being bitchy

[shannisrules]

help i have a group of friends at school and we usually get on well but lately most of them have all been bitching about someone in our group , but what i really dont like is that they are all really nice to her face then they start bitching about her behind her back and she doesnt have a clue ive told my friends to stop doing it and they just said well you dont have to join in if you dont want to , but i didnt anyway i just feel really sorry for her as i would hate it if all my friends were nice to my face but bitchy about me behind my back,i dont know what to do i dont want to tell her as that will just cause trouble but i dont want it to carry on as its really unfair on her. :searchme:

[CrazyLea]

think about it as if you were the one they were talking about.. would you rather a friend tell you?? if you do then why not tell your friend.. sure it may cause trouble, but in te long run it might be better off. and like you said, it's not fair on her.. and maybe if shes knows, then it can all get sorted out??
just a suggestion xx

[xStephaniex]

i hate two-faced people !!!!! . i think you need to tell your friends how would they like it if they bitched about them. and ask what has the other girl done to deserve being bitched about , because it really aint nice and sometimes words hurt more than a punch. i think you should talk to the friends who are doing the bitching and tell them they should either bitch to her face or not atall. ( i dont mean tell her to bitch to her face i mean like if there nice to her face a horrible behind her back they should atleast have the guts to tell her themselfs there being bullies if you want to call it that !!) . and all you can do hun is be there for your mate and do what you think is best !! - good luck x

[Becksfanz]

I hate bitchy people. I know what it is like to have beeing talked about. After all, when i was at school, there were a couple of bitchy girls who claimed to never talk about me behind myback but i knew they were... i hate that but it just make you stronger :cheer: