Have a problem, C is being bullied at school. Well i say bullied as that is what im classing it as now!
since he started this school in septemeber this boy has become a problem, a few weeks ago he shoved connor onto the ground and put his hands round his neck, this wasnt the first incident but was the moment i sat up and thought oh hmm!!! c worked himself up all weekend and was sick the nigth before a trip, the trip was to the cinema on the train and was worried that this child was going to push him under teh train!!
now things have happened since and i went in to complain to th ehead about something else on monday, but also bought up the child being nasty to c! he wasnt very sympathetic in fact i didnt feel i got much from him at all!
now today connor has come home saying he has not had a good day and while playing football the horrid child was trying to push him over and generally not being nice to him! the next break the child came up to con and said 'you want some more of that' con said he was saying it in his ear quite nastily, and con thinks he means more pushing and trying to get him on teh ground again. this boy tells other children to try and do stuff to connor as well! but he also told connor he was going to pull him up on the roof and give him more!!!!!!!!
ive talked to his teacher, ive been to the ead and im going back tomorrow. But what im not happy with is the attitude to bullies!! connor told his teacehr what had happened today and she told him when things happen , he has to deal with it first?????? that dosent sound rigth to me at all. and apprently last week in anti bullying week they were all told if someone is being nasty or bullying you, then you should make friends with the bully??
if you have managed to read all that, what should i do now?? is it normal to be told to make friends with your bully?? should my 7 year old be dealing with bully first?? he now dosent feel like he can go to teacher if anything happens!