Should I be worried about this?

[di marco]

hopefully put this in the right place lol!

im not sure whether i should worry about this or not, but it seemed a bit strange to me at the time
anyway, the other week i was walking home and noticed someone from school following me, id never seen him before and i know everyone that walks up my road to go home but i didnt think anything of it. the next day he was walking behind me again and i noticed that once id gone in my house he walked a bit further up the road then turned round and walked back again. then the next day he did the same thing, as he got to my house he turned round and walked back. i thought this was a bit strange, but am i just being paranoid?
then the saturday after this (last weekend), someone knocked on my door asking for me. at the time i was trying to straighten my hair so looked a right mess with some of it straight and some of it curly, and was wearing really scruffy clothes so i told my mum to tell them i wasnt in. when i asked her afterwards who it was, she said she had forgotten to ask but it was some boy with brown hair. ok this might not be strange but when i went into school, no one said to me that theyd been to my house and surely they would have mentioned it to me?
so should i worry about this or am i just being too paranoid about the situation?

[Abi]

Did he always do it at the same time every day? Or was it at different times you noticed him?

Because if it was at the same time, then there could be an explaination for it. But your right, it sounds a bit strange...

[willow]

maybe he likes you but is really shy???

[big bro fan]

I agree with Willow maybe he likes you

[hazey]

I think as he as actually, knocked on your door. I think he just fancies you and is shy, so has been following you in the hope of talking to you, then finally has plucked up the courage to call and speak to you.

[shannisrules]

hmmm strange do you know him well from school or just sort of know hes from your school? is he in any of your lessons? watch out di m you have a stalker! lol joking erm see if he does the same next week and does he look at you when you are walking

[samantha nixon]

hiya i think he likes you as maybe hes been following you as he wants you to notice him and ask him why hes following you as he might find that easier than approaching you

[di marco]

well the thing is, i dont know him at all, id never seen him before at school and still havent seen him at school, i just knew he went to my school cos he had the uniform on. i dont even think hes in my year as even though i dont know the names of everyone in my year i do know what everyone looks like and so would recognise them. thats why i thought it was strange as id never seen him before. plus i dont know whether it was him that knocked on my door or not cos i wouldnt have thought he would know my name?

[feelingyellow]

I think he likes you dm but is just too shy bless him! :wub: :p Maybe he heard someone say your name to you or maybe looked it up in the register, cos at my school they have photos with people's names in them at the back of the register just in case.
So say he does like you and askes you out, would you go out with him? Or is he too young? Or do you think you would have to get to know him a bit better first?
Btw dm do your love life problems ever stop? :lol: :p

[Kim]

well the thing is, i dont know him at all, id never seen him before at school and still havent seen him at school, i just knew he went to my school cos he had the uniform on. i dont even think hes in my year as even though i dont know the names of everyone in my year i do know what everyone looks like and so would recognise them. thats why i thought it was strange as id never seen him before. plus i dont know whether it was him that knocked on my door or not cos i wouldnt have thought he would know my name?

I would think he likes you, otherwise why go to the trouble of finding out your name when he's not in your year?

[leanne27]

yeah he probably likes you but that still doesn't give him the right to follow you! he's invading your personal space if you know what i mean id keep a close eye on him he sounds weired i personally wouldnt get involved.

[di marco]

yeah he probably likes you but that still doesn't give him the right to follow you! he's invading your personal space if you know what i mean id keep a close eye on him he sounds weired i personally wouldnt get involved.

dont worry i wasnt planning to, i mean i have no idea who he is for a start, i think ill just concentrate on boys i know lol! i just started this thread really to see whether i was being stupid or not thinking it was weird

[di marco]

I think he likes you dm but is just too shy bless him! :wub: :p Maybe he heard someone say your name to you or maybe looked it up in the register, cos at my school they have photos with people's names in them at the back of the register just in case.

omg i hope they dont do that at my school, my school photo was awful cos i didnt know we were having them done! :( although they never sent them out for us to buy so they must be using them for something?


So say he does like you and askes you out, would you go out with him? Or is he too young? Or do you think you would have to get to know him a bit better first?

1) if hes not in my year then yep too young for me! and 2) as i said in my previous post hes a bit too strange so id go nowhere near him lol!


Btw dm do your love life problems ever stop? :lol: :p

thanks for that comment! im glad you find my life so amusing! youve made me have so much confidence in my problems lol! :rolleyes:

[JustJodi]

I would be a bit paranoid, having a guy follow you home all the time, and you not knowing who he was. I would be verrrrrrry careful walking any where else but home !!! Call me paranoid !! But in this day and age you can't be too careful :)

[feelingyellow]

omg i hope they dont do that at my school, my school photo was awful cos i didnt know we were having them done! :( although they never sent them out for us to buy so they must be using them for something?

1) if hes not in my year then yep too young for me! and 2) as i said in my previous post hes a bit too strange so id go nowhere near him lol!

thanks for that comment! im glad you find my life so amusing! youve made me have so much confidence in my problems lol! :rolleyes:

Lol aww! Well steal your register and check! :rotfl: :p

Lol yeah good :p

Lmfao! Well just trying to make you see the funny side :p Oh and have I? Well you're welcome :p

[di marco]

I would be a bit paranoid, having a guy follow you home all the time, and you not knowing who he was. I would be verrrrrrry careful walking any where else but home !!! Call me paranoid !! But in this day and age you can't be too careful :)

well i thought i was the only one that got paranoid about that sort of thing! yeh ill make sure that on the days i dont go straight home that i walk with someone i know that goes that way

[di marco]

Lol aww! Well steal your register and check! :rotfl: :p

Lol yeah good :p

Lmfao! Well just trying to make you see the funny side :p Oh and have I? Well you're welcome :p

glad you still find it amsuing lol! keep going on about it and maybe ill start to see the hilarious side too! :rolleyes:

[feelingyellow]

glad you still find it amsuing lol! keep going on about it and maybe ill start to the hilarious side too! :rolleyes:

Lmao ok I will! :lol: :p So Kyal and lapdancing... :rotfl: :p

[di marco]

Lmao ok I will! :lol: :p So Kyal and lapdancing... :rotfl: :p

haha lol! i actually saw the funny side to that at the time! but know its starting to become not so funny......................

[feelingyellow]

haha lol! i actually saw the funny side to that at the time! but know its starting to become not so funny......................

Lol ok, I'll shut up and turn all serious. :p

[di marco]

Lol ok, I'll shut up and turn all serious. :p

then thatd be boring lol! plus i dont think you could last 5mins being serious! it werent your fault i dont find it funny anymore, yesterdays conversation on shoutbox was amusing (even though i pretended it wasnt lol!), just been thinking about it and sort of started to feel guilty about it, which isnt good, especially as it was fun at the time!

[feelingyellow]

then thatd be boring lol! plus i dont think you could last 5mins being serious! it werent your fault i dont find it funny anymore, yesterdays conversation on shoutbox was amusing (even though i pretended it wasnt lol!), just been thinking about it and sort of started to feel guilty about it, which isnt good, especially as it was fun at the time!

Lol, aww, I don't exactly get why you feel guitly cos I saw your post in 'Teenage Problems' aswell and that confused me lol! I'll go on shoutbox as it's easier lol :)

[di marco]

Lol, aww, I don't exactly get why you feel guitly cos I saw your post in 'Teenage Problems' aswell and that confused me lol! I'll go on shoutbox as it's easier lol :)

youre always confused lol! how was it confusing?

[xStephaniex]

i think it sounds srange bumayb hes in a lower year than you ? hes seen you around shool alot and is shy of approaching you in school so is following you to try alkto you but then you walk into your house and then he's missed you s turns around and walks bck home to try again tomorow ? does he look older or youner than you or same age?x

[di marco]

i think it sounds srange bumayb hes in a lower year than you ? hes seen you around shool alot and is shy of approaching you in school so is following you to try alkto you but then you walk into your house and then he's missed you s turns around and walks bck home to try again tomorow ? does he look older or youner than you or same age?x

erm dont know, younger i suppose, well i havent seen him for a few days so maybe hes stopped now anyway

[di marco]

thanks for your advice guys :) ive found out what was going on now anyway