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How long do you think it takes to actually get over a person and be ready to move on?
Basically I was with my ex for 6 years and we had a trial seperation since Dec but I was still living with him. I've now moved out (on Monday) But a guy from work has asked me out for a drink and I'm not sure weather to go or not? I do really like him but I'm not sure if its too soon or not?
Any suggestions?
dragoneye454
03-02-2006, 10:07
There's nothing wrong with an innocent drink. Go and see how you feel when you're there. If it doesn't feel right then it doesn't have to lead to anything
Jade, if you feel ready, it isn't too soon. If you go for a drink with him, you'll soon get a feeling of whether you feel it is too soon or not. Yes, 6 years is a long time with someone, but (to sound blunt) life goes on and is too short. I say, have a drink with him, see how you feel when you are out and if it feels right, great, if it doesnt, you know its too soon and you can still be friends with the guy :D
Yea maybe your right, need to get back out there!
And the guy is lovely!!
I've not been on a date for 6 years!!!!! scary!!!!
See how everything goes and you'll probably work out how you feel after
Angeltigger
03-02-2006, 10:53
i think you should go for the drink see if you like it than you don't than you don't have to go on any more dates with him
Yea maybe your right, need to get back out there!
And the guy is lovely!!
I've not been on a date for 6 years!!!!! scary!!!!And if the guy he lovely, I am sure he understands the situation, and if you do like him, but feel a bit uncomfortable about being more than friends with him or anyone at the moment, let him know and you could at least go out a few times as friends first.
I haven't been on a date for 10 years and that is sooooo scary lol. I wouldn't want to be out there again thats for sure....
It is the most scary feeling.. I split with my ex after 13 years so I know what first dates are like... I gave myself some time before I dated again but I had fun going places and flirting which I hadn't done in ages...
Jade, there is no time limit, go out with this guy, have fun and enjoy what life has to give you now
Cheers Guys, think i'm going to go for a drink with him and just see how it goes. Now all i've got to figure out is what to wear!!!!
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