chance
25-04-2006, 11:48
Right ok here goes..
My sis in law and i are quite close (better just say she is not officially my sis in law as im not married..anyway..) She is pregnant with her second child and has been with her partner for 8 years.Since the birth of there first child who will be 2 in oct,they have gone through a rough patch.There little girl is quite diffucult and so it does out a strain on there relationship.They used to go out quite alot and neither of them are natural parents if you see what i mean.
Anyway a while back she found some text messages from a girl who he works with on his phone,just saying 'are you going to michaels stag do on sat night' anyway..he had told my sis in law that there was a stag do but it was blokes only but she found this text and found out this women from work is gong.They had this big row etc and it threatened to split them up even though he said he hadnt done anything with this girl etc but just flirt.
gosh this is gettin a long story..
Anyway shes told me she hasnt got over the text thing and the fact he lied and talks to this women about there relationship etc.She said she doesnt want sex anymore mainly cus shes pregnant etc and they are like a old couple.she doesnt want to stay with him just for the sake of there daughter but she does still ove him.
Anyway my other half (this is his sister we are talking bout remember) spoke to her other half bout it and he said that he gets offered it on a plate at work and that he could take it if he wants and he has been very tempted but he hasnt done anything.He says the women asks him for a snog says he has a nice ass etc and that he is just a man with needs and he is geting none at home so what is he suppose to do?
Anyway my other half told me this so now what do i do? she has asked me if her boyf has said anything so do i tell her he said he feels like straying? my partner said that he sounded very much like there is a possiblilty of him straying.Having this second child is only going to make things worse isnt it?
Do i tell her or keep sctum? if i tell her it may makes things worse and if i dont they might be able to work it out or he may just go off with someone else.
Sorry its so long and it may not seem such a big deal but shes my mate and i want to know what to do for the best for her and her children.
My sis in law and i are quite close (better just say she is not officially my sis in law as im not married..anyway..) She is pregnant with her second child and has been with her partner for 8 years.Since the birth of there first child who will be 2 in oct,they have gone through a rough patch.There little girl is quite diffucult and so it does out a strain on there relationship.They used to go out quite alot and neither of them are natural parents if you see what i mean.
Anyway a while back she found some text messages from a girl who he works with on his phone,just saying 'are you going to michaels stag do on sat night' anyway..he had told my sis in law that there was a stag do but it was blokes only but she found this text and found out this women from work is gong.They had this big row etc and it threatened to split them up even though he said he hadnt done anything with this girl etc but just flirt.
gosh this is gettin a long story..
Anyway shes told me she hasnt got over the text thing and the fact he lied and talks to this women about there relationship etc.She said she doesnt want sex anymore mainly cus shes pregnant etc and they are like a old couple.she doesnt want to stay with him just for the sake of there daughter but she does still ove him.
Anyway my other half (this is his sister we are talking bout remember) spoke to her other half bout it and he said that he gets offered it on a plate at work and that he could take it if he wants and he has been very tempted but he hasnt done anything.He says the women asks him for a snog says he has a nice ass etc and that he is just a man with needs and he is geting none at home so what is he suppose to do?
Anyway my other half told me this so now what do i do? she has asked me if her boyf has said anything so do i tell her he said he feels like straying? my partner said that he sounded very much like there is a possiblilty of him straying.Having this second child is only going to make things worse isnt it?
Do i tell her or keep sctum? if i tell her it may makes things worse and if i dont they might be able to work it out or he may just go off with someone else.
Sorry its so long and it may not seem such a big deal but shes my mate and i want to know what to do for the best for her and her children.