I honestly see a bond happening between Ben and Phil if Ian will just back off.. Peggy should at least get to be the Gramma , it isn't as if Ben doesn't have family besides Ian ( who is just his half bro ) Jane is a great character in all this, she has always been good with the twins and Bobby.. Ian is obviously the muppet he always will be, dredging up stuff that Phil used to do to him ( i.e. putting his head in the bog) was another example of how immature Ian can be...Ben seems to be a level headed little boy and Ian being an OVERPROTECTIVE twit is not going to help matters !!! Ian ticks me off every time....