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xsoftladybugx
20-10-2005, 17:29
I'm really worried about a one of my friends, she has gone off the rails a bit and has started smoking weed and cigarrettes and taking pills she buys off older people in school... Not sure what the tablets are.


She had a nasty spell in school today she went pure white couldnt see or hear anything collapsed and couldnt walk...

I think shes only doing this to get in with the 'populars' but she is making herself look a mess and she has become really silly...

Her family is also very holy and christian i dont know what to do or say to her wich might help her to realise what shes doing isn't right


Any suggestions?

Thanks x x

.:SpIcYsPy:.
20-10-2005, 18:31
Do I know them Hanz?

I think you should have a talk with then, tell them its adictive and you care. Make sure you tell them you only care and your not trying to stop them but help them. I will think of more because Im not meant to be on here x

xsoftladybugx
20-10-2005, 18:33
Yeh you do know them spicy... I have spoken to them about it, They said they we're trying to stop but im not sure if i believe them..

.:SpIcYsPy:.
20-10-2005, 18:33
Yeh you do know them spicy... I have spoken to them about it, They said they we're trying to stop but im not sure if i believe them..
Can I know who it is please?

.:SpIcYsPy:.
20-10-2005, 18:34
Yeh you do know them spicy... I have spoken to them about it, They said they we're trying to stop but im not sure if i believe them..
Yeah loads of people say that, I can't belive the G girl smokes.. only found that out today. I knew that would happen because she was hanging about with A and D!!

Late I know but I knew it would happen!!

xsoftladybugx
20-10-2005, 18:35
Come online and i will tell.. not on here i dont know whoes watching :ninja:

.:SpIcYsPy:.
20-10-2005, 18:49
She was a lovely little angel!! She's in my design class and with the 'populour' girls she well changed... talks back to the teacher, now taking drugs, acting all big, rolling up skirt far to high..

xsoftladybugx
20-10-2005, 18:51
I cant believe what she just told me



HER OWN BROTHER GETS IT FOR HER FROM HIS MATES!!!!!!

Apparently shes smoking punk.... She said its like weed but alot stronger and shes going to give up after everything that happend today..

.:SpIcYsPy:.
20-10-2005, 18:55
What happened today?

xsoftladybugx
20-10-2005, 18:56
What?

.:SpIcYsPy:.
20-10-2005, 18:57
shes going to give up after everything that happend today..

What happened today?

xsoftladybugx
20-10-2005, 18:59
She had a nasty spell in school today she went pure white couldnt see or hear anything collapsed and couldnt walk...

that did..

.:SpIcYsPy:.
20-10-2005, 19:00
:eek: Oh that!! Did she really collapse?!

I really do hope she gives up :(

xsoftladybugx
20-10-2005, 19:01
Apparently tell you the WHOOOOOLE story tomorrow :)

.:SpIcYsPy:.
20-10-2005, 19:03
Lol ok :) Non-uniform day.. can't wait :p

.:SpIcYsPy:.
23-10-2005, 17:45
Oh come on guys.. any experince's?!

Jade
23-10-2005, 17:47
Ok, basically one of my good friends died from taking an E pill when he was 21

And if that doesnt put people off from drugs etc, I dont know what will.

Debs
23-10-2005, 17:51
Ok, basically one of my good friends died from taking an E pill when he was 21

And if that doesnt put people off from drugs etc, I dont know what will.


my ex best mate she started taking drugs and it completely changed her, she was a horrid person, her baby daughter was taken off her and lived with her dad, her eldest was with her when she took them i even found her with the end of a spliff i her hand!! dave banned me from going round her house, he never ever does anything like that but i saw where he was coming from, i stopped contact with her when she moved on to stronger stuff i didnt want to be part of it and i certainly didnt want my son around it! i miss the old her and our friendship but i dont miss the way she was last time i saw her and my life is better without having to worry about her killing herself, i still think about her 8 year old, i was very close to her and she would call me her second mum, but in the ned i had to do what was best for me

Debs
23-10-2005, 17:52
Ok, basically one of my good friends died from taking an E pill when he was 21

And if that doesnt put people off from drugs etc, I dont know what will.


i was always so scared of trying things like that i knew it would have been me that would have died!! and i could never have put my mum throih that, but i did try things when i was younger never E but what i thought at the time was milder stuff, it never did anything to me good or bad and i just thought what a waste of my money!

.:SpIcYsPy:.
23-10-2005, 17:54
Never tried anything yet and don't want to..

Debs
23-10-2005, 17:58
Never tried anything yet and don't want to..

:nono: nope dont bother spicy it will probably kill you! think of the tops or make up you could buy with the money instead!

.:SpIcYsPy:.
23-10-2005, 18:03
Init though :rotfl: You can buy things which will make you happy instead of something which will kill you!! Btw Hanz.. tell her that!!

Debs
23-10-2005, 18:06
Init though :rotfl: You can buy things which will make you happy instead of something which will kill you!! Btw Hanz.. tell her that!!


id rather buy some chocolate, it makes me happy and aprt from the whole wight thing it supposed to be good for you!

xCharliex
23-10-2005, 18:17
*Holds hands up*

I was addicted (if you can call it that) to puff (cannabis) for about 5-6 years i recently quit end of July as i knew going back to college i wouldnt be earning as much money so basically couldnt afford it. Spent around £50 a month on it smoked it day in day out, felt it helped me get to sleep a lot more.

Went on holiday couple of years ago to the States for 2 weeks so went cold turkey, i had my 18th out there and the whole holiday i was depressed, crying, didnt wanna do anything, was a complete an utter cow basically. I was due to start college then, but i wasnt up to it, went to the docs and got diagnosed with depression.

Before then when i was in school from the age of 15,16-17. I was on pills did them every weekend. Took up to 8 pills a time. Was the "in thing" back then. I didnt do it because of peer pressure, i didnt it as i wanted to see what it was like, and of course i loved it. I lost about 2-3 stone in weight which i thought was great, people kept saying id lost way to much weight etc. I had one person to talk to fully about it, my deputy head. I dont know what i would have done without her really, she helped me through school in the end. I was going through a rough time anyway with personal family issues started self harmin etc.

One time i was at a friends loads of lads were there and were on pills, i took an acid trip, didnt do anything to me, but i sat back and watched everyone tripping on their pills and realised what state they looked, and thought "omg thats what i look like" when i was on them, made me think how stupid i looked. Then a friend from school died she was 16, she went raving, fell over and hit her head, later died in hospital. After that i never touched a pill again. They put so much rubbish in them nowadays, rat poison all sorts. At the time when your on them its the best feeling in the world, but the come downs are the worst, you cant eat, you cant sleep its horrible!

I wont lie, theres been occasions where ive done some coke, infact i did some maybe 2 months ago, but it was one of them one off occasions. Not a regular thing.

Im proud of myself for giving up the puff though, thats the hardest part considering i smoked it for so long, i feel tons better about myself, im back to my usual confident self! I never thought i could do it but i did, although i do drink far more now, ill have at least 2 glasses of wine a night but i know plenty of adults who do the same just to unwind after a long day.

I know this is an extremely long post, but my advice to anyone is, DONT BOTHER! Its not worth getting hooked, and the after affects are awful, i thought on many occasions of taking my own life, and when i tell people they dont seem to understand why, saying but your pretty, you have everything going for you etc. But on the otherside of it, each person who does drugs has a reason behind why they do it, its not for the fun deep down its to run away from the problems inside. But after Sophie died at the age of 16! Thats what made me realise its not worth it.

I dont regret it at all, everyone wants to try something once, and you learn from your mistakes. I still look back and think what great times i had! but i wouldnt go back there! But then no-one can say "never say never"

My advice would be you can only try so much in helping someone stop doing drugs, and if they wont listen then you know you have tried, its their responsibility to wake up and realise what a mess they look.

Jade
23-10-2005, 18:23
Thats really brave of you to post Charlie.

xCharliex
23-10-2005, 18:24
Thats really brave of you to post Charlie.

Its not brave its just honesty, i think if people read others personal experiences they get a better idea and picture of what can happen. Fortunately i managed to get myself back on track and im 20, i finished it really before i started to get worse

Jade
23-10-2005, 18:28
Its not brave its just honesty, i think if people read others personal experiences they get a better idea and picture of what can happen. Fortunately i managed to get myself back on track and im 20, i finished it really before i started to get worse

I do think its brave being honest, especially with yourself.

I think if people read your post (which is a very frank account about the reality of things) it would make people think twice. If it makes one person think twice its worth it.

xCharliex
23-10-2005, 18:31
I do think its brave being honest, especially with yourself.

I think if people read your post (which is a very frank account about the reality of things) it would make people think twice. If it makes one person think twice its worth it.

Yeah, im all about honesty you cant beat it. I was very young looking back at other 15 year olds nowadays and it would really shock me. Dont get me wrong, i know there are others my age who have done far worse drugs ie: heroin and crack but id have never gone down that path. I think it was more of a "fun" thing, obviously reasling now it wasnt.
But im all ears if people want to talk about any drug related issue

xsoftladybugx
23-10-2005, 20:53
I'm not sure if my friend know's what shes doing anymore i mean shes a bit of an idiot anyway and to be honest i dont care if she smokes she can do that if she wants too, but its the drugs, I know ALOT of people on drugs and i can see what it does to them and i done want her turning out like that :( Not sure if she will stop because she so desperatley wants to be accepted by these people she will do anything wich i cannot believe!!

.:SpIcYsPy:.
24-10-2005, 11:50
I never do such a thing.. its risking you life for popularity.. which is really.. nothing..

xsoftladybugx
24-10-2005, 11:51
She hasnt risked her life its dangerous but i dont think it would kill her...

.:SpIcYsPy:.
24-10-2005, 11:53
With they way she's going it might.. Drugs is drugs... it has different affects on people init?

Jade
24-10-2005, 13:14
She hasnt risked her life its dangerous but i dont think it would kill her...

thats what my friend thought

hazey
24-10-2005, 13:52
She hasnt risked her life its dangerous but i dont think it would kill her... I as you know work as security in the clubs, beleive me you can not say it won't kill. I have seen with my own eyes a girl dying from just 1 E.(it was not a pretty sight). People doing outragous thinks whilst taking Ketamin, (which is after all meant to tranquilise a horse).Taking cocaine does eventually damage the brain, and as you have seen with Miss Westbrooke ,your nose. I know at least 10 people that are HIV positive from needle drug use. I also saw a guy jump from the top of a landing at a club after smoking a couple of spilfs he thought he could fly,he can now he is a ANGEL. When you work with the drug scene on a daily basis you see the harm and stupid waste of life. My advise is to NOT take any drugs.If you are lucky to live the come downs and depression it cause is not worth it. If you know a dealer REPORT them.

Behemoth
24-10-2005, 16:41
Smoking cannabis on a regular basis gives you a 1 in 4 chance of developing schizophrenia(sp?) as well.

xsoftladybugx
24-10-2005, 16:42
Oh yeh i knew that.