What a loss !

[Jess Rulz]

my cousin had a baby girl 3 weeks ago and the baby passed away when she was 2weeks old ! my cousin has since not left her house ! i was wondering how i could help her come to terms with it !

[CrazyLea]

so sorry to hear this

[Chris_2k11]

Sorry to hear this x I think you should just try to give her time and some space x Sorry again xx

[Debs]

that such sad news.

my mate lost 3 kids during her pregnancy. the first time at 16 weeks she had twins and then at 7 months with her third. she was distraught bless her. i just sat with her and talked to her and kept her company. she went to counselling through the hospital and that helped her.

horrid thing to have to go through.

[Jade]

Ok I'll try my best with this.

Two weeks is not a very long amount of time to deal with something like this so I wouldnt see it as abnormal for her not to have left her house.

I think that all you can do is to be there if she wants to talk, but also be there if she doesnt if you know what I mean. If you are really worried about her well being and are scared she may do somthing to harm herself it is important that other family members are aware of this, if she does have a partner he must be feeling quite raw at the moment but it might be worth having a word with him as well.

I guess the most important things it to let her know your there for her, even making sure she has enough bread, milk etc or going round to clean her house could help as its probably the last thing on her mind.

Sorry to here of your loss as well.

Hope this could be of some help.

[hannah-mj]

oooooh sorry to hear about this , im not good at this kinda stuff cause im only thirteen but i suppose just let her have her space then when she is ready , talk to her and make sure you take her out to have some fun :D x x x

[Dr. Tangliss]

I am so sorry to hear this.

[Abi]

I would just give her some time, space, and show that you are there for her

[Dr. Tangliss]

In times like this, that's all you can do. Just show you are there, and let her have a shoulder to cry on.

[chance]

arrr sorry to hear this,it must be terrible when you have a miscarriage but even more so if there baby has been born and then has passed away.poor women,its best to give her the time alone that she needs to come to terms with it but also to let her know you are there for her should she need you.

[alan45]

Here is a very good site
http://www.uk-sands.org/

[~Sooz~]

that's so tragic. I'd agree with the others, just let her know you are there to talk to if she needs you, just be around for her, care for her and give her lots of hugs and love which I'm sure you will be anyway.

[eastenderfan_91]

sorry to hear this may be spend some time with her and talk about how she feels that may help

[Gabby]

Im so sorry to hear this:( I would agree with others just let her have time to her self, when shes ready im sure she will let you know. Sorry again xx

[Abbie]

im so sorry to here about that

[nicole28]

Yes, I am sorry too. You should try and talk to her. Don't worry though she wil be fine if she just gets support from her friends and family. Just support her.

[*-Rooney-*]

my cousin had a baby girl 3 weeks ago and the baby passed away when she was 2weeks old ! my cousin has since not left her house ! i was wondering how i could help her come to terms with it !

sorry about this but i dont think there is much you can do or anyone for that matter she needs her space and time alone