What Shall I do?

[Kim]

Hope I've put this in the correct place.

I've got a problem concerning two of my best friends. One of them has invited the other over for a sleepover, and told her friend not to tell me about it. The friend who has said this lives about a five minute walk away from me. The friend who told me about this doesn't go to my school and lives about half an hour away from me, so I rarely get to see her. She wants to see me when she comes down and I want to see her, we were fine in a three the last time she came over, but apparently I ruined it, which is a load of rubbish. Now I don't know what to do about it. Should I confront the friend for keeping secrets and making up a complete load of rubbish? And how can I get to see my other friend?

[Siobhan]

Hope I've put this in the correct place.

I've got a problem concerning two of my best friends. One of them has invited the other over for a sleepover, and told her friend not to tell me about it. The friend who has said this lives about a five minute walk away from me. The friend who told me about this doesn't go to my school and lives about half an hour away from me, so I rarely get to see her. She wants to see me when she comes down and I want to see her, we were fine in a three the last time she came over, but apparently I ruined it, which is a load of rubbish. Now I don't know what to do about it. Should I confront the friend for keeping secrets and making up a complete load of rubbish? And how can I get to see my other friend?

Go see your friend, she can't stop you. I would ask her how you ruined everything the last time but then that means her finding out that your other friend told you.. Bit of a sticky situation you have here Kim :hmm:

[stacyefc]

i would confront your friend. ask her why she is leaving you out? maybe she is jealous because she thinks you are closer to the other girl than her. have a talk with her and try and make her realise that all 3 of yous can be friends