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Xx-Vicky-xX
21-03-2006, 20:22
I havent had much luck with friends really my best friend at school for 12 years dumped me for a girl she had known for a month my other best friend i lost when she left school but et up with her again after 3 years last july only she has a baby so its really hard and now ive got some mates and although most of the time they are absolutely fab they can be nasty sometimes (Layne hunni i dont in anyway mean you) but there is this girl who can really be nasty there is so much to go in to there really is but some of it include nasty comments such as go away i dont like you generally taking the p*** out of me leaving me out because i dont like the things she does (Shannis) and probably more stuff.
She knows what ive been through at school and knows i find it hard so ive not a clue why she does this to me. I sometimes wish i could like Shannis as much as her so she wouldnt do this but i cant change and i shouldnt want to either i really dont know what to do
Hunnie you don't need to change for anyone. you are the way you are for a reason and if everyone liked shannis then the world would be so dull! I'm a fan of Shannis but not a big fan! really you're you and at the moment that is all you can be so don't change for anyone hun! Hope that's helped.
alkalinetrio
21-03-2006, 23:50
never change for anyone! and i agree with with jake_luva you are you for a reason! and if no one likes it they aint worth your time girl!
Xx-Vicky-xX
22-03-2006, 00:08
She just makes you feel you have to like Shannis to be in with a chance of being mates with her sometimes though
If she makes you want to change then she ain't worth it vicks honestly!
Xx-Vicky-xX
22-03-2006, 07:56
Yeh i know but she is lovely and i really do love her its so much more comlicated than to just say i dont want to be friends with her anymore
di marco
22-03-2006, 07:57
have you tried speaking to her and telling her what youve just told us cos that might help?
Xx-Vicky-xX
22-03-2006, 14:12
Yeh i spoke to her saturday night and while it helped with alot there is a still alot that she wasnt willing to go in to because she is sixteen and doesnt want to talk about deep stuff she would rather talk about being in heaven with Tish and Nigel oh and the Queen (dont ask it was what she was discussing with someone lastnight)
di marco
22-03-2006, 14:26
Yeh i spoke to her saturday night and while it helped with alot there is a still alot that she wasnt willing to go in to because she is sixteen and doesnt want to talk about deep stuff she would rather talk about being in heaven with Tish and Nigel oh and the Queen (dont ask it was what she was discussing with someone lastnight)
whereas it was good that she did speak to you a bit and that you managed to sort some things out, i think shes been a bit immature saying she doesnt want to talk about the rest cos shes 16 and doesnt want to talk about deep stuff, cos the problems arent going to go away unless both of you talk about them and if she doesnt make the effort to then they are likely to just get worse
EDIT: i didnt mean to sound harsh there!
Xx-Vicky-xX
22-03-2006, 14:36
whereas it was good that she did speak to you a bit and that you managed to sort some things out, i think shes been a bit immature saying she doesnt want to talk about the rest cos shes 16 and doesnt want to talk about deep stuff, cos the problems arent going to go away unless both of you talk about them and if she doesnt make the effort to then they are likely to just get worse
EDIT: i didnt mean to sound harsh there!
Yeh i know but try telling her that. Is it normal the way she thinks like do most sixteen year olds not want to go in to things because its too deep or is it just me who thinks she needs to be prepared to talk about stuff or she wont get anywhere and eventually i may just end up hateing her
i agree she has to be willing to talk about things but going into depth or she will get no where.
Xx-Vicky-xX
23-03-2006, 16:33
i agree she has to be willing to talk about things but going into depth or she will get no where.
Its so hard she wants me to tell her stuff but on the understanding that she might not want to talk about it when i do :searchme:
Vicky honey i am here for you and you know everything that i think but i just wanted to say i wub you lots and lots and i am here :p :wub: x
Xx-Vicky-xX
23-03-2006, 19:04
Vicky honey i am here for you and you know everything that i think but i just wanted to say i wub you lots and lots and i am here :p :wub: x
I know you are i knew you would be in this topic sooner or later as well i love you loads aswell babes :love: see what a fab mate i have here guys i wish the other girl was the same sometimes but i cant expect miracles :lol:
samantha nixon
23-03-2006, 19:07
aww dont change for these mates whatever you do, i used to fel like i couldnt talk to any of my mates as i didnt have no close mates i was just there but gradually im still with my mates but i have become closer with other people and now im happier at school so have you got other mates outside your little group who you could hang around with
Xx-Vicky-xX
23-03-2006, 19:18
aww dont change for these mates whatever you do, i used to fel like i couldnt talk to any of my mates as i didnt have no close mates i was just there but gradually im still with my mates but i have become closer with other people and now im happier at school so have you got other mates outside your little group who you could hang around with
The trouble is they are internet mates i dont have mates around here the girls are all i have now the mates i had at school were evil idiots so i dont talk to them anymore and if this girl (im just gunna call her Lucy its easier) if Lucy carries on i can see it ending up the same with her aswell
samantha nixon
23-03-2006, 19:19
ah have you got any mates at school or are they all on the net
Xx-Vicky-xX
23-03-2006, 19:21
ah have you got any mates at school or are they all on the net
Nope dont really have mates at college only Lucy and the others from the internet
samantha nixon
23-03-2006, 19:23
aww well talk to lucy and let her no how you feel as she might not realise that she does it
Xx-Vicky-xX
23-03-2006, 19:27
aww well talk to lucy and let her no how you feel as she might not realise that she does it
I spoke to her saturday and while that helped a lot there is still un finished stuff there that she wont go in to
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