Stealing

[Incognito]

What would you do if you caught your partner (well ex) stealing from you?

[angelblue]

Hi if my friend or ex started stealing from me i would cut all ties because if you care for someone or have respect for someone you dont steal from them :lol:

[Jojo]

Stealing is wrong. If I was still friends with my ex and caught them stealing from me, then they would have to go take a running jump. If you're friends, why couldn't they ask you for whatever they needed?? As angel says, respect has gone when they do this and so has the trust - wave them goodbye

[Incognito]

He said he didn't ask because he knew I wouldn't give him the money. He said he needed the money desperately to pay in to his account and he was going to replace it today.

[angelblue]

That is no excuse in my book however desperate you are you dont do that can i ask does he have an job :lol:

[Jojo]

I agree angel, if he had any respect for you, he would ask and understand if you said no - his mess, he needs to sort it out and not by stealing from you.

[Incognito]

He doesn't have a job and is trying to get benefits but they are giving him the runaround.

It is just so out of character even though he is far from perfect - and he has certainly treated me bad in our relationship - but it was still a shock to catch him red-handed.

[angelblue]

I think if you remain friend i think you will find it hard to trust him again because he has done it once what stopping him doing it again babes but it your choice though but in my opinion i would personally not be friends with him again because stealing is wrong however desperate he was you dont do that especially to a friend :lol:

[Jojo]

And would he have given the money back to you today, if you hadn't caught him?? He has taken away the trust from your friendship, and you don't deserve that. If he knew you weren't going to lend him the money, isn't it obvious to him that stealing it from you is far worse??!

[Treacle]

I'd chop an important part of his anatomy off.

[angelblue]

WQ i am loving your idea :rotfl:

[Jojo]

It'd certainly make him think twice about doing it again :lol:

[Treacle]

:lol: Then I'd boil it, serve it with a "knob" of butter and make him eat it before sending him off on his way.

[Jojo]

:rotfl: :rotfl:

[Treacle]

:rotfl: :rotfl:
Coat it in batter and deep fry...

[Jojo]

:rotfl: Oh stop, I'm hurting :rotfl:

[Treacle]

Infact I'd frame it and put it above the mantel piece.

No seriously if someone did that to me, I would smack them but I doubt I'd hurt them with a pair of scissors but obviously it would depend on what they were stealing.

[Luna]

You can be so crule WQ you scare me sometimes :D

I would cut all ties with him. Wouldn't be able to trust him fully again

[Treacle]

You can be so crule WQ you scare me sometimes :D

I would cut all ties with him. Wouldn't be able to trust him fully again It would go in the food processor and I'd make him a slush puppy with it.

[Luna]

yuk :sick: please dont tell me you'd drink from it afterward???? :sick: :sick: :sick:

[Treacle]

yuk :sick: please dont tell me you'd drink from it afterward???? :sick: :sick: :sick:
No but I'd make him drink the mixture.

[Treacle]

Anyways back on topic, seriously there wouldn't be enough trust for the relationship to continue.

[Trinity]

As The guy is already an 'ex' how come he was in a position to steal from you? If he knew that you would so no if he asked then he was definitely stealing ans not borrowing, he had obviously considered asking and decided not to. I wouldn't trust him at all.

[Treacle]

If he was stealing my make-up then that's a crimnal offence. Anything else I could probably forgive given time.