05-2005, 14:53
no no no no no!!

dont have sex then!!

Jade
25-05-2005, 14:53
You cant tell by looking at them!!! if their sleeping with you who knows who else they've been with

Rory18
25-05-2005, 14:54
You cant tell by looking at them!!! if their sleeping with you who knows who else they've been with

i mean when i get to know them

but come on be honest sex just dont feel the same

Debs
25-05-2005, 14:56
you know i answer 1 question honestly and the whole board nearly turn against me and form a hate campaign

im not a nasty person i was just being honest fair enough certain things i do people might not agree with but im still a nice person

no body is forming a hate campaign against you rory! its the things you are saying.

so you want to sleep around ok if that what you want to do. but just do it safely!! if you want to enjoy your life thhen start being safe or you will have no life to enjoy!! and all those woman will be left with noone!!

hazey
25-05-2005, 14:58
not only do i have check ups now n again i also give blood regualry so if i were to have aids id find out one way or the other I feel sorry for you now as you dont practice safe sex,it is only a matter of time then....one day you will be refused when giving blood because you are Hiv postive. You seem to be very flipant about it. I know people that have HIV AND others with Aids. It is not a joke they are very ill....how did they get it through blood transfusion in the 80's. You need to wise up....

Rory18
25-05-2005, 15:00
I feel sorry for you now as you dont practice safe sex,it is only a matter of time then....one day you will be refused when giving blood because you are Hiv postive. You seem to be very flipant about it. I know people that have HIV AND others with Aids. It is not a joke they are very ill....how did they get it through blood transfusion in the 80's. You need to wise up....

how many times i know i dont have aids or anything similar

Behemoth
25-05-2005, 15:01
Being tested for AIDS is not a prevention or a cure.

Jade
25-05-2005, 15:01
A quick game of hide the sausage could end up costing you your life. Please think about it

Debs
25-05-2005, 15:01
not yet

Sherbs
25-05-2005, 15:03
Rory
"Its not worth bothering having sex if you wear protection
I mean fair enough i will if i dont know the lass (usually) but not if iv known them for abit i wont

Ok Rory, here is a little advice, and its free.
If you don't wear a condom with someone you have known for a while, then, chances are, they have also known you for a while. And if these same girls know what you are like and still sleep with you, then they are probably doing the same with many many other men too.

Its a shame, i thought you might have a bit of common sense, but i actually think your not even 18, you sound about 14-15 to me.

You think you know everything, when infact you know absolutely nothing!!!!!!!!

phils little sister
25-05-2005, 15:06
i don't even think there is much point talking to him about this anymore,he dosen't even seem to care what everyone is trying to tell him,

all the attention he is getting from this post - he is loving it - because i think he is a little silly boy that has made this all up and this is the most attention he has got from any girl in his life - i'd say he is a virgin!!

Sherbs
25-05-2005, 15:07
I agree.

Sherbs
25-05-2005, 15:08
Hey chance how come you have a + after your name at the bottom???????

Sherbs
25-05-2005, 15:08
Woooooohoooooooooooo 100 posts (101 now)

phils little sister
25-05-2005, 15:09
Woooooohoooooooooooo 100 posts (101 now)

Lol

Sherbs
25-05-2005, 15:10
And still i can't have an avatar, why not?
Chance you said i can add a picture when i got to 100 posts! How come i can't?

Rory18
25-05-2005, 15:11
Rory
"Its not worth bothering having sex if you wear protection
I mean fair enough i will if i dont know the lass (usually) but not if iv known them for abit i wont

Ok Rory, here is a little advice, and its free.
If you don't wear a condom with someone you have known for a while, then, chances are, they have also known you for a while. And if these same girls know what you are like and still sleep with you, then they are probably doing the same with many many other men too.

Its a shame, i thought you might have a bit of common sense, but i actually think your not even 18, you sound about 14-15 to me.

You think you know everything, when infact you know absolutely nothing!!!!!!!!

you maje me laugh why would i lie about my age ive been a member for 3months or so and would have no reason to lie these girls i sleep with have heard what me and my mates are like but obviously i make them believe otherwise and i know plenty about infections etc but if the girl isnt bothered if i wear a condon or not im not going to and if im going out with them then im certainly not going to wear one

Rory18
25-05-2005, 15:12
and if i was only 14-15 why would i be working for the goverment check my email adress if you would care to

phils little sister
25-05-2005, 15:12
And still i can't have an avatar, why not?
Chance you said i can add a picture when i got to 100 posts! How come i can't?

think its 150

Rory18
25-05-2005, 15:15
i don't even think there is much point talking to him about this anymore,he dosen't even seem to care what everyone is trying to tell him,

all the attention he is getting from this post - he is loving it - because i think he is a little silly boy that has made this all up and this is the most attention he has got from any girl in his life - i'd say he is a virgin!!

lol you make me laugh i havent been a virgin for 2 years but at least i was good and waited til i turned 16 lol thats the one sensible thing i did do

Sherbs
25-05-2005, 15:16
Rory you really do dissapoint me.
You really are showing the level of your maturity now.
You think sleeping with an older woman is a great thing. She probably only did it because she was desperate, wow what a conquest!
Your sleeping with girls, who to be honest, if they are falling for the rubbish your trying to make us believe on here, sound like they are about 16 (if that) with no brain cells.
Your no stud, your just a boy, a silly one at that!

Rory18
25-05-2005, 15:17
and the only reason why im replying is because you are all getting uptight about my answer to staceys question alot of people on the net will lie but why would i iv got nothing to gain from it like i said a year ago i would of settled down but it never worked out and i wish it did but untill someone like that comes along again im going to have lots of fun

Sherbs
25-05-2005, 15:19
Rory so your working for the Government!
And........?
Is that supposed to impress us??????
Dustbin men work for the Government Rory, and i expect 99% of the women here would rather sleep with one of them, than you!

Rory18
25-05-2005, 15:19
Rory you really do dissapoint me.
You really are showing the level of your maturity now.
You think sleeping with an older woman is a great thing. She probably only did it because she was desperate, wow what a conquest!
Your sleeping with girls, who to be honest, if they are falling for the rubbish your trying to make us believe on here, sound like they are about 16 (if that) with no brain cells.
Your no stud, your just a boy, a silly one at that!

theres no need for you to be so offensive when you dont even know me and for your information all the girls as you call them i meet or sleep with are at least the same age or if not older im not being imature at all yu just dont agree with the way i live my life
your entitled to your opinion but it doesnt make it right

Debs
25-05-2005, 15:19
And still i can't have an avatar, why not?
Chance you said i can add a picture when i got to 100 posts! How come i can't?

hi sherbs its when you get to 1000 posts that you can get avaters!!

Rory18
25-05-2005, 15:20
just coz ive got loads of self confidence and think very highly of myself no reason for you to have ago obvioulsy i wouldnt be this arrogant if women didnt give me good reason to be

Sherbs
25-05-2005, 15:22
Thanks debs.

Sherbs
25-05-2005, 15:23
I honestly don't think i can be bothered with this thread anymore, problem with 14-15 yr old kids is they never listen, even when they know your right!

Rory18
25-05-2005, 15:24
oh and your commment about me not being a stud hoiw would you know just coz you might not see yourself as 1 doesnt mean other people cant see it in themselves if people stopped telling me i was maybe i wouldnt think it as much but hey what do i know

phils little sister
25-05-2005, 15:24
i agree :wall:

Rory18
25-05-2005, 15:26
Thanks debs.

you are quite offensive arent you and very irritating iv only stuck up for the way i live my life and if you think thats mature fair enough but it doesnt in anyway mean im not 18

Debs
25-05-2005, 15:28
why dont we just leave it now!! rory has his way of thinking and we have ours!!
if not i can see this thread getting out of hand!!

Sherbs
25-05-2005, 15:33
Rory
Listen.
When i was your age, i was exactly the same as you ok, if it wore a skirt i wasn't far away!
I loved my life, like you do, but your just not getting the point.
While doing what your doing is fun, your risking the lives, yes lives of everyone you sleep with.
If your going to do it atleast have the common sense to use a condom.
Its not so much the fact of what your doing Rory thats annoying people, its the fact, and am sorry to say it, but its true, you talk like a child.
Your arrogant and childish.
Now you might think thats an endearing quality, but its not.
And young girls grow up a heck of a lot quicker than 'boys'.
So they won't find your 'Babe' remarks cool for long.
I am not nasty Rory, and i don't mean to sound like i am, but you just won't listen, its that simple!!!!!

Sherbs
25-05-2005, 15:40
Debs can i add html into my signatures???????

Rory18
25-05-2005, 15:41
Rory
Listen.
When i was your age, i was exactly the same as you ok, if it wore a skirt i wasn't far away!
I loved my life, like you do, but your just not getting the point.
While doing what your doing is fun, your risking the lives, yes lives of everyone you sleep with.
If your going to do it atleast have the common sense to use a condom.
Its not so much the fact of what your doing Rory thats annoying people, its the fact, and am sorry to say it, but its true, you talk like a child.
Your arrogant and childish.
Now you might think thats an endearing quality, but its not.
And young girls grow up a heck of a lot quicker than 'boys'.
So they won't find your 'Babe' remarks cool for long.
I am not nasty Rory, and i don't mean to sound like i am, but you just won't listen, its that simple!!!!!

i understand your point of view and i would be mortified if i were to catch or pass on any disease but i admit im not as responsible as i should be

Sherbs
25-05-2005, 15:46
Oh finally.
An adult response.
Rory, if you want a simple way to look at it, do you want to die in a few years time?
If you can answer yes to that, then crack on, do what your doing.
If not, if you want to live a decent life, settle down one day, believe me, it will happen, and have kids, then take some responsibility for your actions.
Women will respect a man that shows them respect in return.
You can buy condoms that are ultra thin so they don't restrict sensitivity, as i know they are not fun to wear.
But you have a responsibility to your self, and to the people you sleep with, to make the right decision every time.

Rory18
25-05-2005, 15:52
Oh finally.
An adult response.
Rory, if you want a simple way to look at it, do you want to die in a few years time?
If you can answer yes to that, then crack on, do what your doing.
If not, if you want to live a decent life, settle down one day, believe me, it will happen, and have kids, then take some responsibility for your actions.
Women will respect a man that shows them respect in return.
You can buy condoms that are ultra thin so they don't restrict sensitivity, as i know they are not fun to wear.
But you have a responsibility to your self, and to the people you sleep with, to make the right decision every time.

finally we sort of agree huh

and yup those condoms do make it feel bad

but thanks for your concern

di marco
25-05-2005, 16:34
How old are you Di Marco if you don't me asking?

why do you want to know how old i am, is it so you can make some sort of judgement on me?

di marco
25-05-2005, 16:44
and if i was only 14-15 why would i be working for the goverment check my email adress if you would care to

rory im not saying you dont work for the government but as sherbs said so do a lot of people. i dont know if all local councils have been told to do this by the government or if its just my local council, but everyone that works for them is given an email address (including my mum who is only a part-time lsa at a junior school) and every child who goes to school or college is also given one. the addresses are all in the same format so you wouldnt be able to tell if they had some highprofile job for the government or if they were a 5 yr just starting school

Rory18
25-05-2005, 16:50
im not saying i have a big important job im just doing a buisnes admin apprenticeship but i was just trying to prove i werent 14-15 and when i was at school we were never issued private email addresse off the goverment

di marco
25-05-2005, 16:55
im not saying i have a big important job im just doing a buisnes admin apprenticeship but i was just trying to prove i werent 14-15 and when i was at school we were never issued private email addresse off the goverment

its a new thing, got them about 2yrs ago i think, something like that. and i didnt say you had a big job im just saying that everyone has them and so doesnt really prove that youre not a kid (though im not saying you are, just pointing out a fact)

Rory18
25-05-2005, 16:57
so hows your day bein

di marco
25-05-2005, 16:58
so hows your day bein

trying to change the subject??? but my days been ok thanks, boring as ive been revising

chance
25-05-2005, 17:20
Hey chance how come you have a + after your name at the bottom???????
because im a dead important person!

chance
25-05-2005, 17:20
And still i can't have an avatar, why not?
Chance you said i can add a picture when i got to 100 posts! How come i can't?
1000 posts sherbs not 100

Sherbs
26-05-2005, 08:42
You told me 100 the other day :(
Got all cited for nothing.

Behemoth
04-10-2005, 17:31
This has gone way off topic.

So I'm gonna close it!