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twinkle_eyes83
12-04-2006, 10:41
well we had a big bust up last night garry was home late for work when he is late home he will phone me but no phone call so i phoned him and text him no answer grrrrrrr. he come in at 8.00pm last nite with the big hump he had his dinner then he turned in to a right **** head sorry girls had the hump over work and money then he chucked his cup accross the kitchin floor well i dont mind that but it was the cup i brought him for vals day so that put the cherry on the cake he did not even clean it up so i did and cut my finger at the same time grrrrrrrrrrrrr anyway he whent to the shop and brought 8 beers then come back and sat in the kitchin so i nicked 3 and i sat upstairs and he sat downstairs. do you think i am over reacting and we have not spoke to each other at all this morning and last night sorry its long
what is it with men and phones. it only takes a minute to make a call or text and say they'll be late but oh no, let us suffer and then take it out on us. i'd be more upset about the cup chucking to be honest. i'd wait and let him apologise.
twinkle_eyes83
12-04-2006, 12:23
thats what i was thinking and he still has not text me or even phoned to say sorry or anything
he's a man. what happens usually when you have a row?
twinkle_eyes83
12-04-2006, 12:28
the same but he dont chuck cups thats the thing and if he is late from work he will ring me
the same but he dont chuck cups thats the thing and if he is late from work he will ring me
did he say why he was so mad.. didn't something go wrong at work.. some people just have an off day.. not trying to defend him but something had to go really wrong if he never behaved like this before...
just wait and see what happens when he comes home but don't you go apologising. you done nothing wrong, only steal 3 of his cans! fair play to you!
feel free to ignore this advice if you want, i always ignore other peoples advice even when i know their right.
twinkle_eyes83
12-04-2006, 12:34
did he say why he was so mad.. didn't something go wrong at work.. some people just have an off day.. not trying to defend him but something had to go really wrong if he never behaved like this before...
nope nouthing like that just working late and money with bills and that and all i said to him was well its not my fault and that dont have a go at me then he walked out and chucked a cup across the kitchin floor then whent to the shop but he was acting really strange about a month ago like he did not want to be with me
twinkle_eyes83
12-04-2006, 12:34
just wait and see what happens when he comes home but don't you go apologising. you done nothing wrong, only steal 3 of his cans! fair play to you!
feel free to ignore this advice if you want, i always ignore other peoples advice even when i know their right.
oh dont worry about that i not going to say anying to him he started it not me i will just look after number 1 me and the kids
nope nouthing like that just working late and money with bills and that and all i said to him was well its not my fault and that dont have a go at me then he walked out and chucked a cup across the kitchin floor then whent to the shop but he was acting really strange about a month ago like he did not want to be with me
Ok, this sounds serious.. I think you need to talk to him to find out what is going on.. if he is behaving like he doesn't want to be with you then you need to find out now before it gets worse and the kids start to pick up on it... In the latter months before I seperated with my husband, Charley was getting really sick cause she was scared with the atmosphere in the house.. Your kids should become your priority
i agree with siobhan. serious talking needs to be done and the sooner the better.
twinkle_eyes83
12-04-2006, 12:41
yeah but things like that he is not the type to sit down and talk thats were we are not the same i will but he want itslike when i go on msn or something he gets the hump and starts saying iam seeing some one yeah right when all my contact are girls and 2 boys cousin and brother
lollymay
12-04-2006, 12:48
you really do need to talk because the children will pick up on it, as when my mum and dad were having problems, i new there was something going on and as my parents wouldnt talk about it, it made the family atmosphere really different.
yeah but things like that he is not the type to sit down and talk thats were we are not the same i will but he want itslike when i go on msn or something he gets the hump and starts saying iam seeing some one yeah right when all my contact are girls and 2 boys cousin and brother
Men get the hump with that all that time.. they think if you spend too much time on line than you are having an affair or something.. It is pathetic but then again if a man spends too much time online, women assume it is for porn!! You need to take one day where you don't go online and just sit and watch a movie with him or spend time just you and him to reassure him that you are not chatting with guys
twinkle_eyes83
12-04-2006, 12:57
Men get the hump with that all that time.. they think if you spend too much time on line than you are having an affair or something.. It is pathetic but then again if a man spends too much time online, women assume it is for porn!! You need to take one day where you don't go online and just sit and watch a movie with him or spend time just you and him to reassure him that you are not chatting with guys
dont get me wrong we tried all that and sit down every weekend then i take a leaf out of ems and hope on to msn when he is asleep:rotfl:
it was all ok when we were on hoilday but now its gone back to how it is before we whent away and when he gets in the kids see him for about 15 mins then thay are off to bed and at the mo i am thinking about putting my name down on the council list and getting my own place for just me and the kids and that can take anything up to 5 years so i have been told
at the mo i am thinking about putting my name down on the council list and getting my own place for just me and the kids and that can take anything up to 5 years so i have been told
it is bloody mental that you have to wait that long for a house. It is the same here in Ireland, 5 years and if you can't find anything you have to put your name down on a homeless list...
*-Rooney-*
13-04-2006, 23:19
your not over reacting im ean it can just be a case where you need your own space even a couple of hours because men do get that too its not just us who feel like we need space from them but i wouldnt worry about it
hope you managed to sort things or at least talk over the weekend twinkle_eyes83.
twinkle_eyes83
18-04-2006, 15:36
aww thanks for asking yeah we seem to have he come home after sitting in a carpark for an hour and he said 2 ducks whent buy looking for bread and he said that watching them made him think of me and how they stick together when times are rough and he did not even have a drink lol
ah that's sweet. you see no matter how mad they make you, they say something sweet then and your heart melts. hope everything works out for you now.
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