friend dilemma

[xxloopylauraxx]

ive got a a big dilemma. i have a lot of friends but im very close to 2 of them. i recently went on holiday in fact i havent even been home a week yet. but while i was away the two of them went out to a gay club with one of the boys we all hang about with and his friends, the club itself has never appealed to me as its crowded, anyway the fact they went was neither here or there i dnt care but ive now found out that while they were there my close friend witnessed my 'best friend' doing a lot of strange behaviour. when she quized her she just laughed in her face and her friend told her to smell something so she did and passed out, it turns out she passed out because the bottle she sniffed was something called 'poppers' a drug that apparently isnt illegal for possesion,(i had to ask frank as ive never heard of it and thought she meant those party popers that you blow up and pop how nieve!) and can only be brought in sex shops or gay bars/clubs. thats not the only thing bothering me. its the fact that i was told in the middle of a bad mood as my best friend and her friend are staying at my friends house while shes on holiday and having everybody and anybody round to the house so i was ahving a go about that. my best friend turned around to my friend and said what ever you do dont tell laura and laughed. she admitted to my friend that she was so glad my friend knows as now she could enjoy herself.
im really unsure how to go about telling her i dnt agree with whats shes doing but im not mean tto know. and as i was going to go clubing for my birthday with her and a few other friends im now wishing i ahdnt opened my mouth sugesting we could do it as i dont want my friends being involved with someone like her. i havent spoken to her sinc ei found out and i really dont want to at the moment either.

[Abigail]

Well I guess there's no easy way to tell her that she's out of order having all and sundry round to somebody else's house whilst they aren't there. You're just going to have to be straight with her, a short sharp shock might be enough to make her realise what she's doing.

Poppers aren't addictive but they are toxic and can kill if swallowed them. They help relax the anal sphincter muscles to make anal sex easier which is probably how she managed to get hold of them so easily in a gay club. Like you said, it's not illegal to have them but it is to supply.

Has something happened to make her act this way?

[xxloopylauraxx]

thanks. i had a word with my friend whose house they were staying at and we came up with a plan and it workd i really shocked them so much so they actually cleaned the house. but as for the poppers thing ive not actualy said anything about it to her as its breaking my friends trust coz she told me nd askd me nt 2 tell her i knwo so i havent. i have noidea whats made her go like this, shes been working in this job for about two years nd since she started going going out with a few people from work she changed alot. as in got much more immature. i mean were immature as it is but shes rediculously immature now. but were talking for now but theres still that thing in the back of my mind that im still thinking ill cut all ties with her soon.