Right well.. I am going to try and sum this post up so it's like essay like.. Very short sentences
My mum's mum is in a coma as she dosen't take good care of herself. We don't think she is going to get better, we reckon her kidney's failed..
My grandma hasn't got a good relationship with anyone, she pushes everyone away from her and hold's onto bad things in the past and she has had a sad past which is why she is the way she is, if that makes sense.
My grandma does not live in the UK but in another country..
We don't think she is going to get better and there is a high risk she will die and I am worried about how she is going to cope with her death..
My dad's dad died when I was around 8-9 and I can't remember much but he sort of put a brave face in front of other people but obviously he wanted to cry and he did in front of mum when he found out.. All my grandparents live in another country, so he went off. Oh and because they live in another country at the time I didn't cry for my grandad but was upset for my dad (as he went away lol).. I don't think I will cry now either but if I do I reckon it's going to be more for my mum.. *I am welling up now lol*
I don't think my mum will go and visit her mum and she has already said if she dies she dosen't think she will because of situations and I am not going to go into that..
But I am just worried about how she will cope if my grandma dies.. I don't know how she will react because it hasn't happened before but is there any way I can help her out? Different people cope in different ways right.. What if she wants to keep busy.. What if she dosen't want to do anything?...
So much for keeping it short but I tried my best
Thanks guys!