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jstevens1
14-09-2006, 20:55
I am writing in response to the fairly recent subject of plagarism in schools, colleges and even universities.

I am now writing to confess that I was a cheat. I did not want to cheat but this was how it happened. This was in 1982/82. I had just been given a geography project to complete for my CSE Geography exam. It would count for 1/3 of the overall marks. The subject matter was about my home town. I undertook several field trips and the write ups were in my own words. However, I had to write up more general stuff about my home town and I showed my assignment list to my mum. Mum worked in a University library so knew quite a lot about my home town so she wrote out copious notes for me. I tried to put them in my own words but it all came out wrong. I therefore felt discouraged and from then on in copied verbatim what she wrote. Mum assured me that there was nothing wrong in what I was doing and that an author of a book would get somebody to do the research and help draft the manuscript (later during a confrontation she yelled "I did your geography project for you and you behave like this!" - this really hurt). The title pages were also my own work. But I would say that 80% of the project was mum's. Mum achieved 98% for this work. Knowing what I do now it was a wonder I didn't get caught because I did a huge volume of work (there was no word limit) - more than the others, so it stood out like a sore thumb. The only thing I can think of is that my regular teacher had had a nervous breakdown and our class had a succession of supply teachers until the Head of Geography took over - so they may have been a little too busy to look at the assignments in depth. I achieved a CSE Grade 1 overall which enabled me to leave school with the equivalent of 3 O'Levels which was enough to get me on an intensive medical secretarial course.

Now you all must hate my guts, I understand because I hate myself for what I have done and I feel that I should have received a U in my CSE and been expelled. Although I got away with it, I am paying a huge price because I feel guilty and :sick: and I don't think (despite the reassurance of my current boss who I get on v. well with) that I shall ever forgive myself for what I have done.

This letter is a warning to all who think that this route is a solution to the problem. It is not. I should have gone to my year tutor for guidance when mum produced the first handwritten page of that work but I took the "easy" way out. There is no such thing as the easy way out and if and when my son has a project to complete (he will be starting secondary school next year), I will seek the appropriate guidance on how much help I can give him so I don't ruin his life.

Please remember, you are only cheating yourself. :nono:

jstevens1

Jessie Wallace
14-09-2006, 22:13
You learn by your mistakes !

squillyfer
14-09-2006, 22:51
yeah but can i just ask if you have ever needed geography for your current job? If the answer is no then you have no reason to feel guilty, that cse just allowed you to springboard to where you are now and no one really got hurt. If the answer is yes and you still have your job then you obviously knew enough geography to do what you wanted and yet again the qualification only served to make up the numbers, there should be no guilt!

diamond1
14-09-2006, 22:52
haha I find this extremley funny its like you have killed someone the way you portray it...the whole I hate myself stuff is a bit extreme,you think your mum doing the work was bad I tried coming on to my teacher to achieve my mark.

Pinkbanana
14-09-2006, 23:08
haha I find this extremley funny its like you have killed someone the way you portray it.

Oh D1, your priceless! Have you ever thought of working for the Samaritans?! :rotfl:

Dr. Tangliss
15-09-2006, 07:48
At the end of the day you know what you did was wrong and for that you sound very sorry. All I can say is, you have to get over it and try to put it to the back of your mind. It happened 24 years ago (I am write in saying you cheated on your work in 1982?) I'm sure you have greatly matured and have learned by your past mistakes. Try not to dwell in the past and think about your future prospects.

All the best.:)

Trinity
15-09-2006, 08:37
I agree with the doc.

This happened a long time ago.

Forgive yourself and put it out of your mind for good.

Katy
15-09-2006, 16:00
everyone has alittle help now and again. I dont think i know anyone who has handed in anything that is there own work completly, its so much easyer now as theres the internet and thigs.

diamond1
15-09-2006, 16:10
honestly the whole cheating thing was AGES ago (1982)best thing now mate is to laugh about it....no one will ever find out and every single person in the world has cheated at one stage marriage,exams,sport whatever take a leaf out the late eddie guerrueo (wwe wrestler) "lie cheat and steal" I know I do -actually I have never stolen but two out of three aint bad

Katy
15-09-2006, 16:12
"I also have to confess to cheating...when I was 5 I cheated at scrabble I made up a word and won a lollipop off my teacher I know you must hate my guts I know I do but please forgive me everyone.I am so sorry for this and now I know never to do it again although that lollipop did taste lovely." -Diamond1
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Oh you really make me laugh diamiond.

Jojo
15-09-2006, 23:18
It all happened a long time ago - most people copy things in some form or the other from their reading of books and doing their research, so don't beat yourself up about it. Lifes too short. Forgive yourself and look to the future.

D1 - is it really necessary, to take the mickey out of the way someone else is feeling? You may find it funny, but it seems like the original poster is being sincere. Not everyone in this world has cheated in one way or the other and laughing at the way someone else is feeling is a pretty nasty thing to do in my opinion.

Abbie
16-09-2006, 18:26
Well at least you have owned up to it now, and like people have said it was a long time ago

Pinkbanana
16-09-2006, 18:59
To be honest I did think when I read this it was a spoof post, because it seemed a bit extreme, especially in its language (inferring that we'd hate the poster for cheating) and about something that happened such a long time (24 years) ago.

I apologise to the poster if they were being genuine, and would say that what you did, whilst wrong, didn't adversely affect/harm anyone else. You should accept everyone's reassurances and put it behind you.

Moreover, you sound like a very conscientious person. So if this is one of the worse things you have done, you must be leading an exemplary life. :)

diamond1
16-09-2006, 20:23
D1 - is it really necessary, to take the mickey out of the way someone else is feeling? You may find it funny, but it seems like the original poster is being sincere. Not everyone in this world has cheated in one way or the other and laughing at the way someone else is feeling is a pretty nasty thing to do in my opinion.

hmm your right I do apologize, at the timeI didnt think I was being nasty I was just making a joke out of the issue but I do tend to do these things without thinking and to the guy in question I hope I havent offended you I thought it would come out more as a joke not a laugh at your expense-I have actually taken away the "joke" now so hopefully no offence is taken.

:)

jstevens1
16-09-2006, 22:57
Dear Diamond 1 & Co.

Thanks everyone for your feedback. I will tell you a little about myself. My name is Joanne. I am 40 in December this year and I have been married for 14 years and have 2 children, an 11 year old boy and a 2 year old girl. My post was serious. It really did happen and over the years I had been troubled by it on and off. What brought everything to a head was the recent publicity about plagarism and that my son will be starting secondary school next year (he is one of the eldest in his class) so he will be due to sit his Stage 2 SATS in May 07. So that is why I have been really troubled by this. However, you are right. This happened 24 years ago and I now feel that I can let go of this and move on. Although I cannot turn back the clock, as I said earlier, I can only ensure that I do not make the same mistake with my kids.

Thanks again everyone.

jstevens1

Dr. Tangliss
19-09-2006, 09:22
Hey Joanne,

Unless you have a time machine (which would make you very rich;)) the there's nothing you can do to change the past. Use this to make sure that your children never do the same, and turn it into a positive. :)

Welcome to the forum btw :)