well you could give her a link to this thread joking
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If I did talk to her about it (in a reasonable way), she'd probably go to the pastoral team (a bit like councellors but are allowed to punish people) and say I was bullying her
First of all explain the situation to them first about how your feeling and what you plan to do..be very careful about this Ill tell you a story which I dont tell too often
back in the days of when I was at school there was a clique type group I was one of the main members (one of the top) there was a girl who was very clingy and whingy and kept following us around and ringing us non stop and buying us gifts but we hated her so I made the mistake of actually saying to this girl that she was annoying and we hated her and in no certain terms told her where to go!she got really upset and ran away for a few days when she returned she confessed all to her parents and her parents came in to school to have it out with me.they told me a few home truths.I should of just let it slide but I didnt and I spread mallcious gossip in which everyone at school gave her a really bad time for it in the end she became depressed she was scared to come into school,when she did she would cry all by herself at lunchtimes and became very depressed I should of stopped it then but I thought t would blow over - but things got on top and she went out one night and started to drink and she drunk so much she got in a state and she fell from a wall on which she was sitting on-she gained a concussion but these events made me think about what had happened and I begged for forgiveness but rightfully she didnt! what happened after they transfered her to a diffrent school and I became a bit of a hated figure for a while and my behaviour grew a little worse but I changed for the better in later years after I saw her again and she told me what I had done made her want to die and things I thought I would have councilling to solve why I was like that which is a diffrent story but in the end we became friends and still are..but it is a bitter pill to swallow looking back on it
wow cant belive I let all of that out after all this time..anyway the point of the story is dont hurt her feelings be carefull what you say and if you can be freinds with her-why not? everyones diffrent for a reason and think one day you may need a friend for you for whatever reason-so dont blow it
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