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true.moon
02-09-2006, 21:00
If you were in stacey's position i was wondering what you would do:
1. Have the baby and leave Bradley for telling you to have an abortion
2. Get rid of the baby and keep Bradley.

If it was me I would probably keep it get rid of the baby and keep bradley at 17 she wouldn't cope that well I don't think but on the other hand I would be mad at Bradley for telling me he wanted an abortion.
crazygirl
02-09-2006, 21:03
that is a question nobody could answer unless they were in that position or have been in that position
Rach33
02-09-2006, 21:04
For me personallly I would follow my heart and her heart said keep the baby and she has a great support network, her brother, friend, family members she certainly wouldn't be alone. If Bradley didn't like her decision then that's his loss and the baby's loss certainly not hers.

If your not sure you need more than 24hours to think about it
Abbie
02-09-2006, 23:19
well i suppose i really wouldnt know unless i was in that position, but i just cant see me being able to go through that, so i would probably keep the baby.
PR1811
02-09-2006, 23:44
As everyone else has said it is a difficult thing to answer (one issue being I'm a bloke)...

Saying that I would think that I would have had the abortion as I would rather stay with the love of my life and have a family in the future than have a child when I'm not ready and almost certainly lose said love.
littlemo
03-09-2006, 01:19
It's too hard to predict what I would do. It's just so difficult.

She had good reasoning for not having the baby though. She said she didn't want to have Bradley's baby without Bradley. She didn't want to lose what they had. He'd stick around but it probably wouldn't be the same.
Jojo
03-09-2006, 11:44
Unless you have been in that position, you cannot possibly answer it - you can never feel what its like to have to make that decision unless you have been there.
Jada-GDR
03-09-2006, 17:38
If you were in stacey's position i was wondering what you would do:
1. Have the baby and leave Bradley for telling you to have an abortion
2. Get rid of the baby and keep Bradley.

If it was me I would probably keep it get rid of the baby and keep bradley at 17 she wouldn't cope that well I don't think but on the other hand I would be mad at Bradley for telling me he wanted an abortion. i think id keep it. i couldnt have an abortion - i know why other people would want to and i dont hold it against them, but i couldnt. i would hopefully have the support of my family, even if my boyfriend didnt want to help me
littlemo
03-09-2006, 18:25
If I was in Stacey's situation and had a man that I loved, I think it would be different than if I was pregnant without being in a relationsip. If your single you can make your own mind up, nobody else has a say over what you should do.

But then if Stacey was single she probably wouldn't want the baby. And if I was I think I would.

If that makes sense?!
xCharleyx
03-09-2006, 18:46
if i was in stacey's position i would keep the baby i dont believe in having abortions its not right to kill something i think if your pregnant and the baby has got a heart beat you shouldnt kill it and if the dad doesnt want it well tough id have the baby and not be with the dad.
x Amby x
03-09-2006, 21:22
If i was Stacey i wouldn't have had the abortion, i think its wrong to kill a human being like that when it hasnt even done anything to you! However if your truely in love with someone, which Stacey and Bradley seem to be then you would do anything to be with that person so i can see why Stacey did it!
Kim
03-09-2006, 21:51
That's a difficult one - Stacey obviously had psychological issues which influenced the decision to have an abortion. I think I would have risked Bradley - if he's as mad about her as he said then surely he would have come round - Stacey didn't exactly plan it. It's not as if it meant the end of his career, plenty of people still have careers and the baby.
littlemo
03-09-2006, 22:58
Whichever way you went one person would lose out. Stacey's lost her baby, and if Stacey went ahead with having it, Bradley would have lost the life he wanted. One of them would have lost the thing they loved.

I suppose sometimes you have to be a bit selfish in these situations. Stacey thought about what she wanted, and that was Bradley. She did make a choice.
*-Rooney-*
14-09-2006, 14:02
if i was in that situation id be telling bradley where to go and keeping the baby no question about it
danielle741
14-09-2006, 15:28
i was in that position and i kept my baby and split up with his dad not long after i made that decision and i know i made the right choice and i love my little boy to bits and i cant imagine life without him now! but at the same time if you dont have the support from your family and friends and feel you wouldnt be able to cope as a single mother then maybe a termination would be right for you.
littlemo
14-09-2006, 16:06
Yeah, the Slaters have always been big on family, and looking out for there own, so I think they would try and support to her. But Charlie and Big Mo are getting on a bit, and Sean isn't exactly reliable. She may not have always had somebody.

It would have been hard, but I think she should have made her decison, based on how she felt, not what Bradley felt. I think I would have kept it.