the first time

[leo~is~fit]

hes only a year older than me

[chance]

yer me and ma boyfriend have talked about it and we both want me to be on the pill and use condoms too. ma mates have been saying it really hurts the first time - i hope not.

didnt hurt me but everyone is different

[Jade]

It will be the most memorable 30 secs of your life!

On another note, brook advisory centres are good for younger people, male and female its all confidential and as they are used to dealing with teenagers/younge adults. http://www.brook.org.uk/content/

It would be a sensible idea to wait until you are 16 as most people have already said.

[~Sooz~]

its more just an uncomfortable feeling, if you take your time, if you try and move things too fast it will hurt, just relax and take your time but I'm with the ones that think you should wait until you are 16, there's no rush.

[brenda1971]

If your boyfriend loves you then he will wait until your 16.But I agree if you want to talk to someone go to the family planning clinic as they have advice on various types of contraception.

[leo~is~fit]

i'd just like to say thanks to everyone who gave me great advice for this. We went along to the doctors today and its thanks to people on here that i went.

[willow]

please make sure you are ready,and have got reliable contraception.
i say this from experiace as i got pregnant with my son the first time,
as long as you are sure this is what you want

[eastenderfan_91]

yer make sure you think about it and use protection and that you really love each other it sounds like you do to me but make sure as he will be your first time good luck anyway

[Eastenders_4ev@]

I think you sould wait but, if you think your ready and have contraception, then you should be ok, but dont rush it lol.

How did you get on at the doctors? (if you dont mind me asking)

[leo~is~fit]

i dont mind tellin lol. the doctor has put me on the pill and told ma boyf to be careful n uses condoms.