View Full Version : is trust very importent in your love life
black-panther
10-05-2005, 01:27
i dont think it is the way i see it you can still love someone and be with that person without trust i dont think trust is the main key i think every one has a doubt in the partner but i hate the saying were theres no trust theres no love i mean what is that dont it ever cross your minds well give me your views i would love to hear them :love:
i agree because if you dont trust someone its only because you care about them and are worried about losing them so i agree
Trust to me personally is very important, I personally dont think you can have a relationship without it. I know I can trust my husband 100% and vice versa, and its good to feel that way.
Trust to me personally is very important, I personally dont think you can have a relationship without it. I know I can trust my husband 100% and vice versa, and its good to feel that way. I agree the same for me and my husband. If you do not trust someone then it can distroy any love,as the doubts eat any at you.
Trust is what a relationship is based on without it I don't think it can work as it will cause more problems
Most important things for a relationship TRUST and RESPECT
i think its important but it doesnt mean you dont love someone if you find it hard to trust them
phils little sister
11-05-2005, 14:58
If You Havent Got Trust You Might Aswell Forget About It
i think its important but it doesnt mean you dont love someone if you find it hard to trust them but what is the point of being with someone you dont trust,!!!!
black-panther
11-05-2005, 18:10
i dont think it is the way i see it you can still love someone and be with that person without trust i dont think trust is the main key i think every one has a doubt in the partner but i hate the saying were theres no trust theres no love i mean what is that dont it ever cross your minds well give me your views i would love to hear them :love: some ppl dont care what there partner is doing i have a mate whos been married for so many years she trusts her partner but his not perfect he always sleeps behind her back even sleeps with strippers also takes them back to his moms house when there away then goes home and tells his wife his been to the pub i now this couse he tells us its a shame for her has she takes care of the kids but it proves your partner can tell u anything if you believe it its a risk you must take im not saying all are like that but theres always a risk in a relationship you can love them as much as you want but has trust is concernd it is a risk but like i say this isnt to all ppl some can be perfect but thats why theres always broken hearts but i think if your with a person and you dont trust them then that isnt a reason to dump them you just have to keep working on it untill the time you say right cant take no more but i think love is the main key
black-panther
11-05-2005, 18:13
i agree because if you dont trust someone its only because you care about them and are worried about losing them so i agree thankyou for agreeing there lol i thought i was loseing battle :))) its hard to trust anyway exspecially if you been hurt so many times
I think trust is very important in a relationship, respect and communication.
black-panther
17-05-2005, 02:27
i dont think it is the way i see it you can still love someone and be with that person without trust i dont think trust is the main key i think every one has a doubt in the partner but i hate the saying were theres no trust theres no love i mean what is that dont it ever cross your minds well give me your views i would love to hear them :love: there is more ppl then you think living in uk today that is living with no trust and there still together so really trust is nothing if my man had no trust in me i would be flattered really couse i now he loves me and cares about me that much he dont want me to go so really trust isnt the issue here its love i vote for love
For me personally trust is one of the most inmortant things in my relationships, i've been in a relationship where the bloke didnt trust me and beleive me it was very disfunctional.
I couldnt live my life as I like to lead today without trust, I enjoy going out with friends (male and female) without having to answer to my bloke. As he is 10 years older than me we do have seperate groups of friends. I also enjoy the fact that I can go for a drink with the blokes at work and not worry about it (one of them is an ex).
I also trust my boyfriend to have female friends and to still be friends with his ex.
I could not cope with 100 questions after a night out or somone reading too much in to different situations
black-panther
26-05-2005, 11:10
im sorry but i couldnt live life like that you got to much of a open relationship going on there its sometimes these relationships that couse more harm then good but everyone is here to speak there mind but thanks for that one :)))
How is it an open relationship? we dont go with other people.
Been together for 6 years this year, and wouldnt have it any other way
For me personally trust is one of the most inmortant things in my relationships, i've been in a relationship where the bloke didnt trust me and beleive me it was very disfunctional.
I couldnt live my life as I like to lead today without trust, I enjoy going out with friends (male and female) without having to answer to my bloke. As he is 10 years older than me we do have seperate groups of friends. I also enjoy the fact that I can go for a drink with the blokes at work and not worry about it (one of them is an ex).
I also trust my boyfriend to have female friends and to still be friends with his ex.
I could not cope with 100 questions after a night out or somone reading too much in to different situations
trust is very important. i completelty trust my husband and he feels the same with me!
it great that you can go out with your ex. i dont see that there is anything wrong with that. sometimes you can stay just mates and as long as your other half is happy with it then it dosent matter.
Behemoth
26-05-2005, 22:12
I agree with what jude has been saying
xXxJessxXx
08-09-2005, 17:14
I think trust is very important.
i dont think you can have a stable relationship without it. if you dont trust your partner it can lead to all sorts. paranoia and arguents etc. if you cant trust a person then what is the point in being with. if you love a person but dont trust them its not really going any where, i dont even think you can really love a person, or be deeply in love with them if you dont trust them or cant gain their trust first. i dont think a relationship would go any where.
but like trust there are a lot more things that are as important.
I think that trust is an essential cornerstone of any healthy relationship.
How can you live with someone you don't trust? What about kids, money ,bills? you would be a nervous wreck not knowing if things had been done.
And fidelity - how can you live with someone if you don't know whether or not he is sleeping with other people? What about HIV/aids and other STD. No trust - no sex.
You cannot really love someone if you don't trust them and they don't trust you. that is a dysfunctional relationship that harms you both.
Trust is one of the most important things in my hubby and mines relationship. My hubby is at work travelling around all over the place from one day to the next, late home etc and if we didn't have trust, I would be thinking he was up to things constantly! If we didn't trust each other, we would be doomed. (Though I do wonder why I hide the fact I come on here :rotfl: )
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