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[twinkle_eyes83]

sorry dont no where to start and feel a bit down at the she chucked me out at the age of 14 when i found out i was preg with my 1st daughter jade at 14 years old my god i would not chuck my daughter out at the age whaterver was the matter we have never got on and she has only seen paige once from when she was born in august but i always go back to her she does not ring me but i ring her mobile i feel so down at the mo when you need your mum the most she aint there the other thing that makes me sick is she is 40 years old and is married to a 24 year old the same age as me nearly you guys seem more like mums to me then my own *******ing *******ing mother sorry rant over feel a bit down at the mo

[Rain_]

Thats what we are here for. My best friend has a wonderful saying "friends are the family we choose for ourselves" We can't pick our family and a lot of people are like yourself. Thats where friends come in. Keep your chin up ((((HUGS))))

[hazey]

I am feeling low but for other reasons as you all know,but I have very wide shoulders and good ears for listening, I'll be your mum :)

[chance]

sorry to hear that your feeling so down twinkle,cant beleive she chucked you out at 14 for being pregnant but sometimes its better to just forgive and forget,OR like me forgive but never forget,lol god im not really helping am i?
sometimes it helps to get it all out of your system by writing it down or typing in this case,so type away!!

[chance]

I am feeling low but for other reasons as you all know,but I have very wide shoulders and good ears for listening, I'll be your mum :)

how are you doing hazey?

[.:SpIcYsPy:.]

I ain't ever doing anything till the age comes in law because Im worried my mum and dad will chuck me out!! Besides I got no urge to do anything but I think your story is very sad.. you got the wonderful kids and if she dosen't want to see them it's sort of her loss.. though she will always be your mother which deep inside you will love right? I don't know what else to say but Im sorry :( xx

[Debs]

my mum always said she would chuck me out if i came home pregant too young!! almost made me want to to see if she actually did!

me and mum hated each other when i was living at home forever fighting and yelling at each other!!! now we are the best of mates, couldnt imagine not talking to her!! she still annoys me though

[chance]

i got pregnant at 16 and although neither of my parents were estatic they supported me in the end,i was very lucky.

[hazey]

how are you doing hazey? I am ok thanks chance,it is a weird time between a death and a funeral, you dont have time to start greiving really,as there is so much to do,I will get through tuesday with the help of my son,friends,and family.

[Jojo]

Twinkle - we are all hear with our friendly ears to listen to anything (well, I know I certainly am anyway).

I fell pregnant with my eldest when I was 17 and was lucky like Chance, but it could have been different. We are all here for you, so anytime you want to rant, you go ahead.

I hope everythings goes as can be expected at these times on Tuesday Hazey - my thoughts are with you.... xx

[chance]

thinking of you tomorrow hazey

[Trinity]

sorry dont no where to start and feel a bit down at the she chucked me out at the age of 14 when i found out i was preg with my 1st daughter jade at 14 years old my god i would not chuck my daughter out at the age whaterver was the matter we have never got on and she has only seen paige once from when she was born in august but i always go back to her she does not ring me but i ring her mobile i feel so down at the mo when you need your mum the most she aint there the other thing that makes me sick is she is 40 years old and is married to a 24 year old the same age as me nearly you guys seem more like mums to me then my own *******ing *******ing mother sorry rant over feel a bit down at the mo



If I was you I would concentrate on the lovely family that you have of your own.

Your mother sounds to me like she is trying to forget how old she is, perhaps you are a reminder of the fact she is older than she wants to be.

If you are 24 and she is 40 then she must have had you at 16 - she should realise the help and support that all new mothers need is needed all the more if mum is young herself.

Maybe she had little support and therefore didn't know how to give it herself?

Families are not all like the Waltons, some mothers do not deserve to have children. I know that it is hard, and you can't just forget about her, but don't give her too many opportunities to let you down. Don't expect her to be there for you and try to build your own support network with friends. If she contacts you, great, but if she doesn't you already know that you don't need her.

Well done.

[Siobhan]

Hey Twinkle, sorry to hear that you are down but as you know were are all here to rant to and support you.

My parents changed a lot over the years.. when my sister got pregnant at 16 they told her she had to married the boyfriend.. he use to beat her up and when she left him after 6 months, they told her to go back.... she went to england and she has finally got divorced after 24 years technically married. Now they are much more relaxed, my niece got pregnant at 16 to a one night stand and they are so much more supportive. Your mum might mellow with age and then you can talk about how you felt when she kicked you out...

Chin up girlie.. you have many friends to help and support you

[$sTaCeY$]

thinking of you tomorrow hazey

Whats happening to hazey today??

[Tori]

funeral of her husband.

good luck hazey

[Siobhan]

Good luck Hazey... we will be think of you

[Jojo]

Thinking of you at this time Hazey.....

[Trinity]

Take care Hazey.

[twinkle_eyes83]

thanks guys for the advice and hope you ok hun