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Eastenders_4ev@
14-09-2005, 13:49
how old where u when u lost your virginity? vote and right the age u lost it if you wish too lol

Jojo
14-09-2005, 16:17
Not saying!! :D :D But I did vote and it wasn't legal :(

eastenderfan_91
14-09-2005, 16:43
i am only 14 so i havent yet

Bad Wolf
14-09-2005, 16:44
legal

eastenderfan_91
14-09-2005, 16:45
legal what you were legal? sorry :o

Debs
14-09-2005, 17:25
justdays before my 17th birthday!

eastenderfan_91
14-09-2005, 17:26
justdays before my 17th birthday! awww cool

CrazyLea
14-09-2005, 18:13
im 16. i havent yet though lol

Luna
14-09-2005, 18:14
uuuummm....not legal

Bad Wolf
14-09-2005, 18:15
what you were legal? sorry :o

after i left school- bloody wish i hadnt wasted it on him though (not a very nice boy)

Trinity
14-09-2005, 18:17
I was well past legal - but he wasn't worth it either!

eastenderfan_91
14-09-2005, 18:17
awww poor you bad wolf what was he nasty to you?

Bad Wolf
14-09-2005, 18:22
he turned out to be pretty nasty- i was highly surprised to see him on friends reunited - i though he would have been in prision or something

eastenderfan_91
14-09-2005, 18:23
oh why prison

Bad Wolf
14-09-2005, 18:25
he just want very nice- had a reputation for being nasty and starting fights etc, he was a nightmare at our school results night party in a club - punched someone and over turned a table full of drinks

eastenderfan_91
14-09-2005, 18:26
oh ok well are you happy in a relationship now

shannisrules
14-09-2005, 20:22
im only 13 so i havnt considered it yet

Jade
14-09-2005, 23:01
On new years eve 1997, three months before my 18 birthday, with a boy I was going out with for a year, its somthing I took very seriously and I'm glad I waited till then and it was with that person. We split up 9 months later though!

hannah-mj
15-09-2005, 17:47
im 14 and havent yet i think its too young at my age!

hazey
15-09-2005, 21:52
Not saying!! :D :D But I did vote and it wasn't legal :( oh dear me too, and I thought I was so grown up at the time too,stayed with the boy for 3 years after that too.

kat 4 alfie
19-09-2005, 18:25
so you people who did it illegally ... how o long off were you till 16, cause like hopefully you wernt 13 , lol sorry just interested

hazey
19-09-2005, 18:50
I was 15, I had left school (you could leave at 15 in 1969) and was working and was very mature for my age,wasn't a one night stand was with him from 14 to 18 years old.

Luna
19-09-2005, 19:06
i was 14 and was still with the same guy up until a couple of months ago

kat 4 alfie
19-09-2005, 19:16
omg so it was serious then when you were so young ?

Luna
19-09-2005, 19:22
yup it was we had grown up together

kat 4 alfie
19-09-2005, 19:23
young love is so sweet .

Luna
19-09-2005, 19:25
young love is so sweet .

lol aint it

i am now back with the guy i had my first kiss with ten years ago....nothing like backtracking

kat 4 alfie
19-09-2005, 19:26
lol i know i havent had anythink serious with boyfriend I HAVENT EVEN HAD MY FIRST KISS and im 13 and all my frind did like when they were 11 . i know im still young and every thing but i feel left out but well they havent has pripper fullon kisses but i havent even had a peck lol

Luna
19-09-2005, 19:34
lol i know i havent had anythink serious with boyfriend I HAVENT EVEN HAD MY FIRST KISS and im 13 and all my frind did like when they were 11 . i know im still young and every thing but i feel left out but well they havent has pripper fullon kisses but i havent even had a peck lol

Theres no rush - and im sure you hate people saying that to you - but honestly take your time - if i had my time again i would i have waited longer for my first kiss

Jade
19-09-2005, 19:37
honestly there is no big hurry!!!

squillyfer
19-09-2005, 19:38
Im nearly fifteen and I havent been kissed so...

$sTaCeY$
20-09-2005, 09:14
Im only 13 so i have got my virginity still i haven't really considered about it anyhow

$sTaCeY$
20-09-2005, 09:15
I think it is a common thing for under 16's to lose thier virginity

phils little sister
20-09-2005, 10:02
i was 15, but i wish i had of waited :(

eastenderfan_91
20-09-2005, 16:22
Im nearly fifteen and I havent been kissed so... yer i havent been kissed either lol and i am 14 :( boys have asked me out but i dont know if they mucking about :(

lollymay
20-09-2005, 16:57
umm mine werent legal cos ive lost it and im not yet 16

$sTaCeY$
20-09-2005, 18:04
umm mine werent legal cos ive lost it and im not yet 16

If you dont mind me asking how old where you when you lost it?

lollymay
20-09-2005, 18:47
im fifteen and it was about a month ago but im 16 soon so it ok. it was with my lovely boyfriend aswell.

squillyfer
20-09-2005, 18:51
as long as you're both happy thats good and it wasnt as bad cos youre nearly 16 and in a relationship its not as though you're 13 and it was a one night stand

.:Kitz:.
20-09-2005, 20:32
oh god, i'm only 14 and i'm not even thinking about it! Kissing is as far as i'm going for now!

willow
20-09-2005, 20:59
it was a month before my 18th birthday............it was a one night stand...................and i got pregnant with my son

.:Kitz:.
20-09-2005, 21:01
it was a month before my 18th birthday............it was a one night stand...................and i got pregnant with my son
oh wow! How old is your son now? Sorry, i forget these things! :o

willow
20-09-2005, 21:04
he will be 10 in december

Flozza
30-09-2005, 18:20
was its scary?

.:SpIcYsPy:.
30-09-2005, 18:22
Niall?

xsoftladybugx
30-09-2005, 22:52
:( boys have asked me out but i dont know if they mucking about :([/QUOTE]


I'm like that i get really paranoid about it..

willow
01-10-2005, 14:27
it was a bit scary when i had niall but it one of those things you just have to get on with!!

chance
01-10-2005, 14:58
i was 16

emma_strange
26-10-2005, 21:41
Im a month away from being 17 and havent yet. I'm kinda glad

Debs
26-10-2005, 21:43
Im a month away from being 17 and havent yet. I'm kinda glad


well there know rush, just make sure you really wanna do it whne you do! i lost mine to someone i now completely cannot stand the sight of and looking back didnt particularly like anyways!

Jade
26-10-2005, 22:04
Im a month away from being 17 and havent yet. I'm kinda glad

Its a gift, dont give it away lightly. My advise (as an oldie is make sure your in love with the guy/girl first, you might end up hating their guts, but make sure they are special at the time.)

alkalinetrio
27-10-2005, 00:33
i lost it to my ex at age of 16! im glad it was her tho i really loved her and she loved me:) so no regrets for me

pip_kin
27-10-2005, 21:29
aww, i still have it but im only 15 so no hurry, there is no guys here i would wilingly have sex with anyway!! i didnt kiss anyone till i was 14 nearly 15 i was soo shy, but now the guys think im the best kisser, so its nothing to worry about!!!

Chloe O'brien
27-10-2005, 21:37
I was 16 and it was in a cornfield. :rotfl: :moonie:

xsoftladybugx
27-10-2005, 21:40
I was 16 and it was in a cornfield. :rotfl: :moonie:


:rotfl: :rotfl:

.:SpIcYsPy:.
28-10-2005, 11:16
Oh my god... is that really true Chloe?!

Siobhan
28-10-2005, 11:22
I was 16 and it was in a cornfield. :rotfl: :moonie:

I was 17 in a barn :rotfl:

Trinity
28-10-2005, 11:25
Oh - you country girls!!!! lol

.:SpIcYsPy:.
28-10-2005, 11:27
Lmao!! :rotfl: I wonder what the next one is going to say.. :rotfl:

Siobhan
28-10-2005, 11:28
Oh - you country girls!!!! lol

I am from Ireland's capital, I was holiday at the time :rotfl:

Chloe O'brien
28-10-2005, 11:47
Oh - you country girls!!!! lol I don't come from the country i was just young and all luved up :rotfl: :rotfl:

Chloe O'brien
28-10-2005, 14:57
Oh my god... is that really true Chloe?!Yes it is true it was in the summer holidays and he bought me a bag of chips on the way home.:rotfl:

The weird thing is that we are still mates to this day and his big brother is the father of my child. What a hussy!!!:rotfl: :rotfl:

lollymay
28-10-2005, 17:23
mine was in a tent lol

xCharliex
28-10-2005, 17:50
15, very drunk incident where i had no idea who the lad was never even got his name done even know where he lives, i regret every second of it! dont rush it its not worth it plus its not all its cracked up to be! lol

.:SpIcYsPy:.
28-10-2005, 19:34
Naughty rebel!! Your not allowed to drink under 16/18 now are you in the first place :p

Though most start at 11!! :rotfl:

xsoftladybugx
28-10-2005, 20:49
Oh my days some of your stories are crackin me up!! :rotfl:

lollymay
28-10-2005, 21:01
Oh my days some of your stories are crackin me up!! :rotfl:

like my romantic tent story lol

.:SpIcYsPy:.
28-10-2005, 21:04
Lmao god knows hanz.. you may end up in a rose bush with thorns :rotfl:

xsoftladybugx
28-10-2005, 21:06
Hmm... I highly doubt that spicy :mad:

.:SpIcYsPy:.
28-10-2005, 21:13
Lmao only joking Hanz :rotfl:

babs_ess
29-10-2005, 14:12
I was 17 and I was seeing a guy I really loved. Although after my first time I was like "was that it" I have since learned it's more than just sex, it's a sense of closeness to someone. I'm still best friends with the guy.

xCharliex
29-10-2005, 15:02
Naughty rebel!! Your not allowed to drink under 16/18 now are you in the first place :p

Though most start at 11!! :rotfl:

Lol i know tell me about it, it was all about the cider though!!! :rotfl:

Jade
29-10-2005, 15:05
Lol i know tell me about it, it was all about the cider though!!! :rotfl:

Cider drunk in fields brinkgs back memories!

xCharliex
29-10-2005, 15:32
Cider drunk in fields brinkgs back memories!
O yes like the huge 2L bottles for like £3 :rotfl:

emma_strange
14-11-2005, 18:29
Its a gift, dont give it away lightly. My advise (as an oldie is make sure your in love with the guy/girl first, you might end up hating their guts, but make sure they are special at the time.)

I'm back with my first boyfriend. I do love him, and he loves me, well he told me he does. I thik it might be on the cards soon.

pip_kin
15-11-2005, 19:32
lol im at the stage of drink big bottles of cider for £3 at the moment, except we have all moved on to cherry lambrini cause its sooo nice!!! i aint ever been drunk enough to randomly have sex with someone though!!!

MADHATTER
16-11-2005, 19:54
I'm 20 and I haven't and have no intention of rushing into it, I want wait for someone who will be truly worth it and I want it to be perfect, not just a drunken fumble.

~charlie-lou~
21-11-2005, 22:08
I'm only 14 so I am still a virgin.

twinkle_eyes83
07-12-2005, 09:51
under 16

emma_strange
09-12-2005, 07:59
Ok so I need some advice and thought it was quite fitting to the topic, I'm 17, and planning on loosing my virginity to my boyfriend tomorow, I do love him, and know he loves me so I am ready. But I know it's going to hurt and I will bleed, I was just wondering if anyone could tell me exactly how much do you bleed? And how painful is it?

Siobhan
09-12-2005, 09:48
Ok so I need some advice and thought it was quite fitting to the topic, I'm 17, and planning on loosing my virginity to my boyfriend tomorow, I do love him, and know he loves me so I am ready. But I know it's going to hurt and I will bleed, I was just wondering if anyone could tell me exactly how much do you bleed? And how painful is it?

Emma, you will bleed a bit but it is not very very painful.. I found my first time really boring and I kept wonder what all the fuss was about cause I was expecting to be scream and all excited... it is fine but please make sure that this is the person you really do love and want to be with cause you only get to lose your virginity once so don't make a mistake here

Luna
09-12-2005, 15:08
you mioght find that you wont bleed at all it could have alredy happened while doing exercise or something

emma_strange
09-12-2005, 15:50
Emma, you will bleed a bit but it is not very very painful.. I found my first time really boring and I kept wonder what all the fuss was about cause I was expecting to be scream and all excited... it is fine but please make sure that this is the person you really do love and want to be with cause you only get to lose your virginity once so don't make a mistake here

Thankyou so much, I do really want to, and I love him, I was with him when I was 13, and for what seems liek no reason at all I ended it a few times, but hes always taken me back, and it has made me realise how much I love him. Is the bleeding like, how much you do on your period, or more, or less? Sorry I'm just a bit nervous about it, and it will be at his house so feel the need to warn him!

Siobhan
09-12-2005, 16:04
Thankyou so much, I do really want to, and I love him, I was with him when I was 13, and for what seems liek no reason at all I ended it a few times, but hes always taken me back, and it has made me realise how much I love him. Is the bleeding like, how much you do on your period, or more, or less? Sorry I'm just a bit nervous about it, and it will be at his house so feel the need to warn him!

no it is not even close to a period, it is just spotting.. you probably won't even notice it at all....

emma_strange
09-12-2005, 16:10
no it is not even close to a period, it is just spotting.. you probably won't even notice it at all....

oh, ok...good. Thank you!

kat 4 alfie
09-12-2005, 17:12
you mioght find that you wont bleed at all it could have alredy happened while doing exercise or somethingor when putting it tampax /tampons

Skits
09-12-2005, 17:25
bring a pantyliner with you just in case. and as siobhan said just make sure you do love him and him you. and that you really want to do it. don't do it for any other reason.

Skits
09-12-2005, 17:26
i was 16 and stayed with the guy for 4 years after.

Siobhan
09-12-2005, 17:27
i was 16 and stayed with the guy for 4 years after.

lucky you.. unfortunately I loved the guy I was with but he dumped me soon after... he only wanted the one thing and I am sorry I gave it to him

Jojo
09-12-2005, 23:01
Some people don't bleed afterwards, like has been said, the use of tampons etc, sometimes see to that. Just try to stay relaxed too - the more tense you are about it, the more likely it will hurt, whereas if you are relaxed etc, you may find it won't hurt ..

xStephaniex
09-12-2005, 23:29
imm 15 n i havv :(

.:SpIcYsPy:.
10-12-2005, 10:16
Aww Steff.. are you still with him?..

emma_strange
10-12-2005, 10:46
Some people don't bleed afterwards, like has been said, the use of tampons etc, sometimes see to that. Just try to stay relaxed too - the more tense you are about it, the more likely it will hurt, whereas if you are relaxed etc, you may find it won't hurt ..

ahhh ok thanks! So just getting this straight (as you can tell I'm a bit clueless and nervous) you bleed afterwards, not during?

Debs
10-12-2005, 10:49
ahhh ok thanks! So just getting this straight (as you can tell I'm a bit clueless and nervous) you bleed afterwards, not during?


you might not bleed at all emma and if you do it wont be much you wont notice it during!

as for the nerves it normal hun it a great big step you taking!

SarahWakefield
11-12-2005, 03:20
I Was 16! Id Been With The Boy 2 Years! Still With Him Now Too!

Debs
11-12-2005, 11:49
I Was 16! Id Been With The Boy 2 Years! Still With Him Now Too!


awww thats so nice! i wsh i had waitred just a bit longer but i didnt!!!!

emma_strange
11-12-2005, 13:14
you might not bleed at all emma and if you do it wont be much you wont notice it during!

as for the nerves it normal hun it a great big step you taking!

Thanks for the advice! We did it, and it went great, and I didnt bleed and it didnt hurt that much. I'm glad we did :)

Debs
11-12-2005, 14:19
Thanks for the advice! We did it, and it went great, and I didnt bleed and it didnt hurt that much. I'm glad we did :)


amd i bet you werent as nervous as you thought you would be

glad evrything went ok