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strawberries
03-05-2005, 22:50
doesn't it just suck ass when u get a huge cruch on someone way outta ur league? I have the biggest crush on my college lecturer and he doesn't seem remotely interested! it sucks!!! even m lil hints dnt work! what do i do??! :searchme:

chance
04-05-2005, 08:26
no one is ever out of your league! remember that.
is he much older then you? are you sure hes not married or in a relationship?

Luna
04-05-2005, 09:05
Are college Lecturer's allowed to date their students?

daisy38
04-05-2005, 09:08
No! Its the same as in school, teachers can't date there students! :)

Luna
04-05-2005, 09:10
I didn't think so.

Maybe that's his problem he doesn't go looking at his students as potential dates because he knows he's not allowed.

strawberries
04-05-2005, 18:36
technically he's not my lecturer anymore, he was last year, i am over 18 so there should be nop prob wiv it, i am leaving in a few weeks! yes he is older but like maybe 15 years?i know he isn't in a relationship through some 'delving' i have done already lol

Bad Wolf
04-05-2005, 18:39
to be honest is best to stay well clear of people like that

but i agree with chance no one is ever out of your league, at school i was considered not very pretty, not one of the popular girls, but i grew in to my looks and now my boyf has been told by friends he is batting well out of his league ha ha (its funny how life turns out)

.:Kitz:.
04-05-2005, 21:05
at school i was considered not very pretty, not one of the popular girls,
Oh i hate the popularity thing, it sucks. It really does. It stops you doing so much in school and it really shouldn't. All the boys i've liked in the past have been more 'popular' than me and i thought i had no chace. I hate that, but i don't know how you can get 'popular', its really shallow the whole thing! But know, i couldn't careless, i'm happy with the peple i'm around and i don't give a stuff as to wat the 'populars' think of us!

di marco
04-05-2005, 21:08
well said i totally agree. i couldnt care less what other people think of me. though at my school the popular group is getting smaller and smaller as they realise that no one actually likes them !

Jade
04-05-2005, 21:09
Yea its bad, but it completely changes once you leave school, I assure you!!!

The man you can never have is not worth having thats whats so exciting about it!!! :heart: (you cant have him!!)

.:Kitz:.
04-05-2005, 21:11
though at my school the popular group is getting smaller and smaller as they realise that no one actually likes them !
Same at ours, every body hates them for being so stuck up! Yay! attack of the outcasts! lol

Jade
04-05-2005, 21:13
Same at ours, every body hates them for being so stuck up! Yay! attack of the outcasts! lol

Yep but its stuff like that that causes people to form groups and build defenses :lol: :)

di marco
04-05-2005, 21:14
lol! in my sis year at school, there is a really huge popular group but my sis said that they all hate each other and are constantly fighting! in my year though there doesnt seem to be that prob thankfully

Jade
04-05-2005, 21:16
Yep thats what happens. Its also people who are very insecure that mainly behave like that

.:Kitz:.
04-05-2005, 21:17
There are these 2 conflicting sides in our year, and they are always having slagging matches. I know i shouldn't be interested but you have to watch and laugh at them as they call each other names and say stuff that you would too if you had the gutts. And laugh! lol

Jade
04-05-2005, 21:19
Its best not to get involved as you get tarred with the same brush, you end up excluding people

strawberries
04-05-2005, 21:25
maybe i should stay clear of him.....i feel its gone beyond that....he gives me little signs to show he's interested, how can i give that up?!

Jade
04-05-2005, 21:27
Just enjoy the bits you got!!!! while you can.

If you do end up going out with him he will turn into a messy, smelly man anyway!

Jade
04-05-2005, 21:28
Best bet is to stay clear though, you could both end up in trouble!

Bad Wolf
05-05-2005, 12:09
i agree with judejude, everything changes when you leave, hold on until then x

Siobhan
05-05-2005, 12:12
maybe i should stay clear of him.....i feel its gone beyond that....he gives me little signs to show he's interested, how can i give that up?!

One of my lectures at uni gave up his wife and two children (married 12 years) for a student but he didn't go with her offically until she had graduated.. Shame.. he was really really hot.. he had all the women in my course at all his lectures..

Bad Wolf
05-05-2005, 12:25
One of my lectures at uni gave up his wife and two children (married 12 years) for a student but he didn't go with her offically until she had graduated.. Shame.. he was really really hot.. he had all the women in my course at all his lectures..

see, there is no one like that at my uni, they are all old or strange, i dont think i have ever ever had a decent looking teacher/ lecturer. i am clearly missing out!

Jade
05-05-2005, 13:16
me to Rach

SoapRach
06-05-2005, 12:27
I'd say hold out til you finish. The fact that he's in an authoritative position and that you can't have him is probably what makes you want him. that is just an judgement based on what normally happens - I think its quite difficult to comment unless you know the specific situation.

When I was at uni there was one lecturer who was notorius for sleeping with students - got one pregnant i think - had absolutely no respect as a result. Very bad situation. he told one of my friends that there was only one way to guarantee getting an A in his module! He was old and ugly.

di marco
07-05-2005, 07:57
we had one fit teacher at our school the other year. he was young and had this really lovely australian accent and he used to go and play tennis at lunchtime with this other teacher and he used to wear these cool like skater/surfing shorts. he went back to oz though

xXxJessxXx
08-09-2005, 22:03
Oh i hate the popularity thing, it sucks. It really does. It stops you doing so much in school and it really shouldn't. All the boys i've liked in the past have been more 'popular' than me and i thought i had no chace. I hate that, but i don't know how you can get 'popular', its really shallow the whole thing! But know, i couldn't careless, i'm happy with the peple i'm around and i don't give a stuff as to wat the 'populars' think of us!

Yea i agree. it stops you living life to its fullist i suppose beacuse your always worried what people are gonna say and think. i've learnt not to let people liek that bother me and i dont really care what people think of me no more. me and my friends are always getting into arguments wiht popular kids at our school beacuse we say what we think and they dont like it, but why do they care, they dont like us any way.

i've learnt ot just speak my mind and not to hide what i think beacsue someone is more popular then me, it gets alot easier out of school i should think, people grow up more and get more mature and eveything. well so i hoe any way.

the whole out of our league thing annoys me too beacuse people judge you with out even knowing you. i've given up on most of the boys in our year.

but i agree no one is really out of your legue if you try hard enough. no one can tell us who we are good enough for etc than our self. (If that makes any sense) lol

.:Kitz:.
09-09-2005, 21:22
he he, i now know that no one is out of your league :o At the beginning of the year there was this guy i REALLY liked but he was Mega popular and i never had a chance, he wouldn't even acknoledge me walking past him. Now, like after the summer. I always talk to him now and we're great mates!! It rocks!! And it seems to have boosted my and my mates popularity!! SCORE!! hehe, not that it matters!! lol :D But i've gained a mate, its a shame coz i still really fancy him!!

xXxJessxXx
09-09-2005, 21:29
he he, i now know that no one is out of your league :o At the beginning of the year there was this guy i REALLY liked but he was Mega popular and i never had a chance, he wouldn't even acknoledge me walking past him. Now, like after the summer. I always talk to him now and we're great mates!! It rocks!! And it seems to have boosted my and my mates popularity!! SCORE!! hehe, not that it matters!! lol :D But i've gained a mate, its a shame coz i still really fancy him!!

awww what a shame aye. i hate it when your only a mate with a boy who you actually really like :wub: . best off as mates i say. better than risking everything you already have. but you never know he could be thinking the same and think you out of his legue and there's no point trying. lol. still mates are always there for you where as for a boyfriend i can safely say that some are not! lol

eastenderfan_91
09-09-2005, 21:34
doesn't it just suck ass when u get a huge cruch on someone way outta ur league? I have the biggest crush on my college lecturer and he doesn't seem remotely interested! it sucks!!! even m lil hints dnt work! what do i do??! :searchme: yep know what you mean everyones out of my league :(

xXxJessxXx
09-09-2005, 21:59
yep know what you mean everyones out of my league :(

awwww. i know the feeling.. well used too. shouldnt really say thta now i aint single no more.. lol. but i get the feeling. annoying aint it. :mad:

di marco
11-03-2006, 18:23
the whole out of our league thing annoys me too beacuse people judge you with out even knowing you. i've given up on most of the boys in our year.

but i agree no one is really out of your legue if you try hard enough. no one can tell us who we are good enough for etc than our self. (If that makes any sense) lol

i hate that, that people think that you arent pretty enough to go out with someone whos really good looking or something, or they think youre too pretty to go out with a complete minger and say you could do better

*-Rooney-*
12-04-2006, 21:33
now the man i can never have is my ex-fiance, because hes in a relationship with my ex pal who is also his sis in law. NICE EH

Becksfanz
12-04-2006, 21:59
well said i totally agree. i couldnt care less what other people think of me. though at my school the popular group is getting smaller and smaller as they realise that no one actually likes them !

Yeah same thing happened at my school - Have left now - the popular group was getting smaller and smaller, oh my, I laughed like ******* when they realised no one like them, they were nasty bullies.