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chance
30-08-2005, 22:13
I ran into a stranger as he passed by,
"Oh excuse me please" was my reply.
He said, "Please excuse me too;
I wasn't watching for you."
We were very polite, this stranger and I.
We went on our way and we said good-bye.
But at home a different story is told,
How we treat our loved ones, young and old.
Later that day, cooking the evening meal,
My son stood beside me very still.
When I turned, I nearly knocked him down.
"Move out of the way," I said with a frown.
He walked away, his little heart broken.
I didn't realize how harshly I'd spoken.
While I lay awake in bed,
God's still small voice came to me and said,
"While dealing with a stranger, common courtesy you use,
but the children you love, you seem to abuse.
Go and look on the kitchen floor,
You'll find some flowers there by the door.
Those are the flowers he brought for you.
He picked them himself: pink, yellow and blue.
He stood very quietly not to spoil the surprise,
you never saw the tears that filled his little eyes."
By this time, I felt very small,
And now my tears began to fall.
I quietly went and knelt by his bed;
"Wake up, little one, wake up," I said.
"Are these the flowers you picked for me?"
He smiled, "I found 'em, out by the tree.
I picked 'em because they're pretty like you.
I knew you'd like 'em, especially the blue."
I said, "Son, I'm very sorry for the way I acted today;
I shouldn't have yelled at you that way."
He said, "Oh, Mom, that's okay.
I love you anyway."
I said, "Son, I love you too,
and I do like the flowers, especially the blue."

FAMILY
Are you aware that if we died tomorrow, the company that
we are working for could easily replace us in a matter of days.

But
the family we left behind will feel the loss for the rest of their
lives. And come to think of it, we pour ourselves more into work
than into our own family, an unwise investment indeed, don't you
think? So what is behind the story?
Do you know what the word FAMILY means?
FAMILY = (F)ATHER (A)ND (M)OTHER (I) (L)OVE (Y)OU

xxx

Debs
30-08-2005, 22:20
I ran into a stranger as he passed by,
"Oh excuse me please" was my reply.
He said, "Please excuse me too;
I wasn't watching for you."
We were very polite, this stranger and I.
We went on our way and we said good-bye.
But at home a different story is told,
How we treat our loved ones, young and old.
Later that day, cooking the evening meal,
My son stood beside me very still.
When I turned, I nearly knocked him down.
"Move out of the way," I said with a frown.
He walked away, his little heart broken.
I didn't realize how harshly I'd spoken.
While I lay awake in bed,
God's still small voice came to me and said,
"While dealing with a stranger, common courtesy you use,
but the children you love, you seem to abuse.
Go and look on the kitchen floor,
You'll find some flowers there by the door.
Those are the flowers he brought for you.
He picked them himself: pink, yellow and blue.
He stood very quietly not to spoil the surprise,
you never saw the tears that filled his little eyes."
By this time, I felt very small,
And now my tears began to fall.
I quietly went and knelt by his bed;
"Wake up, little one, wake up," I said.
"Are these the flowers you picked for me?"
He smiled, "I found 'em, out by the tree.
I picked 'em because they're pretty like you.
I knew you'd like 'em, especially the blue."
I said, "Son, I'm very sorry for the way I acted today;
I shouldn't have yelled at you that way."
He said, "Oh, Mom, that's okay.
I love you anyway."
I said, "Son, I love you too,
and I do like the flowers, especially the blue."


xxx


awww that is so true i do sometimes yell at con for things espeically when im really busy or stressed!! i watch other half do it sometimes and i see connors hurt little face, he always comes to me for a cuddle but i never think of that same hurt face when i do it!! will have to be more careful how i say things from now on!

Jojo
01-09-2005, 12:24
That is so true debs - sometimes if I'm tired, I'll tell Ci off for the smallest thing, and then feel awful cause his bottom lip will start trembling etc and then I just give him a really huge hug etc. When hubby tells him off I am like - what did you do that for?? and get really angry with him! I'm going to be thinking before I am shouting now me thinks!!

RealityGap
01-09-2005, 14:27
its so so true isnt it - how quick are we to get annoyed at our kids.......this mummy is gonna try harder!!

eastenderfan_91
01-09-2005, 14:57
this is so true im not a mum as i am still very young but i know with my cousins and stuff

hazey
01-09-2005, 18:25
Eastenderfan please feed your pet its going to die....

eastenderfan_91
01-09-2005, 18:28
ok sorr i ran out of money and have just brought it back up thank you

Debs
01-09-2005, 23:04
That is so true debs - sometimes if I'm tired, I'll tell Ci off for the smallest thing, and then feel awful cause his bottom lip will start trembling etc and then I just give him a really huge hug etc. When hubby tells him off I am like - what did you do that for?? and get really angry with him! I'm going to be thinking before I am shouting now me thinks!!



yeah connor will just pout and look at me and i feel so bad.

chance
02-09-2005, 09:57
That is so true debs - sometimes if I'm tired, I'll tell Ci off for the smallest thing, and then feel awful cause his bottom lip will start trembling etc and then I just give him a really huge hug etc. When hubby tells him off I am like - what did you do that for?? and get really angry with him! I'm going to be thinking before I am shouting now me thinks!!
i know! us mums are terrible! when we tell em off for something trivial we feel terrible etc.but then when the other half does it we go mad at em.they cant win!

Luna
02-09-2005, 10:45
that is so sad....but so true

RealityGap
02-09-2005, 10:50
i know! us mums are terrible! when we tell em off for something trivial we feel terrible etc.but then when the other half does it we go mad at em.they cant win!

Oh how true - I am so so bad for this - this mummy and wife must try harder!!

Jojo
02-09-2005, 10:51
i know! us mums are terrible! when we tell em off for something trivial we feel terrible etc.but then when the other half does it we go mad at em.they cant win!I suppose its our protective nature that comes out - its funnier when they get older though - you are trying your hardest to untie the apron strings then!!!

Jojo
02-09-2005, 10:52
Oh how true - I am so so bad for this - this mummy and wife must try harder!!But they're our children - not their daddys :rotfl:

We are allowed to tell them off, no one else is!! :rotfl: