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black-panther
10-05-2005, 00:53
my 3 year old daughter is sometimes so naughty im ready to pull my hair out she hits her little sister spits at us and swears badly and also threatens her teachers but apart from that so im not alone please tell me your storys and how you deal with it :angel: :angry: :searchme:
black-panther
10-05-2005, 01:09
my 3 year old daughter is sometimes so naughty im ready to pull my hair out she hits her little sister spits at us and swears badly and also threatens her teachers but apart from that so im not alone please tell me your storys and how you deal with it :angel: :angry: :searchme: i think the naughty kids programmes are really good and i think they help ppl alot what do u think give me your views
blimey! poor you! what do you do when she does this? do you tell her off?
when niall was about 3 ish i sent him to his bedroom for being naughty, the contents came back down the stairs at me!! all his toys, clothes bedding the lot!! i never sent him to his room again!!
RealityGap
10-05-2005, 14:05
thankfully so far my 2 year old is a saint! Really he is such a good child
my 3 year old has his moments!! at the moment his dad is off sick and i have noticed his behavior has gone down hill!!
hmm why does that always happen? that happens if my partner is a t home,my son starts playing up etc,weird.
it is very strange as soon as he is off connor starts to play up
$sTaCeY$
11-05-2005, 11:46
i know what people go through i have a little sister and she is always going through my stuff making a mess swearing at me she can be good very rare though
.:Kitz:.
11-05-2005, 15:59
My mum says that if your sister borrows your clothes, you should feel flattered....yeah right!! If my little sister decided to nick my clothes i'd wouldn't be flattered-i'd be petrified that she likes the same style of clothes that i do!!
My sister does!! (nick my clothes i mean!)
.:SpIcYsPy:.
11-05-2005, 16:12
Go on to bbc and search for little angels. There you can find how to stop all of these and they give you advice. May I advice you to watch BBC three at 8pm's - the tiny house of tearaways. Same as little angels. These programs are found on B
BBC one, two and three. Hope this helps. I watch it tos I can use it on my brother. He is three, badly behaved but shy so he dosen't really be anughty at play school. Or you can go on the BBC site and search Parenting to help you stop this.
Go on to bbc and search for little angels. There you can find how to stop all of these and they give you advice. May I advice you to watch BBC three at 8pm's - the tiny house of tearaways. Same as little angels. These programs are found on B
BBC one, two and three. Hope this helps. I watch it tos I can use it on my brother. He is three, badly behaved but shy so he dosen't really be anughty at play school. Or you can go on the BBC site and search Parenting to help you stop this.
i just got the supernanny book through the post so looking forward to sitting and reading it!!
i watch little angels and house of tiny tearaways!!
fab programmes makes me see that connor isnt actually that bad
my 3 year old daughter is sometimes so naughty im ready to pull my hair out she hits her little sister spits at us and swears badly and also threatens her teachers but apart from that so im not alone please tell me your storys and how you deal with it :angel: :angry: :searchme: I stopped my son spitting by.spitting in his face he hated it and never did it again. As for swearing children only learn what they are taught so you have to find out who is swearing around her and put a stop to that.When she swears ignore her and she will finally stop.all the time you react she thinks good got mum attention.hope this helps.
black-panther
11-05-2005, 17:47
Go on to bbc and search for little angels. There you can find how to stop all of these and they give you advice. May I advice you to watch BBC three at 8pm's - the tiny house of tearaways. Same as little angels. These programs are found on B
BBC one, two and three. Hope this helps. I watch it tos I can use it on my brother. He is three, badly behaved but shy so he dosen't really be anughty at play school. Or you can go on the BBC site and search Parenting to help you stop this. yes i do watch those programmes and they are really good and they make my daughter look like a angel lol but she has problems with shareing she will fight for what she wants and dosent let any one get in her way brought her back from school today she punch another child i get called in school a bout 3 times a week sometimes she starts infants in september god help me i think im going grey he he i even had to get the health visitor involved cause she keeps hitting and punching me in the face but i mean i will get there i just have to keep my self in control but i will get there :))))
black-panther
11-05-2005, 19:31
thankfully so far my 2 year old is a saint! Really he is such a good child i think it starts mainly from 3 its terrible lol and i think it dont stop till there about 33 he he my partners case anyway he he
di marco
11-05-2005, 20:28
my mum washed my mouth out with soap when i swore at her, it tasted horrid, and it was the only time i ever did it
black-panther
11-05-2005, 22:57
my mum washed my mouth out with soap when i swore at her, it tasted horrid, and it was the only time i ever did it i put soap in my daughters the once the health visitor told me not to and it is a old saying
.:SpIcYsPy:.
12-05-2005, 21:31
They do books. I was watching little angels and to stop swearing they said to ignore them, as for the agressive bits (punching and pinching) you have to make sure you know what happens to them, getting told off and taking something off from them.
.:SpIcYsPy:.
12-05-2005, 21:32
i just got the supernanny book through the post so looking forward to sitting and reading it!!
i watch little angels and house of tiny tearaways!!
fab programmes makes me see that connor isnt actually that bad
I know seems like my lil broither is an :angel: !!
I really did think my little girl was bad until I read this.. she is only very naughty when she spends the day with her dad.. we are separated and his idea of been a parent is to give her everything she wants.. that makes it so hard on me when he brings her back after weekend... but she is really good most of the time
I really did think my little girl was bad until I read this.. she is only very naughty when she spends the day with her dad.. we are separated and his idea of been a parent is to give her everything she wants.. that makes it so hard on me when he brings her back after weekend... but she is really good most of the time
i had a similar problem with niall when he was younger, he used to go to my sisters quite a bit (he does not see is real dad at all) and he used to come back and behave like a monster!! she has no kids and spoilt him to pieces! after a while it got too much and we sat down and talked and worked out rules for mum's house and rules for auntie's house and that was when he was about 5 and he is now 9 and they are still there, when ever he comes home now he behaves fine!
my little boy swore last week and i got the soap and washed his mouth out and he hasnt said any swaer words since.health visitors think they know everything,dont listen to all they say,your own way is nearly always best.
I am quite good when it comes to swearing and I have allowed my daughter restricted bad words.. she can say "christ sakes, Damn it, and bloody" and believe it or not she keeps to them words cause I am not restricting her from use profanities... it works so well.
i just watched house of tiny tearaways for the first time and just realised my son is a absolute angel! :angel: i can't believe some of the things these kids get uo too.do you think its the parents fault? that women who still breastfeeds her kid isnt helping herself or marriage at all is she? she was suppose to stay away from him for the night but she couldnt using the excuse my breast were too full,well how do other mothers stop feeding? she wrote a poem about spending the night away from him and it sounded as if she was losing him for good not the night!
i felt dead sorry for the women who took her son shopping,how embarresing for her,did you see the way he was hitting her etc.any mother would lose there rag.she said he wasnt as bad as usual so god knows whats heslike when he is at his worst.
then theres the other mum who treats her daughter more like a friend then a daughter.i dont honestly think you are seeing the real her in that house,from what i heard her admit she sounds a bit lazy to me.like with lie ins etc,she has a lie in whilst her 4 yr old makes her own brekkie gets dressed and goes to play.now any other mother would worry about what there child was doing etc but she seems more concerned for her sleep.very good programme,real interesting.is it on every night?
i have to say that sometimes i thnk that connor is amonster child!! but after watching supernany and house of tiny tearaways and all the others he is adorable in comparison!!!
i find it very strange that she wants to breastfeed her two year old! she obviosly just want s to keep him like ababy. someone hand her a pair of scissors!! CUT THE CORD LOVE!!! so everytime her breasts feel full she going to have to feed him then!! that be good when he at 12 at school!!!!!
couldnt believ it when she said that she got herself dressed inthe mornings adnher own breakfast. my friend used to be like that she ahd a 8 year old and a baby and the 8 year old used to get herself up and the baby and feed them both while her mumstayed in bed. she used to put the baby back to bed when she went to school and just go!! i could never do that to connor. i either wake up before him or wake up as soon as i hear him. nomatter how tired i am i get up. connor in the kitchen would = disaster!!
did you here it the other day when tshe put her daughter in the bedroom for being naughty. the swearing was awful. she must have heard her mumcall her that.
it is on every night i think there is also a highlight show on sundays on bbc2
i have to say that sometimes i thnk that connor is amonster child!! but after watching supernany and house of tiny tearaways and all the others he is adorable in comparison!!!
i find it very strange that she wants to breastfeed her two year old! she obviosly just want s to keep him like ababy. someone hand her a pair of scissors!! CUT THE CORD LOVE!!! so everytime her breasts feel full she going to have to feed him then!! that be good when he at 12 at school!!!!!
couldnt believ it when she said that she got herself dressed inthe mornings adnher own breakfast. my friend used to be like that she ahd a 8 year old and a baby and the 8 year old used to get herself up and the baby and feed them both while her mumstayed in bed. she used to put the baby back to bed when she went to school and just go!! i could never do that to connor. i either wake up before him or wake up as soon as i hear him. nomatter how tired i am i get up. connor in the kitchen would = disaster!!
did you here it the other day when tshe put her daughter in the bedroom for being naughty. the swearing was awful. she must have heard her mumcall her that.
it is on every night i think there is also a highlight show on sundays on bbc2
There was a woman brought to court cause she breastfeed her son up to the age of 8.. I think that is disgraceful.. after all most children are off the bottle/breast by 2 anyway.. it think earlier for breast.. besides would you let a teething child near your breast???? OUCH
I get up before my daughter too. there is far to much stuff that can happen to a child in a kitchen at any age... and as for an 8 year old feeding a child and putting it back to bed, anything could happen and the mother obviously doesn't give a damn
no,last night was the first night i watched it after hearing you say it was good,so what are these other progrmmmes you are talking about? when are they on?
which child was swearing? the little girl with blonde hair? what was she callng her mum? do it in a cryptic way so we dont break the rules
no,last night was the first night i watched it after hearing you say it was good,so what are these other progrmmmes you are talking about? when are they on?
which child was swearing? the little girl with blonde hair? what was she callng her mum? do it in a cryptic way so we dont break the rules
ok
the child who was swearing i think her name is kelsey!! the one with the mumwho dosent get up!! i am sure she said you something that rhymes with punt!!! i may have been wrong but that what i thought it sounded like as it was sort of beeped out but the first letter of the word we heard!!! does that make sense??
other programmes little angels? who rules the roost on bbc 3 and nanny 911 that is sometimes on itv3. there is a new one on on chammel 4 i think in the evening might try and catch that one sometime!!
There was a woman brought to court cause she breastfeed her son up to the age of 8.. I think that is disgraceful.. after all most children are off the bottle/breast by 2 anyway.. it think earlier for breast.. besides would you let a teething child near your breast???? OUCH
I get up before my daughter too. there is far to much stuff that can happen to a child in a kitchen at any age... and as for an 8 year old feeding a child and putting it back to bed, anything could happen and the mother obviously doesn't give a damn
that is so bad. why on earth would you want to breastfeed to that age?? and i agree about the teeth. makes me hurt just thinking about it!!
no the mother didnt give a damn she was always like it! even if i said something she would just shrug her shoulders and say she likes doing things herself and lookingafter her sister!!! but her 8 year old used to tell emthat her mumalways sat on her bum doing nothing!!!
that is so bad. why on earth would you want to breastfeed to that age?? and i agree about the teeth. makes me hurt just thinking about it!!
bit weird if you ask me,makes me feel a bit ill
no the mother didnt give a damn she was always like it! even if i said something she would just shrug her shoulders and say she likes doing things herself and lookingafter her sister!!! but her 8 year old used to tell emthat her mumalways sat on her bum doing nothing!!!
people like that dont deserve to have children if they cant look after them properly,its just plain lazyness on thats womens part.
looking forward to tonights episode,i rreally enjoyed last nights.the only way that girl swore like that (punt,lol) was because she had heard her mum probebly call her it.
The woman that was in the bed next too me in hospital has twin and she was telling me that her 8 year old daughter did so much for her when she was in the late stage.. her twin were born 7lb 5oz and 6lb 8oz so she was huge.. Her daughter washed dishes, made dinner and she came up everyday to hospital to help with the twins until she was allowed home, but the woman felt bad about it cause she physically couldn't do it herself
i think it's good to get an older child involved when a new baby is born, when my brother and i were born my elder brother helped out a LOT. My older brother is 11 years older then me and my twin. I often ask if he resented the time he spent doing chores and he said no it made him feel like he was helping and not being pushed out.
I have to admit i thought my son "had his moments" but since watching tiny tearaways i realise he's "just a typical boy"
people like that dont deserve to have children if they cant look after them properly,its just plain lazyness on thats womens part.
looking forward to tonights episode,i rreally enjoyed last nights.the only way that girl swore like that (punt,lol) was because she had heard her mum probebly call her it.
yeah i agree. connor has only ever sworn when he heard it from us!! he said something once that i say quite a lot without thinking. i have never shouted at him like i did before. he was so shocked now if we swear he says "umm you said a naughty word!!" and smacks our hand!! he does it to everyone!! if he is out in the street and he hears a "naughty word" he shouts " mummy that man said a naught word"!!!
she didnt deserve her girls!! and yes she was very lazy!! we dont see her anymore!!!
The woman that was in the bed next too me in hospital has twin and she was telling me that her 8 year old daughter did so much for her when she was in the late stage.. her twin were born 7lb 5oz and 6lb 8oz so she was huge.. Her daughter washed dishes, made dinner and she came up everyday to hospital to help with the twins until she was allowed home, but the woman felt bad about it cause she physically couldn't do it herself
yeah but that is different she needed help and her daughhter was there to help. tmy ex friend used to be just lazy!! to not even get up to look after her 8 minth oldis pure laziness!!
i think it's good to get an older child involved when a new baby is born, when my brother and i were born my elder brother helped out a LOT. My older brother is 11 years older then me and my twin. I often ask if he resented the time he spent doing chores and he said no it made him feel like he was helping and not being pushed out.
I have to admit i thought my son "had his moments" but since watching tiny tearaways i realise he's "just a typical boy"
yeah i agree that it is good to get a chld involved. i look after my 8 month old nephew twice a week and connor is soo jealous!! it horrendous! i tried to involve connor as much as i can. he will feed some juice to him at lunchtime but that about it!! i dont know how to make him less jealous!!!
I have told my daughter that she can help me when this baby is born.. she is so excited, she even told me that I can go back to work and she will mind the baby.. bless she is not even 4 yet
aaah bless her!! connor would hate it if i get pregnant agian! we ask him if he owuld like a brother or sister and he says no!!
yeah i agree that it is good to get a chld involved. i look after my 8 month old nephew twice a week and connor is soo jealous!! it horrendous! i tried to involve connor as much as i can. he will feed some juice to him at lunchtime but that about it!! i dont know how to make him less jealous!!!
I can't really help with that one as i only have 1 child ( i went to the vets and demanded to be neutered after that) but i can share the experiences Andrae shared with me.
Buying the baby something and letting the older sibling choose.
Involve the older sibling in the simplest of tasks i.e liquidizing the newborns food or making up the bottles.
Letting the older sibling know that the younger one will look to him/her as an example.
Try asking the elder child what they would like to do and see if you can include the baby/younger child. Makes them feel like things are their choice and the younger child is just tagging along.
Works a treat from experience although do remember every child is different
black-panther
27-05-2005, 12:04
my 3 year old daughter is sometimes so naughty im ready to pull my hair out she hits her little sister spits at us and swears badly and also threatens her teachers but apart from that so im not alone please tell me your storys and how you deal with it :angel: :angry: :searchme: my daughter can be nice to her baby sister sometimes but she tends to push her flying alot and smacking her in the face has i have to watch with the baby has she cant see properly for haveing born with a squint in her eyes but apart from that she can be great with her but it has gone quiet for abit so far he he has they both have chicken pox and they are quiet when they are bad bless
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